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~~~Limited time offer~~~ 29yr

2009-11-10T16:14:07-08:00

You are an honest man and never really thought about an affair, but here you are.

You are a confident man but certainly not arrogant. You are able to stay hard and have sex for a long time. You are white, married and very aggressive in bed. This aggression has been supressed for many years and you are just waiting for your Lustful lover to unleash you. My bite size boobs, petite body frame and delicate features remind you of how young I am, our age gap perhaps, and this gives you a rush. My hourglass figure and shaven pussy seduce you to explore my womanhood. You stare at me like prey, as I lay naked in bed waiting for you...

You cant get me out of your head no matter what you do. You are consumed by the anticipation of our next sexual interlude. Then you realize, it has been years since you felt so alive. It is me, your Asian Lustful lover that makes you feel so empowered. Intense desire for each other, passion, desire...LUST...I have tapped into your sexual desires that you did not even know you had. You are certain that with me, all your sexual desires are encouraged and welcomed. With me you feel safe. Happy. You know that you and your loved ones will never be compromised because your Lustful lover respects the limitations of the Lustful Affair.

Plus if you:

-are romantic

-have big hands and know what to do with them

-know the difference between making love, having sex and Fucking...and be able to do all 3 in one night!

You must be ready to do this. Long drawn out email correspondence is not my thing. If you really want this, you should be able to prove that you can have sex for a long time. This is not for the man who taps out on round one. I'm not the girl for you. For the men who can only provide a 15 minute picnic, sorry, I need sex way longer than that.. Am I asking too much? Absolutely. That's because you get way, way more in return.

Excellent hygeine, disease free a must. And if I don't find the lucky man to have a Lustful Affair with here, there's always okcupid.com.

Whata with the married men on here???? (santa rosa)

2009-11-10T16:11:31-08:00

IF your not happy get a divorce.
If your single and like us thick white gurls, holla!

Newe in SF (SF, CA ) 36yr

2009-11-10T16:11:04-08:00

I never thought I would be doing this but what the hell here I am doing it...
I am looking for someone who is fun,and likes to enjoy a good glass of wine deosn't complain about life.

We ALL know life can be a total PEACH at times. No reason to complain about it all the TIME. Especially
When you are trying to have fun.

HAHA... I am complaining about complainers... I see the irony here.

Oh yeah! I am not looking for a one stand. I am not gonna comeover to your house to drink a "BOTTLE OF WINE" and No you can't come to my house to drink a "BOTTLE OF WINE" ( for our first encounter) ,
you are not 2000 years old! or Uder 30.
you are not crip, married, have a living girlfriend, crazy, big nose (lol JK) you can have a big nose, just odn't be crazy! Or I mean bad crazy... Good Crazy is always good.....

If interested email me!

To put it simply... (san jose north) 32yr

2009-11-10T16:07:43-08:00

I am a mixed black/white woman looking for a sweet and younger white guy to get to know and hang out with. I point out exactly what I am and exactly what I am looking for to save you and me the hassle of asking questions back and forth about what we prefer...And everyone has their own taste and preferences. I am super shy and quiet at first, But when I get to know you I open up and let the real me come out. Im laid back and love music (alternative, new wave, punk, dark wave, trip hop to name a few) I love movies and animals and outdoors and travel, and just hanging out with my friends and acting silly. I do not drink or smoke, I am average height and weight, I have dark brown hair that I dye black and brown eyes and dimples. I have 9 tattoos (in places you cant see unless I show you) and my labret is pierced. Looks are not important to me in a guy...Just someone I can trust and who is sincere. Thanks

A simple life... (SOMA / south beach) 45yr

2009-11-10T15:49:27-08:00

Simple life, simple pleasures, simple needs. Lots of fun, not too serious. Resilient and kind. That's pretty much all I am and what I'd like to have in a partner.

As cliche as it sounds, I do love my life and the many blessing I've been handed. I like my independence. I'm shy but a social butterfly when needed.

It's time for me to get serious and have a partner. A nice man, ready to settle. Done 'playing the field' yet not done having fun.

So getting back to basics, I'd like to meet someone who is in a similar space. Financially stable and responsible, career oriented and not crisis driven. I like and have travelled quite a bit. I'm a bit of a foodie, a decent cook and baker. I dont like shopping nor spending more than 30 minutes gussy-ing up. Basic (long) hair and make up; sometimes jeans, sometimes a little black dress.

I'm asian, 5'2", avg body, lovely smile. You..I'm open to possibilities...

Creative writer seeks happiness (San Jose)

2009-11-10T15:49:20-08:00

I am an older woman looking for a younger man, who enjoys the simple things of life. I am aggressive and confident in what I want to achieve and, am willing to go the distance to obtain it. I love being a Mom and Grandmother but am not the "knitting, in the rocking chair and baking the cookies" type. I enjoy dinners out, movies, clubbing, dancing, walks in the park; amusements parks are always fun, as I am a kid at heart. I am a novice writer; only discovered this passion a few years ago and have embraced this new found imagination and creativity. I am committed to my daughter and family of friends; but now have found myself seeking a companion who doesn't shy away from the realities of life. I have a great sense of humor; not afraid to laugh at myself; I am extremely honest and upfront; I do not play head games. I am a "true blonde", but I do not use that to my advantage; I can't seem to pull off the "dazed and confused" look that often! I am currently an Executive Assistant, who is working on special projects.

Would love to meet a guy who is funny; not afraid to laugh at himself. Someone who's lifestyle and personality can be intertwined with mine; develop a partnership that will enhance our existing lifestyles and build a foundation for obtaining future goals, dreams and desires. (Translation: I am NOT looking for just some "playtime!!!") Communication, intelligence, honesty, aggressiveness, and confidence are key assets in procuring a solid and committed relationship with me. I look for man who is up for a challenge; enjoys a bit of comedy in his life. Drama happens; that's a fact but its how you shape and mold it into something positive that can be intriguing to me. I am looking for a "real" man who is not afraid to just be himself.

Please note my location; I am NOT looking for a "long distance" or "internet" relationship. Thank you.

Looking for a normal guy (san jose west) 31yr

2009-11-10T15:48:19-08:00

Does it have to be this hard? I am attractive and in shape. You should be too. I don�t mind if you�re hairy, bald, have tattoos (not too much), just don�t be old and be tall and semi good looking and normal! I am seriously looking for someone to meet and hopefully that would lead to something meaningful, so please be serious if you are going to reply.

what the helllll i'm doing here??lol (oakland lake merritt / grand) 28yr

2009-11-10T15:44:54-08:00

Checking whats out there...
Please lets save each others time...should we??
You: very handsome, fit, free spirit, affectionate.goofyyyyyyyyyyyy
Me: for you to find out...
send me a close up face pic and a full body pic (NO DICK PICS PLEASEEEEEE) :)

Looking to date exclusively

2009-11-10T15:44:35-08:00

What are you men looking for?

I am together, attractive, in good shape, healthy, fun personality, and have good morals and values.

I'd like to find a good man with all of those qualities.

If you're looking to meet an attractive and good woman, send me your photo and let me know what you're looking for.

Preference: men in 40s, hwp, secure, great personality, i love a man that is clean cut and well-groomed and must be in shape.

What I ask for I give back in return.

Send me your picture to start a dialogue.

Looking for something different.... - w4m (san jose north) 28yr

2009-11-10T15:41:03-08:00

Hey, i'm looking for something totally different from my current situation! the guy i'm with is so super serious all the time! i can't stand it, yet for some reason i can't leave, maybe it's the benz! =) anyways, i want someone that can make me laugh, and always has something fun and new to do! no matter how small or simple, just fun and different!

i really don't have a type that i'm looking for. race itsn't important to me either, it depends on your personality and swagger. so just send me an email, you never know, you could be the one i pic! i live in sunnyvale, can't we meet in my neck of the woods?

Home Depot (pittsburg / antioch) 50yr

2009-11-10T15:37:33-08:00

Are you the guy I saw at Home Depot last weekend?

You were between 6' and 6'4", teddy bear build (ex linebacker type), very kind eyes, great smile, beard and a full head of hair. Probably late 40's early 50's ....

You saw me, looked me up and down and even seemed to follow me down a couple of aisles, but maybe thought I was with someone so didn't say hello. I am blonde, 5'7", cuddly build, very buxom and was wearing a red dress ....

You were so hot! Such a manly man! Big muscular arms, looked just right to hold me ---- Reminds me of the song "Come a little bit closer, you are my kind of man, so big and so strong. Come a little bit closer, I'm all alone and the night is so long ......"

Well, I didn't really see you - but if I had, I'd be writing this too. If you think it possibly could have been you - send me an email and maybe the magic will work

Are there any attractive single guys left? (campbell) 31yr

2009-11-10T15:35:28-08:00

If so, email me. I am single and attractive. Please be near my age.

Tall, handsome, sexy ...... (45-55) (concord / pleasant hill / martinez) 50yr

2009-11-10T15:32:27-08:00

Could you be the ONE I am looking for?
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Could I be the *one* YOU are looking for?
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*Life has steadily marched on and being tired of the single life, I am ready to meet "him" and settle down*
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I have been too much in my head and need to come down and find my life again. I�ve missed out on a lot this last year and am looking forward to discovering *me.* Funny how we can lose track of ourselves so easily when life gets busy, or we get too focused, sometimes on the wrong things. I have the financial stability now, the kids are grown and have their wings (or are trying to get them), my career is in a comfortable place and yet, I have no one to share it with. A sad commentary, true, but all too common both for men and women these days.
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I love to try new things and have an adventurous spirit. Not the extreme kind of adventure, but the exploring a new place, traveling somewhere I have never been, trying a new food (cooking or eating out) and other rather intimate adventures as well.
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Although, I have only a little knowledge, I am a wine aficionado, always looking for a new wine that speaks not just to my palette but also to my heart. I love discovering new sounds (as in music) that move my soul and help me feel to a new depth. I know I sound like a romantic and maybe I am a bit. But life has played this trick on me � it has required me to take the helm (along with the responsibility) and stay too much in my head in order to provide the necessary guidance. I�ve gotten used to it and am not complaining, but it isn�t where I want my life. So, once again I find myself working on the right brain stuff, reconnecting with myself and working on expanding my hobbies.
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*How I long to let go of the helm and let someone else drive*
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The gentleman I am looking for is classy, over six feet tall and not on the lean side, 45-55 years old - a Christian man of integrity and honesty - an educated professional, secure in who he is � so I can be secure with him.
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*Oh, to be held in his arms and feel the weight of responsibility and concern lifted, to rest in the sense of rightness and security he provides*
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Me? I am 5�8�, blonde and blue, easy to be with as well as to look at. I enjoy cooking and sailing and hiking and reading and dancing and � and � and �.
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* I have seen and heard you in my dreams, do you truly exist?*
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There is certainly a lot more I could say about myself, but would rather learn a little about you first. Perhaps you will tell me a bit about how you like to spend your weekends, what kind of work you do, what your passions are, where you live or what you are looking for in a woman or perhaps you would even send me a pic. I do require more than a single line with a photo though. Tell me something that will pique my interest!
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*A man with patience so I can reveal my vulnerability*
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More about me � I am NOT like all the other women here on CL and am serious about meeting someone to spend the rest of my life with. But also have standards. No drugs/smoking/no wife/no girlfriend (or boyfriend for that matter)

No more games please - w4m (san jose north) 24yr

2009-11-10T15:23:04-08:00

I just dumped my last boyfriend because of all the mindgames and Im sooo sick of it. Im looking for a little fun without the drama or ultimatums etc, if youre able to keep things fun and simple youre the sorta guy Im looking for. Im a fun, friendly and very easygoing (eager to please) sorta gal, and Id like to hook up with someone who will appreciate that.

Im 24 btw, if youre a bit younger or older, thats fine...also status doesnt matter I dont really care if youre single or not as long as youre okay with being discreet if you do have someone. Im not going to play games with you either, I want to mail you first see what youre like and if I like what I see/read, then I'd like to meet up for a coffee somewhere. Starbucks suits me fine and theres one on Santa Clara str we can go to...or where ever.

Im not making any promises but if theres chemistry who knows how far this can take us, as long as we keep feelings out of it, Im game for just about anything. Now tell me about you. x

I'm all you need.... - w4m (Marit) 25yr

2009-11-10T15:02:35-08:00

I like taking pictures when I�m walking on trails no matter if it�s a little bug I take a picture. I like hanging out with friends and just having fun. I love horror movies and Ultimate Frisbee. I want to meet a guy that can hang playing Ultimate Frisbee with me and then wants to cuddle on the couch while watching a horror movie with me. So if you that guy I want to hear from you. We could grab the latest new horror movie and head back to my place to watch it!

i want someone real (santa clara) 23yr

2009-11-10T15:00:17-08:00

hey whats up? ive never done this before but i was curious how it works. i would attach my picture but i dont have one on a computer, i do have FB and myspace! I am 5 9' black hair and i love keeping in shape, so im very atheltic!!I am east indian, but race does not matter to me, just a heads up to those that do.. Um i love snowboarding, swimming, sking, surfing (least trying to lol) and mostly SHOPPING, i cant go a day wo shopping! anyhow i can keep going on but god knows if youll even respond so talk to u if u do. =) please include a pic if so, since i am a girl, and like guys can be capable of anything so i dont post pix up here, but do hve them on fb and myspace. =)

Like Quiche?? Looking for a real man (north bay) 53yr

2009-11-10T14:58:54-08:00

NOT macho...NOT dominant..NOT controlling..
But secure, mature, ...able to communicate and talk about whatever ...

If you're still reading this and are emotionally stable, financially on the ball.. at least 5'10"..
I would like to meet you.. !!

Me: Great laugh and smile I am told.

5'6" -physically fit ,,very active...
Fun, unencumbered, playful,
Graduate degrees, certificates...blah.. blah.. blah..
Want a partner, friend , lover who can eventually become family.....

If you would like to connect, please send me a pic and tell me what you are looking for.

Looking for casual (concord / pleasant hill / martinez) 28yr

2009-11-10T14:44:36-08:00

I am a single mixed (caucasian / Latina females)
5'8, 145, long brown hair etc, see picture s"-)

I am looking for a casual connection with a easy going, uninhibited guy who is open to hanging out and more if the chemistry is right
I am open to meeting if you are between 18 and 40 only.
Please be real, and provide me with a picture or two so that I know who I am talking to, please do not respond with one liners and let me know what you are looking for

How do you like it? - w4m (Rick) 22yr

2009-11-10T14:38:05-08:00

Looking for casual friends to start off. Branching out my wings. Diversity is part of my life as my Life is Diversity.He must be Someone who is able to hold his own and stand on his own two feet with the courage of his own convictions and yet, has the ability, to agree to disagree. Not that I am good at debate, because I am not. Someone knowledgeable about Culture, has experienced varied life experiences. Someone who loves animals, dogs especially (I have 3 and like to take them to Spring Lake Regional Park with them), and children. Someone who is kind, understanding and honest and can deal with raw honesty. Someone who values Honor. Someone who is able to walk comfortably amongst those with disabilities; are vulnerable or poor; as well as those who are in the older population without judgements, but with the knowledge that we are all the same.

RERE: Coffee anyone? Maybe brunch? - 26 (marina / cow hollow) (San Francisco) 32yr

2009-11-10T14:35:37-08:00

You have got to get a life. I know rejection sucks, but really now...You've finally proven to me that CL Psychos DO exist. BRAVO retard!

Female searching the right guy - w4m (santa rosa) 27yr

2009-11-10T14:32:03-08:00

I'm quite independent and don't like being restricted in any sense and don't go on for jealousy. Things I enjoy doing are socializing with friends, watching live music going to festivals, beach, mountain biking, good restaurants, and good wines. Love cooking and good movies. I would love to be able to experience these things with someone who has the same interests. I am looking for someone to share intelligent conversation.

rewarding myself! - w4m (Fairbanks) 24yr

2009-11-10T14:26:26-08:00

Did what I had to do in school, now Im ready to reward myself with some meaningless action! If youre a jerk dont bother responding to me. When I get to know you better maybe we can play tie me up. Lets trade pics, and please tell me about yourself in the process.

Confused... (sunnyvale) 27yr

2009-11-10T14:11:52-08:00

I am 27 years old, live in Sunnyvale, work in San Jose, a mother to a 10 month old baby boy and married.

I have spent the last several months contemplating my marriage and trying to decide what to do. I'm torn in my decision and am looking for someone to talk to who may either be in a situation similar to mine or have already been in one similar in the past. I'm nNOT looking to cheat on my husband or disrespect him but I am looking for a man who has experience and is patient, has time and is willing to listen with an open-mind and without passing judgement. I can't tell you that I am ready to leave my marriage but I can't tell you that I want to stay either...that's why I need someone to talk to. I am hoping to just start out by e-mailing until I am comfortable enough to meet in person.

If you are available and are interested in getting to know me, my situation and can accept my decision (or in this case...lack of decision), I would love to hear from you.

Looking for an activity partner and possibly more... (walnut creek) 24yr

2009-11-10T14:11:26-08:00

Hi! I am a 24 year old female that just moved to Walnut Creek. Since I'm new to the area I am looking for someone to hang out with, and maybe show me around town. I haven't been to a down town bar yet, but I hear they're great. I love to hike (and live right by a mountain), go to the gym (but need a little motivation) and I have a puppy that I take to the dog park sometimes. I am interested in joining some sort of activity club, or social group to start making new friends. If you are interested, please email me with your thoughts. Please NO dirty emails or sex talk. That is NOT what I am looking for. Thanks!!! :)

Ready :) (novato) 37yr

2009-11-10T14:04:59-08:00

Hi!

First, I have to tell you, on certain levels I'm a normal, traditional, girl-next-door-kinda-woman - and on other levels, I don't fit the typical mold at all.
I think I'm super fun, a good listener, energetic, grounded, intelligent, attractive (blonde/blue/5'6"/sweet curves), sensitive, warm, capable, and strong-hearted.

I'm a total kind of person - I tend to really go-for-it in terms of relationship. That doesn't mean I'm looking to settle down, get married - or even be monogamous - unless that's what organically happens. I'm just looking for something fun, inspiring, happy - something that feels good and gets my heart and mind beating. I love to learn and grow - and I feel that connecting to others is the best (and funnest) place for personal growth and transformation.

I like to hike, be in nature, eat good food, hang out with my friends, see movies, go to concerts when I can, and I actually really like to work (believe it or not).

I'm so grateful to be 37. Feels like the more I learn, the more open I become, and the more I realize that life just gets better and better.

I'm excited for what the future holds.

Sweet asian woman (san jose south)

2009-11-10T13:58:26-08:00

I would like to have a friend for a long term relationship. Its been a couple years now and i wold love to have a bf that you can call loving nicknames. I need that bonding, someone with strong communication skills and definitely affectionate. Personality is priority in my book.

Honestly, i want to be loved but also taken care of financially. I know this is quite upfront but i'm really a sweet and loving person in return.

I am a cute asian woman, late 30's and have a lot of great qualities. Please be a mature swm.

I know what i want, do you?! If so, please send a picture and a contact number if possible.

Sugar daddy,Benefactor.... (ask) 32yr

2009-11-10T13:46:36-08:00

Sugar Daddy, Benefactor, or the like of bbw?

Then you should contact me as I would like to start a rapport with you.

Me: light-skinned, 5'9", bbw and fun.

No games, only serious men please.

Be ready, willing, and able.

Don't hesitate to contact me.

I await your reply...

Cute Girl Seeks Poly Relationship (berkeley) 23yr

2009-11-10T13:44:46-08:00

I'm a cute girl in a poly relationship and I'm looking for an awesome interesting geeky cute guy to spend time with.
I'm 5'4" white, blonde hair, blue eyes, size 12. I like pinball and indie music. I am very playful and silly, you should be too.

I'm very honest and straightforward and I prefer that you be too.

The most important things for me are that you have some poly experience, are respectful and not pushy and love cuddling and making out.

So tell me about yourself (the more time it seems like you spent on this the better) and send me a g-rated picture and I'll do the same if I like what you have to say. If you only send one sentence or no picture, and it doesn't seem like you actually read the ad I can guarantee that I won't reply.

Looking for someone to date, see where it goes!! (santa clara) 38yr

2009-11-10T13:44:22-08:00

PLEASE do not respond if your in the middle of a divorce, falling out, or are married....know what you want before you reply!!!

I am sitting here, scrolling thru the ads, YUCK! So I decided to make my own. I am divorced, single mom, 38, 5'9, hwp, and in search of fun times. A movie, something outdoors, shooting pool, whatever. I would love to meet someone who isn't shy or quiet as I am quite the opposite. Looking for dating leading to a ltr preferably if it should happen. Would be cool if you also had a kid(s) but not a requirement!

Send me a pic and I will respond with mine too. Lets chat, see where it leads, and meet!!

Are you free, I have lots of time! - w4m (terrace way) 27yr

2009-11-10T13:37:47-08:00

Literally, i have all the time on my hands right now! i'm not in school, i'm not working right now...i'm so bored! help!!! just kidding..anyways, i'm not really sure how i ended up here, but, what the heck, there has to be someone here!

i'm always looking for new friends too, so if nothing else, maybe we can have some fun together just as friends. who knows...

i really would like to go on a date the first time that we meet....i hope that is ok...but that is just what i want...i'm a cheap date though, you can just take me to carmens burger bar..my favorite place to go, when i'm NOT in the mood for something healthy!

OK, NOW I'M GETTING TICKED (santa rosa) 60yr

2009-11-10T13:35:05-08:00

I've tried the simple approach, now I'm going to get specific. Here's what I'm looking for: Your single, between 55 and 65, your 5'7" or taller and weight appropriate. You live in the North Bay or very close by. You're probably not drop dead handsom, but you're not Atilla The Hun either. You know how to bathe, wash your hair, brush your teeth, do your laundry, and pick up a wet towell, and you actually do those things on a regular basis. You can write a response with more than six words in it and you can carry on a conversation. You have a sense of humor, love to laugh and don't create a lot of drama. You have a job or source of income and a place to live. Your intelligent and interested in what's going on in the world. You have some baggage, we all do, but you have, or are working through it. You're romantic, honest, sensual, playful, considerate, active, engaged in life. You are probably looking for me while I'm looking for you. I realize this makes me look like I'm very demending, but I'm not. I'm just an attractive, interesting, intelligent, woman looking for a nice guy to share some of my time and maybe my life with. I know you're out there, so email, and tell me something about yourself, and let's get on with it.

Can we play together - w4m (santa rosa) 26yr

2009-11-10T13:29:05-08:00

I love to sing, camping, horses, the beach or the later. I'm very easy to get along with and I�m great cook. I Love to work out. I'm usually pretty active but sometimes I like to take a break and unwind a bit behind closed doors. So if you like to unwind also like that then I want to get to know you as soon as possible thers no time to be shy here!!

re: Outgoing girl seeks attractive man - w4m - 28 (Brooks Park) (Brooks Park) 28yr

2009-11-10T13:23:58-08:00

Hi, I tried emailing you, and it got bounced back. Please email me, or tell me how to reach you. Thanks !

(I am a guy, trying to contact the original poster of the above ad, who is a female...thx)

Asian lady looking for LTR (financial district) 43yr

2009-11-10T13:23:05-08:00

I�m Chinese/American, shy in the beginning until I get to know you, been told I�m attractive, I enjoy the outdoors, camping, hiking, working out at the gym and jog to keep me sane and healthy. I love traveling, exploring different countries, meeting people from
all over the world, which really enriches my life?

I�m searching for someone who�s SINGLE under 50 with no baggage/drama, similar interest looking for a relationship. If you�re interested please reply with a recent photo� don�t reply if you�re only looking for SEX/FLING you�ll be wasting your time and mine.

Thanks for checking out my ad and enjoy your day.

Just seeing whats out there - w4m (santa rosa) 23yr

2009-11-10T13:04:43-08:00

I like going out and staying in. I appreciate the finer things as well as nature. I'm funny, especially when I'm nervous. I love laughing with friends. I'm not too picky about what I do as long as it is with "good people". I love people with that smile that makes me melt and I do, just thinking about it. Do you have that smile to make me melt? If you do i want to hear from you!

Could we have fun together? - w4m (santa rosa) 25yr

2009-11-10T12:50:43-08:00

I work nights iand have found it hard to find someone with daytime open. I presently share a room in the Roseland area and she works days however I would like to be able to go yours or my place as I never know when she is off. I am white, 5'4 on the heavy side, no barbie with blondish brown hair and brown eyes. I have been told that I am easy on the eyes. Would prefer someone around my age though and knows how to make a person laugh and have a good time.

seeking overweight man (sf) 36yr

2009-11-10T12:36:12-08:00

average built woman is looking for a fun overweight guy, big man with nice facial features, happy to be alive, with a sense of humour, who likes animals, music, movies, art.

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Looking for a fun and exciting playmate!!! - w4m (Brooks Park) 26yr

2009-11-10T12:32:06-08:00

I use to be a professional mud wrestler (kidding) but I do have an interesting story behind that. I am looking for friend�s maybe more with someone who is fun and enjoys life. I like to joke around a lot. I am new to the single scene and dating is not something I have been familiar with in a long time. My music interest is a little of everything but mostly rock. So have i caught your attention yet?

dream guy? (santa rosa) 20yr

2009-11-10T12:30:15-08:00

I want to meet a sweet caring guy please be around my age i'm attracted to tall guys i love music, animals, coffee, movies i have brown hair blue eyes i'm 5'6 with brown hair blue eyes

The LIST (oakland lake merritt / grand) 39yr

2009-11-10T12:17:00-08:00

Tattoos
Music
Red wine
Coffee
Good food
Gardening
Festivals
Art
Pool
Camping
Fun
Communication
Chemistry

Does it sound like you?
Please send a photo and if there is chemistry I'll send mine too.

Pampering and Massaging (No. Highlands)

2009-11-10T12:07:56-08:00

Single and free, seeking a fine type of a gentlemen for fun and frolic...no further commitment..
let's exchange photo and number and how you want to spend the rest of the day...

Sweet, Smart Curvy Woman Seeks Funny, Intelligent Good Kisser for LTR (San Francisco) 42yr

2009-11-10T12:06:04-08:00

Hmmm, so I've met a few nice guys (after weeding out the nuts and the freaks) but have found no real connections yet. So keep trying right? Life is too short to give up. The holidays are coming up. It's kind of a drag being alone during that period. I'm recently divorced, and although I'm enjoying my freedom, it would be nice to find someone to share it with. Please note, I am NOT looking for a hook up!

I'm tall, reddish hair, and built thick. I like guys who are also tall and thick, but this criteria is certainly no deal breaker. (Unfortunately, raising young kids is a deal breaker.) I take care of myself by exercising regularly, so it would be great if you don't huff and puff going up a flight of stairs. It would also be nice if you have a degree of some kind, yet still appreciate the silly things life has to offer.

Requirements: a killer sense of humor, intelligence, a vehicle, a place of your own to call home, likes dogs, appreciates a full-figured woman.

Please put "Calvin and Hobbes" in the subject of your email so I know you aren't one of the nuts who just replies to every posting. Pic for pic, of course. Good kissers strongly urged to reply!

RE: Coffee anyone? Maybe brunch? - 26 (marina / cow hollow) (San Francisco) 32yr

2009-11-10T12:00:00-08:00

This asian girl is as superficial and materialistic as they come, yet get this: She is basically broke! She also has a kid, that she won't tell you about until later. If you are looking for a materialistic, superficial gold-digger, with bad teeth, and a kid, this is your girl!

"Christain Role Model (saratoga) 36yr

2009-11-10T11:52:23-08:00

Hellow guys Im a 36 Female Hispanic,Looking for a Male Buddy to hang out and that is not to much of a drinker.PLease if you are not kind and Respectfull do not reply to my add lets not waste eachers time.If you do not get a Respond is becouse you forgot to send in your picture PLease do the following

Subject line = Christain
PLease attatch pict

Im a very Busy MOther I usually respond to emails by 11pm, I love the outdoors and kissing and the Hugging. Have a Nice Day

I will be what ever you desire. - w4m (Harville) 24yr

2009-11-10T11:46:46-08:00

Just because I use the internet to meet guys doesn't mean that I am desperate. My strong personality might be hard for some to handle, but once you get to know me you will see that I am sweetie. People replied to my first post on here, but then no one emailed me back. I am an open book, so you can ask me anything you want. I like em big guys, fyi sorry that's just me. If you're replying just to see what happens, but not willing to act please don't bother.

All moved in! - w4m (Stonestown Galleria) 27yr

2009-11-10T11:38:04-08:00

I just finished bringing the last box in and I am officialy all moved into my new place in a new city! I have wanted to live here my whole life, and I'm sure you think thats crazy but I moved here from a little town in the desert of Nevada and this is a huge deal to me. I still have a ton of unpacking to do but everything is here!

Would you like to meet up with me for a drink or something to celebrate my new place and new life with me? You would get to be the first person I know here!! My place is near Castro.

Turning fantasy into reality! - w4m (Mariposa) 23yr

2009-11-10T11:32:05-08:00

I'm a statuesque model type girl, 5'6�, 230 pounds. Tanned and Toned. I have a entrepenureal spirit. My passion overflows in everything I do. Including spending time with you. I will always arrive dressed well, makeup done, manicured fingernails and toenails. I am your ultimate dream girl!! I have been told by many gentlemen that I am the definition of fun and erotic, and I have become many of their all time favorite companions in the short time that I have spent with them. I believe that you should treat others the way you would like to be treated, and that confidentiality is always a MUST. My time is yours for the taking, I will be here all week at the Waterfont on Washington St.

I am fun - w4m (Monte Verde) 26yr

2009-11-10T11:23:14-08:00

So, it's easy to walk into a bar and see if a guy is tall or tan or muscular, but the part I care about most is hidden from view. Thus, thank you craigslist for giving me a forum to ask for what I really want a very well endowed (8 inches or more) man. Looking for more of an ongoing casual friendship than a one-night stand. Please be reasonably fit, a nonsmoker or drug user, single, well endowed, and send a photo (I'll return mine). Age and race are unimportant. I work out 6 days a week, don't smoke or do drugs, I'm white, brunette, and a bit of a size queen.

looking for A LOT of fun - w4m (santa cruz) 26yr

2009-11-10T11:14:06-08:00

Let's meet on Pacific Avenue and have some Irish food at Rosie McCann's. Let's get some beers and then we can head back and enjoy some private time with one another. Or we could go check out some live music then retire back to my bedroom. It just seems like exactly what the doctor prescribed for my needs. Haha! I hope to hear back from you when you read this. I'm patient and really into making "love", so get at me.

Soy Elene de Mexico City (San Jose) 26yr

2009-11-10T11:12:29-08:00

Hola soy Elene! Quiero conocer gente diferente en la ciudad de San Jose. por favor dejame un mensaje si quiere hablar conmigo.

Looking for a lover, not a relationship. - w4m (santa rosa) 23yr

2009-11-10T11:10:53-08:00

I need a man who is hungry, because I am such a delicious dish. I could go on and tell you all about my curves and such but I think I should leave that for when we have a date. I need to have my appetite filled by a man that can handle long legs and long loving. I think I should leave some mystery to me so how about you drop me a line and don't keep me waiting to long!

Always have fun - w4m (santa cruz) 28yr

2009-11-10T10:56:12-08:00

So many people are so down in the dumps lately and that really sucks. My thoughts on life is to always have fun no matter what! Like today, I am over at the Northern California Renaissance Faire in Holister and even though its not my thing (I am here with a friend) I am still having a good time! I live in Santa Cruz and when I get home in about 3 hours I would love to meet up with some and keep having a good time today. Would you like to be that some one new?

seeking an educated man for Marriage (walnut creek) 46yr

2009-11-10T10:51:03-08:00

I am looking for a professional, an educated man who wants to settle down. After being single for a long time,,, now it is the time to settle down and enjoy the life.

I am looking for a man between 49 to 63 years old, educated, financially and emotionally secure and very serious.
Here is some information about me:

I am an outgoing honest, creative passionate, romantic and sweet lady.. I am professionally , financially secured and emotionally stable.

I have a great smile and am a happy person. I love sun and sea.). I treat others, as I would wish to be treated. I believe in happy days and happier nights. I am looking for that very special someone who will explore and discover the wonders of life with me.

I am a non-smoker, light wine drinker, love pets and love sports.

I love starry nights, holding hands, sitting by the ocean, I love dining out, I love candle light, red wine and soft music by the fire ( I think that is very romantic) or watch the sunset by the ocean with the one I love. I would love to have an ltr with a man who knows how to accept unconditional LOVE..

why is it so hard to find someone here?! - w4m (santa rosa) 27yr

2009-11-10T10:46:23-08:00

I love to travel to warm places like Texas, Florida, Cali etc. I've always wanted to go to Paris...so who knows...maybe someday soon! I'm always up for a good time and love trying new things. I'm not a morning person at all, but I'll get up early if I have to. I love having fun, and spontaneity is the sweetest thing in the world! I'm the type of person who loves to laugh..at myself and at others....

I'll burst out laughing at something that happened yesterday! I love watching all kinds of sports, but hockey is by far the best! I really like to golf and go on walks when the weather is nice. I've been told that I have a great personality and I'm easy to get along with. I feel like I have a great sense of humor and can laugh at almost anything!! I'm looking for a guy who has a good personality, caring, nice, funny, and who isn't afraid to be themselves. It would be nice to meet someone that would introduce me to new things and activities that I don't do too often like: four-wheeling, fishing, paint balling, and snowmobiling.

If you're interested, go ahead and send me an email with your pic.

I Need Passion - w4m (san jose north) 22yr

2009-11-10T10:23:16-08:00

Let's meet up at the Mosaic for some nutritious, but delicious food. Then we'll see where it goes. I am yearning for a hot guy to sweep me away and please me all night. As lame as that sounds, do you think that you can do it? I know there has to be someone out there that knows what he's doing. Let's go dutch with the food, but you're going to work hard for the dessert, if you know what I mean! Wink, wink!

Looking for friendship (san jose north) 44yr

2009-11-10T10:12:47-08:00

I am a very loving, caring, thoughtful person and I am looking for the same.

I like to meet someone who is 45-55 .I don't like drunker and smoker.Also,I don't like play game too.

Time to live... (san jose north) 51yr

2009-11-10T10:08:26-08:00

Buried my husband, took care of sick parents, and raised a few kids. Nows my time...looking for some fun. Ideally someone who is NOT married, or living with someone, or with someone who the other person thinks they are in a relationship with you. Someone who is reasonably healthy, (no brain tumors, or long term illnesses). Would be wonderful if he has a job, or if not, can support himself, and pay for a few dinners out somewhere nice. It would be great if he can fix things that break around the house, and can speak and understand English without using hand signals or drawings.

About me, I'm a 5'6", little extra around the middle, (let's put it this way, you won't get bruised, nor will I suffocate you), white woman. I own my own place, work full time, seeking some new adventures. Not into extreme sports, pain or drama. Just a regular gal, looking for a regular guy.

Please have a recent pic when responding.

I'll give you your best night ever. - w4m (santa cruz) 27yr

2009-11-10T10:07:44-08:00

Im hoping too get freaky with a gentleman other than my husband. I have totally wanted too do that, but my man would be super angry at me. I'm positive he is doing his own thing on his business trips, but I still would definitely like too be as quiet as possible.

i promise that i'll be the best you've ever had! i know how to get down and please a guy, my husband just happens to be an ass! just let me know when and where! i live in brentwood, so just hit me up!

Have hands to hold, lips to... (santa rosa) 42yr

2009-11-10T10:07:36-08:00

...kiss. Seeking love and great chemistry. Need an intelligent, articulate, warm bodied man, who has time to spend in front of a cozy fire this winter. Also enjoy cycling, walks in the forest or on the coast, great food and wine. I'm smart, pretty, fit, and easy to be around. If you're between 40 and 55 years old, send me a picture and a few lines about yourself, and maybe we could meet. I have a picture to send you too.

This grl needs a good playmate - w4m (foothill spuare) 28yr

2009-11-10T09:50:25-08:00

I m a pretty easy girl to get along with, I like walks in the park, holding hands, a nice home cooked meal under candlelight, going to a movie or play,I need to get out and meet some new people and really enjoy myself for once. I need a man who can keep it up all night long and keep me satisfied.I always attract both males and females and they always tell me how beautiful I am. so i'm thinking that you won't be disappointed when you see me!

you can come to my house if you want..i live near foothill square.

Don�t confuse my signals. - w4m (san jose north) 24yr

2009-11-10T09:32:04-08:00

Recently relocated to San Francisco Bay Area looking for a complex male to hold my attention. Among other things.

I work hard for this body. So far I've had no luck finding the entire package (like me). I'm smart and quick-witted, beautiful and high-maintenance. This is my maintenance, not yours. If you're already whining; shoo. Be gone, little man.

I don't want some gym monkey neanderthal who only becomes animated when he's talking about diet and exercise. I want a successful, intelligent man with a wicked sense of humor who works out regularly, has traveled more than two hours from home, and enjoys the finer things of life.

I'd like to meet up for a pisco sours at vivid night club on S 1st. if you'd be so inclined. First things first - see if we click.

Email response, your picture gets mine. Obviously a picture of anything other than your face will cause your email to be deleted without response.

P.S.: I have a Newfoundland, Winston, so if you are allergic, you'll probably want to move on to the next ad. Conversely, I am allergic to cats so ditto the above if you have one or more of those.

I am fun - w4m (san jose north) 26yr

2009-11-10T09:28:44-08:00

I am a very easy going girl. I like simple things, I value honesty above all else. I don't believe that there is a reason to lie ever. I like to go out, but then I also like just to relax at home. Listen to any and all types of music. I am not "high maintance" Just a simple country girl, who deserves a good guy finally in my life! You pick the time and place that we could meet up but of course in a public place please!

Let's see were it goes - w4m (santa cruz) 23yr

2009-11-10T08:52:46-08:00

Kicking it at the Dollar Tree for a few minutes. I'm going to stock up on some candy and whatnot. Anyone want to have a scary movie marathon with me? I live alone and don't like watching scary movies alone, but I love them! Would love to find a guy that smells good and is cuddly to hook up with this weekend. Send me an e-mail if you're interested!!

Yay! It's Christmas. 27yr

2009-11-10T08:52:05-08:00

It's the holiday season (or pretty darn near it!) My favorite season. What is it about the holidays that makes you happy? Big winter pea coats, scarves, cute boots. Hot chocolate, ice skating, staying inside all day and watching the rain. Oh I love it. I really wish I had someone to share it with. I don't want just anyone though. I want someone special. I know we all lead busy lives, but I want someone who realizes the importance of a relationship and someone that is willing to make time even with all the crazy things going on. Someone that is there for me when I need him, and I am there for him.Be everything to that person, my best friend practically. Maybe I am living in a fantasy world and that doesn't exist. But in my head and my heart it does. I will wait, even though I hate waiting. It's winter time, it's no fun to be alone. I'm 27, and I would prefer guys around that age please. I'm a nice person, too nice probably, that's where I get into trouble, but that is who I am.

Where is my man?!?! 43yr

2009-11-10T08:16:24-08:00

Hi there,

I am a single woman in search of the right man! I have been divorced for about five years, have two wonderful teens, and have dated here and there, just haven't met YOU yet. I am a very old fashioned girl, in that I am not interested in a fling unless it is the romantic, fun filled, toe tingling kind of fling that will last forever!Yes, I am the real deal, my heart is open and waiting for the man of my dreams to find me. I am kinda tall at 5'11", dark brown eyes, auburn hair. I would love to exchange photos with you, if you would be kind enough to send me one or two of you!

need some love - w4m (santa cruz) 28yr

2009-11-10T07:56:12-08:00

Anyone want to go for a bike ride with me? Or we could just say screw it and meet up downtown at Lloyd's Music. It's up to you. I need someone cuddly, warm, and vibrant. I want a nice time to be had by all, so let's talk about what we want or we could just go for it. Who knows, you may not shock me. Or you simply might. Either way, hit a lady up! Tick, tock.

Looking for new sexual experiences - w4m (Lakeside) 25yr

2009-11-10T07:44:13-08:00

About me: Intelligent, not into drama or games, easy going, not high maintenance and non-judgemental. I don�t smoke or do drugs, clean and disease free. I work out at the gym everyday. Open-minded, adventurous. :)

Looking for an ongoing weekly or biweekly passionate and stress-free affair with the right generous, man, non-smoker and 25+ preferred.

Let�s help each other, shall we? I will help you with your need for no drama, affectionate and playful female companionship and you help me as my part-time mentor. I can be a little kinky if the chemistry is right! Travel companionship is also possible.

Let�s spoil each other!!! Prefer a long term situation.

Between allergies and men, I need to get some - w4m (santa cruz) 25yr

2009-11-10T07:28:46-08:00

I have no idea how to write about myself on the Internet. I've tried several dating sites and I always get stuck. I've tried...twice. I've been single for way too long and I think it's time to put myself out there. I've been in living in Santa Cruz for 2 years. I sometimes love it, and I sometimes hate it. Depending on my mood. I'm kind of a hermit but spend a lot of my time writing at Lulu's at the Octagon on cooper st. I'm a junior at UCSC studying Design . And no, I'm not a fan of the Slugs. I don't like football. In fact, I don't like sports at all.

I love artistic clutter. Some of my favorite artists include Th�o van Rysselberghe, Devender Singh and John Vanderlyn. really loud guitars, conversations that last all night, and endearing sarcasm (especially the facetious kind). I've wanted to be a writer all my life and I, fortunately, have the opportunity to do so professionally. There's not enough snarky banter in the world.

To unwind I like to have drinks at Seabright Brewery. I like probing questions. I think The Velvet Underground and Dusty Springfield are way overrated, I hate that Hollywood doesn't make movies like The Deer Hunter and The Princess Bride anymore, and I love TV watching. And recently I've gotten into spending time with family/kids. More than anything, I want to be inspired...

If you're cute and you're still reading this, send me an email with your picture. If I like what I see, I'll respond...

searching the right guy - w4m (santa cruz) 25yr

2009-11-10T07:22:45-08:00

After much deliberation here I am taking the plunge , please be the one that will ensure I dont regret it. Without meaning to sound too concieted I am what would be regarded as a bit of a babe. I am slim , attractive and experimental , theres not a lot I wont try so why dont YOU try Me *wink*.

I am 25 and looking for someone around my own age or a little older maybe as long as you can promise a clean bill of health its all good after all we both know what we are here for and should be under no misconception it would ever be more. Look forward to hearing from you.

Still looking for fun with a hot guy - w4m (mission district) 26yr

2009-11-10T07:13:44-08:00

I�m a warm, sweet, caring woman who knows how to love and adore her man with all her heart. I hate being lied to or being played. I�m not into games, drama, or lies so if you have that then just look right on past trying to get to know me. Family and friends are very important to me. A date depends on the person and the atmosphere. So I will leave that up to you to set up for us

You can stop searching now - w4m (san jose north) 24yr

2009-11-10T07:10:42-08:00

Short with thick sexy thighs and ass. I am looking for a guy who is the same and who can teach me a few things. I love to have much fun, and not just on the computer! I am looking for someone interesting and mysterious who can sweep me off my feet. Do you have what i crave so badly or do I need to go to Pleasures From the Heart and get a new toy?

Seeking an Outdoors Type (sebastopol) 50yr

2009-11-10T07:00:55-08:00

Hello!
I'm seeking a "Nice Guy" for friendship and possibly more. NOTE: I am not interested in a friends with benefits deal...... If that's what you are looking for, please don't even respond!
I am attracted to guys that work with their hands.... construction, etc. He should be taller than me, employed would be good, a sense of humor that matches mine (a little warped and or twisted). Hopefully he will enjoy some of the things that I enjoy but will have some interests of his own. He should also like animals as I do have dogs and horses.
About Me ~ I am a 50 year old blonde, with blue eyes, and a nice smile. I am 5'3" and am a size 12 /14, so no, I am not built like barbie. I have a great sense of humor (can be a little warped at times). I enjoy most all outdoor activities, especially camping, fishing, taking the dogs for long walks on the beach. I love the ocean, it's only about 20 minutes from where I live. I love the more simple things in life, entertaining at home with BBQ's, quiet dinners for two, a good movie cuddled up with someone special. I'm a more casual type of person, love my boots & jeans. I do enjoy occasionally dressing up for a night on the town as well.
If this at all peaks your interest, please drop me a line and tell me a little about yourself. Also include a photo and I will respond with mine.
Looking forward to hearing from you :)

Seeking a Romantic,Intelligent Black Man. (concord / pleasant hill / martinez) 40yr

2009-11-10T06:17:34-08:00

I'm a single black woman seeking an answer...............Black men, are you seeking, as I am, a life of romance and stimulating?...........I ask the question because it seems mind boggling that I should be forced to accept less. As for me, I'm all that I seek and more. Perfection is not part of that search. I don't offer it in myself

I am hoping to find someone who is missing out on shared experiences. Experiences of time spent together enjoying all that life has to offer. Outdoor adventures, weekend getaways, drives with no real destination, visits to the museum, bookstores and various others adventures. What I'm hoping to find the most is someone to share in a life of romance and intrigue. I miss holding hands, cuddling on stormy nights,phone calls just to say hi. Someone who I can miss throughout my day and long to see when time allows.

Nothing complicated about my search............Let's take it slow and allow time to forge what is meant to be............I tend to be attracted to older gentlemen. They tend to understand romance and courtship a little better.......

I'm on the tall side with an athletic build................If that matters

HEADING TO MONTEREY THE WEEKEND OF THE 27th..............Would like nothing more than to invite you along!

SWF Seeking fun, No Drama - w4m (Extreme Pizza) 28yr

2009-11-10T05:08:06-08:00

There has to be a dude that's a kid at heart that'd like to check out Extreme Pizza with me? You gotta be old enough to drink but other than that age is no issue. Even if it's just a friend situation, I really would like to meet someone new to hang out with. It'd be a refreshing situation if I could just avoid the drama of my normal friends. Hit me up.

Seeking partner for second half (novato) 45yr

2009-11-10T04:47:46-08:00

Young at heart, Healthy, Fit, Honest, Reliable, Fun, Funny, Relaxed, Turstworthy, Integrity, Pragmatic, Finanically Stable, Creative, Resourceful, Parent, Children, Adventure, Travel, Love being in Nature, Hike, bike, Community, Recycle, Garden, Be all of this, or most...you will find I am as well. Inside is most important but a picture is worth a thousand words. Share with me the important things about you...Thanks for reading and good luck in your search.

CUTIE ISO SAME 4 DATING (fremont / union city / newark) 30yr

2009-11-10T03:25:48-08:00

ABOUT ME: 30 year-old East Bay female. No kids, Pacific Islander, curvy/thick body type, on the shorter side, non-smoker, social drinker, cute, college-educated, and family-oriented. I'd describe myself as independent, kind, intelligent, funny, ladylike, and nurturing. Interests include traveling, wine tasting, grabbing cocktails at lounges or bars, trying new restaurants, concerts/live music, Neo-Soul and R&B music, watching pro boxing, and arts & culture.

YOU: Single, between 30 and 40, within a 60-mile radius of Fremont. Athletic body type, over 5'9, social drinker, attractive. You are financially stable, have a good heart and sense of humor, are smart, and a gentleman.You share two or more of my interests.

I'm looking for dating and am open to the possibility of a long-term relationship if we hit it off. If interested, please send me an e-mail with a a clear recent picture and a note describing yourself. If there's an attraction, I will respond. Please, no spammers. Thank you.

~Looking For A Relationship (san jose south) 23yr

2009-11-10T00:55:06-08:00

I am looking for a long term relationship. A bit about me i'm 5 foot 11 with brown hair and blue eyes. I love hanging out with friends, going to movies playing pool, going bowling, going to the beach.etc. I want to date a guy who is spontanious, sweet, who can make me laugh, good personality, etc. I just want a all around good guy. Please be between 23 and 26 and you have to live in or near the saratoga /campbell area Please send a bit about yourself with a pic and i'll reply. Hope to hear from you guys soon.

Like Asian & Curvy ? (san bruno) 34yr

2009-11-10T00:50:45-08:00

I am Asian and curvy, anyone interested send me email and picture ?

looking for a bad boy! - w4m (alameda) 27yr

2009-11-10T00:46:44-08:00

i'm looking for a bad boy! my parents always kept me away from guys like that, thinking they were teaching me a lesson, but all they did, was make me what them more! i love the idea of sleeping with a guy, that might pull my hair, slap me really hard on the ass! also, turn me over, and take me from the back! push my head into his lap, and use my ponytail to lead me!

I'm really good at giving, head, i think anyways. the few guys i've done it with seemed to like it pretty well! anyways, just let me know if you are my bad boy!! i live in alameda.

If u dont look youll never find - w4m (Santa Clara) 25yr

2009-11-10T00:18:18-08:00

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I need too meet you ASAP!!! - w4m (santa cruz) 23yr

2009-11-09T23:47:42-08:00

Helloooo there guys. I've been putting off writing this ad forever but here goes. Im 23 years old and a very artistic and musically orientated girl. I love Jazz music especially! Its one of the things that brings out my more sensual side I guess. If youre into music and wouldnt mind a little good company and conversation Id like for us to set something up.

The Kuumbwa Jazz Ctr on Cedar Str has become one of my favorite hangouts, so the first drinks on me! I mean we have to see if we get on, right? Id like a friendship with benefits sorta thing, nothing too heavy but also someone who I can stand to spend a little time with.

Anyway thats me, if you like what you've read, let me know a bit more about you? x x x x

I wonder if (pittsburg / antioch) 27yr

2009-11-09T23:46:34-08:00

It is so hard to meet people and find a conection... and it is hard to date now days.

A little bit about me..

I love to get out of the house.. I love watching and playing sports ( all though im a little over weight right now )
im always up for an adventure.
love movies, love just chilling out...
im not the tipical girl that is needy for items,and im far from the bitchy type..
im a total geek when it comes to sience,
shy at first but if you get to know me you wont stop laughing.
English is my second language but hopfuly you wont notice.
I smoke..... not proud of it... but having a hard time quiting....

Id like to meet a man with respect, mature..kind hearted.
shaved heads are a huge turn on.
I am attracted to older mature men... but not my fathers age....

I am NOT 420 friendly.. not my thing so if you do any kind of drug please dont waist my time..

If your intrested just for friends id love that too!

An adventure� (BAyArEa)

2009-11-09T23:44:48-08:00

I am 33
Female
cute and hot
brown eyes
long hair
135
5'4

i like to to expand my horizons in every moment
some stuff i enjoy

Bumpin base
Mother nature
imagination
artistic expression
service to humanity
having so much fun
conciseness exploration
trees
the salt of the earth
sexiness
mysticism
reckless abandon
independence and interdependence
Adventures
Activism
sarcasm and deep reverence
hard work
playing music
making art
words
beautiful people
turning on tuning in
hot tubs
living my dreams
the present

That shit is all so dope!!

no looking for the one
cause we are all one

always open to what gifts the universe offers

Please respond with a photo of your self and some details...

<3

Any SWMs into BBWs? (hayward / castro valley) 23yr

2009-11-09T23:38:04-08:00

So, first of all, I'm a BBW...I take care of myself very well, I know how to dress and I know how to do my hair...I love going out with people...I recently got out of a relationship, so I can't say I'm necessarily in it for long term, but I'm open to it. I'm looking for a little fun and if something comes out of it, then it's even better...I'm 5'5" (average height) and looking for someone that doesn't fall into the "shorter than me" category (sorry, I'm sure you guys are great, it's just what I'm attracted to)...I like going out and being spontaneous and love to laugh and make jokes, so if you have no room for humor (somewhat sarcastic), then I'm not the girl for you

I'm NOT looking for a guy that fits the "creepy old man" status, or a guy that fits the "horny bastard" status...I'm looking for someone that can hold a conversation, make me laugh, make those small romantic gestures, and has goals, ambitions, and passion....I'm mostly into white guys, but if you're a nice guy, I'll give you a shot...

I am pretty active most of the time, both in my life, and with friends and family...I have a busy life but always try and take time for that special someone, even if it's just a phone call...I like to get my hands dirty and don't mind stepping in the mud or jumping in a puddle, even though I try and make sure my hair ALWAYS looks good...

I think that's good enough for now...if you wanna know me, email me with some words AND a CURRENT picture of yourself, and I'll do my best to do the same :) Don't get too crazy without me! :P

looking for something new - w4m (Redwood City) 22yr

2009-11-09T23:26:38-08:00

I am kind of shy, so I'm really not sure what I am supposed to say in here. I'm 22 years old looking for a new guy to have some fun with. I do not feel comfy asking a guy out face-to-face, that's why I prefer to post here. Tell me something about yourself, and we can get the convo started from there.

I'm not a demanding person, so please be laid back too. I really cannot stand pushy people, that is one of my biggest pet peeves. If you send me an email and I don't respond, it means I am not interested. Do not email me 10 times asking why I haven't responded. Ugh.

Your picture gets mine.

Where all the good guy ? (san bruno) 34yr

2009-11-09T23:26:17-08:00

If you think you are a good guy, send me your email and your picture and tell me why your good and what type of girl do you like?

*Thai Loves Broadway, Fitness, Holistic Healing (SF) 40yr

2009-11-09T23:24:48-08:00

I'm living in the East Bay for now. While looking for a job and place to live in SF, I would like to connect with a special SPWM, who is culture, kind, honest, handsome, sincere, loving, and devoted. Spiritual woman with six sense, passion for life and nature, I love the broad way theater, snow skiing (want to learn), horse riding, cooking, sight seeing, but not drinking, no cigarette smoker, into fitness and healthy food, dress up for special occasion and dress classy and sexy too, without revealing my body. I'm a strong, independent, focused, militant, prior US Air Force, in a graduate program --- yeah.. I still can't write or spell - maybe I can cast LOVE SPELL..lol.. I do have sense of humor, split personality, six sense (ESP ability), do meditation living without medication, am into holistic health and healing. I work out to stay ALIVE! I'm down to earth and am not into the material world. If you only look for women to dress sexy to show off to public and sex partner; please move on. I'm for a mature, responsible, strong, confident man. I want to share my life with a man who looks for true love and not hung up on the woman must wear high heel sexy clothes, etc. We focus on you and me, compatible, communication skills, like/dislike, compromise, having children, enjoy each other company, sharing a great time and be there for each other when it is good or bad, support one another emotionally, etc. That is a true relationship. Yet, you should have stable job and career; not a job hopper and a college graduate. I'm a proud woman, walking with my head high, not stuck up. I came from a poverty life but work my way to college, well manner - thank to my grandparents who taught me to be a lady with manner, etc. Thank grandma for her beauty which I inherited and I learned meditation at 3 and spiritual life from my grandfather. They married until they died. I look for a man to share the same love as my grandparents had.

need love to boost my immune system (santa clara) 25yr

2009-11-09T23:19:44-08:00

I was sitting in class today and my professor made a mention about how love boosts a persons immune system and how lack of love that is desired can decrease a persons overall physical health. That rang true for me.

I have mild acne that causes me to cover up my pretty face with makeup. I think my persistent condition has something to do with being sad and not being loved enough, since my diet is extremely healthy and my holistic treatments have never fully healed me. My parents are dead and I have been in 2 bad relationships back to back. I'm single now. I'm not looking for forever, I just want chemistry, passion and love to make the monotonous and mundane seem more worthwhile. I'm pretty sure I need an intellectual communicative man to be happy.

Seeking Spiritual SBM for LTR (San Francisco) 56yr

2009-11-09T23:11:37-08:00

I am attractive (Mediterranean looks), young in looks and spirit 56, professional (psychotherapist). I am a passionate person- about whatever and whoever is in my life, whether it�s friends, music, spirituality, psychology or politics. I have close friendships of many years duration and have a full and meaningful life for which I am very grateful. I am blessed with loving friends, family, community, work that I love, and excellent health. My life is full of joy and love which I would like to share with a life partner.
I�m in good shape; I take dance classes and go to the gym several times a week. I danced in the San Francisco Carnaval parade in May as I do most years. I also like to dance Salsa and to R&B. I�m energetic, fun and active yet also spiritual and self-reflective. I have strong metaphysical beliefs and a spiritual practice that is extremely important to me.
Music is important to me; I like funk and R&B,Cuban music, jazz and gospel; I listen to radio stations KBLX, KISS and used to listen to KKSF, which changed it's format recently :-( I enjoy going to concerts at large and small venues. I don�t watch TV and am not a sports fan, but enjoy movies, dance and music performances, theater and art. I enjoy fine dining and also eating at Mission taquerias, Bi-rite Creamery ice cream....
Who would I like to meet? An African-American man, 50-60, attractive, in reasonably good shape. Preferably but not necessarily professional. Someone who is happy with himself and loves life. Someone who values honesty and openness and who can talk about and show his feelings. Someone who is willing to look directly at issues or differences as they come up in relationship, someone self-reflective who knows himself pretty well and is willing and interested in really knowing me as well. And most important, someone who is LOVING and OPEN-HEARTED! I would like to share my heart with you....
It�s really important to me to connect spiritually as well as emotionally and intellectually, so I'm interested in meeting someone with a spiritual/metaphysical practice or interest. If you know of and are interested in Agape International Spiritual Center in LA, or Centers for Spiritual Living/Church of Religious Science here in the Bay, this is a big plus!
Seeking LTR, but believe that beginning slowly is important, that it�s important to get to know each other beyond our own expectations and projections.
I don�t like smoking or drugs, light drinking is OK.
Please send a picture and I�ll reciprocate. I would appreciate your responding with something about yourself. One line responses won't be answered.

TIMELESS (NORTH BAY) 59yr

2009-11-09T23:06:22-08:00

Tomorrow is not enough ... for I know not
what tomorrow will bring
such is the fragility of life and its
misty veil of promises ...
therefore I live within this moment in time ....
for each day that I am blessed with life I thank
the Gods for their gift of granting me a
wonderful soul such as the one I am being
guided to ...

to all of you who are "true seekers" of "love
divine" ...

to all others : if distance is too "time consuming",
too "inconvenient" to merit cultivating a "rare
match" do move on ... and waste not any more
of "my time" ...

the same goes to those who will not send a
recent closed up full length photo (without
hiding your eyes behind shades, or caps)

if you are not part of the "clean cut", the
"good old days" and "old school and value"
men ... please do move on as well.

I too, have "no time to waste" ... life prove
to be short ... but it also rings true in that
"it isn't about how much time" as oppose
to the "quality of time" well invested.

How "far" is one "willing" to go "in search
of true love" ... ???

I bid you all an enchanting and magical journey ...
be it "far" ... or ... "near"

Are you there? - w4m (santa rosa) 23yr

2009-11-09T23:04:44-08:00

How sad am I! I had talked to someone from here earlier tonight and we set up a time to meet at the Rusian River Brewing Company on 4th street, and guess what, I got stood up! I am in shock and awe at this, and I am pretty mad too. But I am willing to give this whole craigslist thing one more shot. Please don't contact me if your not real or not really looking to go out and have some fun.

Seeking progressive, creative Middle Eastern man 39yr

2009-11-09T22:57:07-08:00

I have lived in the Middle East and loved it muchly!
I would be interested in meeting a nice fellow who is from the region.
I am educated, well traveled, into contemporary art and music.
I'm considered attractive and a delightful person, and am seeking a like-minded sort.

Just throwing it out there.

lovely gal artist seeks smart, creative fellow 39yr

2009-11-09T22:50:41-08:00

hi there,

trying to surmount the awkwardness of this forum is difficult, but i have heard many a tale of happy romance spawned from the online dating scene and am here to give it a go.
i am an artist and educator, and being a person who makes stuff pretty much organizes and defines my life. i like to spend lots of time working in my studio, and that also demands some serious time shirking my work and having fun. that is where you might come in. perhaps. (now trying to surmount some healthy skepticism). i like to eat and drink and giggle, funny is important. depth is also very important to me. knowing how to enjoy your life, but get work done when it needs doing. i have travelled a bunch and lived overseas more than once, and i love travel stories. got any? that can keep me entertained for days. i'm fairly political and try to live according to the understanding that the planet is dying. sadly, i am not fanatical. i should be. we all should be. i keep a special eye on middle east politics. i read the bbc more than the nyt. this post in no way shows that i have sense of humor, but i do.

i'm serious about my work and jobbie, both are much loved, and would like to meet someone in the arty or design realm. perhaps someone in music or an academic....?
really, it's all about chemistry, don't you think?

by way of seeing if our sensibilities align....
some of my favorite artist:
julie mehretu
thomas hirshorn
marlene dumas
fluxus artist
mike kelley
peter doig
lots of contemporary artists and local people

music:
os mutantes
will odlham
yo la tengo
nick drake
lots of middle eastern folk stuff
bob dylan
lately, ravi shankar is on a lot
arcade fire
....you get the idea.

films:
documentaries!!
italian neo realism
let the right one in
just rewatched no country for old men....it was amazing the second time!
cohen bros
wes anderson
onward!

books:
middlesex
any carson mccullers
flannery o'conner
(thank you georgia for some of our finest writers!!)
naguid mahfouz
orhan pamuk
paul bowles
nabokov
mary oliver
.......and then some

i'm easy on the eyes, and look a bit younger than my age. i am considered yummy by and large.
i like boys who are unconventionally handsome. and smart. and funny. i like a good voice. i love a good character and playfulness. even if hidden behind some seriousness.
i'm gonna stop now before this turns into a laundry list.

send me something!

Could we have fun together? - w4m (santa rosa) 26yr

2009-11-09T22:50:40-08:00

iso cool latin guy (fremont / union city / newark)

2009-11-09T22:42:07-08:00

i am a tall sexy bbw looking for a tall latin man under 35 who is interested in a serious/long term relationship living in the east bay. let's trade pics.

if this sounds like you, hit me up.

A Simple Man (san rafael) 25yr

2009-11-09T22:36:48-08:00

I'm so tired of being alone and I don't have much time to go out and find a boyfriend. I just want to meet the guy that would be best for me so I decided to post a serious ad. The first thing that I am looking for that's means the most to me I want a guy with strong morals and self respect. I'm not a gold-digger but I won't date someone with out a job and a five year plan of what they are doing with their life. It would be great to find someone that live locally so we can see each other whenever. Hoping for a guy that's around 25-29 years old with no kids. A well spoken independent man that's motivated and considerate. At this point in my life I would like to meet a gentleman that intelligent and sweet. I don't like drugs so I hope to meet a man that is sober and loyal. I want a man that is willing to let me play with him and won't get mad if I want to see him cum when I spend time with him. I like the feeling of knowing that I made my boyfriend happy when he has that face of pure pleasure when he cums. If you are willing to commit to a long term relationship and willing to cum on an ongoing basis then maybe we should talk. I have posted this ad before but I keep having people that I am not interested in replying. I want a simple guy that's nice with his life put together and can speak correct English. Simple things mean the most to me. I would rather date a tall man over a short. It seems like most of the men I meet are a lot shorter than me. I do have a five year plan and a backup. I am an understanding person that likes to help people but if you don't have a job I am not interested. I feel that is just an excuse since this recession has started I have found so many jobs and I have to turn them down. If you are the type of person that doesn't have a job because they can't find anything in there field or that doesn't fit your degree you're not the guy for me. I want a man that will take what he can get instead of being broke sitting home watching television. If you have kids you are not for me because I at least want to be in the top five people in your life and if you have kids it just won't work. It would be great to meet and independent man that's smart financially stable and under 30 years old.

Looking for my soulmate life partner 50-60 (Sunnyvale) 48yr

2009-11-09T22:31:35-08:00

A asian woman who is traditional with a bit of modernist mixed in. Good looking, nice personality. educated and independent. Looking for a good heart, gentle, educated, polite and caring man to be with his forever

PRETTY, SMART, SEXY WF‏

2009-11-09T22:26:12-08:00

I am a pretty, sultry, slender, busty (natural) petite WF 40-something , exotic looking with shoulder length hair and beautiful eyes. I'm extremely intelligent, with an IQ high enough for Mensa, very sweet, sensitive, sensual, mystical/ spiritual. I have a wide range of interests, including movies, theater, good food, a healthy lifestyle, all kinds of animals, dancing, music, etc. Seeking a kind, handsome, successful, sexy, romantic, worldly Caucasian gentleman 40-55 with refined tastes. Please tell me about yourself and send a recent photo, thanks.

Anyone want fun? - w4m (Cafe Mereb) 26yr

2009-11-09T22:23:23-08:00

I'm being forced to watch the most boring old movies in the world. My Grandmother just loves them. I want to cut and run for the night and have some fun. I take care of her most days, but she can handle one night of alone time right? Anyone interested? I'm going to get a hotel room. I'll splurge on myself and I want you to come make me a happy girl.

The Girl most men desire, but wont admit it (hollister) 23yr

2009-11-09T22:21:14-08:00

I posted here a while back, and got some emails back, met some interesting people, but still looking. I am an intelligent 23 year old Latina. Love to laugh, write and workout. I can honestly say that I am like no one that you have met. I that girl that most men want to marry or date, but will never admit to it because they are too busy playing the game. Anyway, I am looking for a mature male. Preferable between the ages of 26-34. Looking for that man that knows how to respect a female and has something going for himself. A man that can keep up with a good conversation. Hit me up if you are interested. NO PIC = NO REPLY