I'm not interested in a player who thinks he's all smooth or someone just looking to "get some". I want someone who is charming, unconventional, spontaneous, intelligent, caring, devoted, and a good communicator.
My stats: 5'7" (+ heels), 150lbs, shoulder length dark brown hair, blue/green eyes, Jewish ethnicity
I drive. I do not have lots of money to spend on a hotel so was planning to bring the tent along or perhaps hope to find some cool people there who might let us stay at their place overnight.
I am a 57 yo jewish gwm who is seeking a diiner date on Thanksgiving. I have reservations for the buffet at the Marriot on 4th street. I am well educated with a wicked sense of humor and wit and avid news junkie. Personality wise, I am a free spirit down to earth type guy. 5'9" 190 lbs. br/bl hairy chest
YOU: I like younger guys that can carry a conversation. please no smokers, drug users or PNP moderate drinking is fine
ABOUT ME: I am 44 years young, considered handsome, in good shape, well proportioned, slim/athletic, healthy, non-smoker, active, handsome, with a complete set of light-brown hair. I am well-educated, multi-culturally-oriented, easy-going plus a good communicator and listener. I like a large variety of films, music and foods. Of those I especially enjoy tasting several different kinds of asian delicacies.
At this time I am emotionally, romantically and sexually separated from my marital partner. She and I haven't slept with each other in years and just share the residence as roommates for practical reasons. That said, I would however consider also getting physically separated and move out if I found a new life partner here. So I have not had romance, intimacy or loving touch for a while now and certainly want a closer, more meaningful connection in my life now.
I am not into one-night-stands or multiple partners but am looking for one exclusive romantic and intimate discreet relationship. Staying healthy and disease-free is my top priority. That’s why I want just one committed, monogamous lover/friend. I’ve got tested for STDs, always practice safe sex and would expect the same of you.
Have repeatedly been commended for being a considerate, affectionate, giving, creative, talented, adaptable, energetic, enduring and enthusiastic kisser and lover. I would be happy taking my time talking, dating and getting to know each other on a personal human level first, because any intimacy that may be built on that friendship foundation would be so much better and longer lasting as a result. An exchange of recent photos should occur as soon as we feel we can trust each other to be real people with good intentions.
Own home in city, love cooking, gardening, music and travel. Travel is important to me. Chilled guy here... professional, own home in the city (SF), since some folks think there are other CITIES in the area. Looking to meet people and enjoy life...Enjoy weekends in Seattle, Arizona or down in L.A. Drives on the coast, North or South, or few days in Mexico. Time spent in the garden and kitchen cooking, on the beach with setting sun and glass of wine...I love Wild Salmon n Avocados, ice cream and peach cobbler....Soft shell crabs, and dim sum, fresh French bread with olive oil, n fried polenta ....I love life..peace….and oh yeah…this is not hook up ad. so be true to yourself. it not to say I can’t meet someone and have an immediate attraction, it’s just that it’s not the first thing on my mind. So keep it real I think I have...My humanity comes first as so should yours..
I like talking and laughing with friends, discovering new restaurants, exploring different corners of the Bay Area, seeking out great deals, taking in good films. I also appreciate the simple pleasures in life: friendly smiles from strangers, holding hands while driving, cuddling up, re/watching favorite DVDs, soaking in a hot bath. Admittedly, I love the occasional indulgences as well, a decadent tasting menu at a favorite restaurant, a box of white chocolate, a last-minute weekend getaway, front-row tickets to a musical. You should enjoy some of the same things, and be happy to share your interests with me as well.
Seems like most of the time i've been attracted to someone it's been from observing the moments that that person ain't so aware of, as opposed to responding to what they're attempting to put out there.
I am a decent looking white male, hwp, non-smoking, no drugs, no games and I enjoy long kisses and foreplay. I would prefer a married woman, race unimportant, in her 30's to early 40's who is content in her relationship, or single and not wanting any entanglements. Your pic would be appreciated. I also have mine to respond with. Thanks for your interest.
Ideally I would like to find a woman who would be able to meet in the evenings and possibly weekends. If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please feel free to send me an email. I prefer responses that have some thought put into them, rather than just one-liners.
When you write back, please send a picture or a good description of what you are like and interested in. Thanks!
Characteristics about me: Quiet, well educated, condo owner, cyclist, yogi, vegetarian, houseplant owner, cookie baker, massage therapist.
I really dislike making lists like this. And the "ideal" characteristics aren't must-haves. On the other hand, if you are a total bottom looking for an exclusive top and your idea of activity is walking from your car to Burger King for a meal, then we're probably not a match. Similarly, if you're looking for someone who knows all about the latest gadgets and spends your weekends watching organized sports, then I'm probably not your match.
Anyway, if you're interested, send me a note telling me something about yourself and maybe even a pic.
6.1, 198#, good shape, easy on the eyes, silver/brown and masculine 50s professional here. I am confident (not smug), optimistic, educated, passionate, honest and sincere. I'm also a fun and funny guy. Into biking, hiking, want to get back to playing tennis and maybe take up golf, cooking (join me in the kitchen), reading, music (soft jazz/classical/rock), the arts, travel, cuddling (for movies, reading the paper in bed or hell, just to hold each other closely), kissing and sweaty m2m sex. Seeking an intellectual, physical and, with luck, emotionally-rich connection with another sexy guy with a kind heart and a happy disposition.
Looking for somebody that is open to meeting somebody new. Ideally you're friendly and good company. It doesn't matter too much about your looks, where you live, what you do for a living, your relationship status. I'm very non-intrusive and would never talk to about anything you don't want to talk about.
I am 5'9", 154 lbs., single, youthful (no Viagra yet!) from a lifetime of athletic pursuits, and relish the delightful gender differences between men and women. I am not circumcised, have had a vasectomy, very clean and clean shaven, and love the playfulness of sex (toys too), with kindred female souls. My partner(s)' pleasure greatly enhances mine. I have had a vasectomy, and am drug and disease (that's tested semi-annually) free.
As I was growing up, I always had a passion in playing sports. I love Soccer, and I also play Baseball, football, track and field and swimming. Not only do I play sports but i like to do other things too like watch movies, go out to dinner, read books and go to the beach at night. I would consider myself as my hero. I have overcome a lot over the years and To now I still cant believe how I am surviving. I have learned that what puts a person down only makes them stronger and you learn from the mistake. Life is an experience to be lived and can only be lived once in a lifetime. That’s all you have is a lifetime. Don’t live life in regrets and sorrow. I also learned over the years that you only have yourself at the end, So the main person you have to look out for is yourself. ..
Who I'd like to meet:
Someone who is a little like me.. I want a guy who likes to cuddle all night from sundown to sunrise. a guy who will be there by my side in good and bad. who will fight for our love and hope for ever lasting love. Someone who doesn’t give up in the sight of trouble but instead takes the initiative to take control of finding a solution to get out of it. someone who will surprise me in every way. I want a fantasy, a dream. looks to me aren’t everything but i want someone who at least is attractive enough to make something work. So if your my prince charming in that beautiful white horse, please come to me and save me from this retched pain of mine, i call life. ..
Heres a quote from me to you… its just a small gift for all of you who reads this whether you liked me or didn’t.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had . It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
heres another one im working on for you...
"i'm strong but i break. i'm stubborn and i make plenty of mistakes. yeah, i'm hard and life with me is never easy. to figure out, to love i'm but, oh, so lovely. all you have to do is hold me. and you'll know and you'll see. just how sweet it can be. if you'll trust me, love me, let me, maybe, maybe... i'm confusing as hell, i'm north i'm south. and i'll probably never have it all figure out. but what i know is i wasn't. meant to walk this world. without you and i promise, i'll try. yeah, i'm gonna give you every little part of me. then maybe, maybe, yeah, maybe, yeah maybe... i don't wanna be tough. and i don't wanna be proud. i don't need to be fixed. and i don't need to be found, im not lost. i need to be loved, i just need to be loved. i just wan't to be loved by you. and wont stop 'cause i believe. that maybe yeah maybe... it exist.. im scared but wont run.. please just let it be destined for me, for so long ive longed for it.. its mine to snatch and i shall not let go"
What I'm Looking For: I'm looking to meet a handsome gentleman (details as to what kind especially are listed BELOW) that I can make a connection with that will very hopefully develop into something lasting and intimate. I'm at a place in my life where I want to share my life with someone, make a friendship that transcends platonic compatbility to a healthy relationship. If you're in the market and available, please read on:
About Me: I'm 25 (though I have a firmer head on my shoulders than many of those in my age bracket, I feel) I'm a graduate student at Academy of Art University in San Francisco earning my MFA in Motion Pictures & Television Acting. I'm a professionally trained actor, writer, & director. I do a lot of theatre work currently as well as have a small guerilla theatre company. My main passion of life is the cinema! Absolute movie-holic here. In addition to that, my interests inlcude: world travel, friends, music, theatre, cats, astrology, hiking, biking, romance, sex, games, cooking and more! While I'm in the city for half the week, I do live 50min up North in Santa Rosa (and love it)... however, please don't let this be a deterrent! I am totally available to see you if you are in the city or nearby!
I Am:
. 5'7"
. green eyes
. dark brown hair,
. white (but mixed with lots of flavors... just ask)
. hairy,
. 159lbs, fit & work out,
. Out of the closet.
. Do not smoke or do drugs
. HIV- and STD free
. Emotionally Expressive & Highly Communicative
. With a cat!
. Monogamously Oriented
. A Homebody at Heart
. Strong Willed & Opinionated
. Versatile
. Have a Healthy, High Libido
. Assertive and Know What I Want and Not Afraid to Ask for It
. FUN!
. Anything else you feel I left out, just ask!
Qualites I Want in a Potential Lover (i.e. You Are....)
. WHITE (not into Latino/Asian/Black) I have been known to be attracted to lighter Middle-Eastern guys though ;)
. BETWEEN the ages of 21 and 43
. Demonstrate that you've actually READ this ad!
. HIV- and STD free. (This is of great importance)
. Non-Smoker (pot now & then is fine). NOT into drugs or heavy drinking (poppers are ok)
. MUST LIKE CATS
. Share a love/interest in movies and in addition the arts in general
. Out of the Closet (friends, family, etc)... unless you were raised in a horrific situation and you are no longer attached to your family
. In decent shape. I like my guys SLIM to SLIGHTLY BEEFY. (Not much into bears/stocky or guys who need to EAT more)
. Are not completely consumed with the mainstream gay culture (Meaning your ideal night of fun isn't clubbing, drinking all the time with friends and can have a life that is not always in a gay-themed context.
. Enjoy other music than what's standardly popular gay music (ideally have an eclectic taste in music)
. Be COMMUNICATIVE and open to discuss feelings, issues, and have good communication.
. Be my FRIEND as well as my lover. If the most we have in common is that we're dating, then that's not a good sign.
. Have an ACTIVE, independent life. Employed or pursuing higher education.
. Enjoy intelligent and stimulating conversation.
. Have (very very ideally) at least somewhat of a compatible taste of movies with me
. Be MONOGAMOUSLY oriented.
. Have a decntly high libido.
. Be hygenic
. Politically Left
. Not be a chronic snorer
. Love to cuddle and enjoy physical closeness with a lover (in other words, the thought of this doesn't make you cringe somewhere inside)
. A Top, Vers. Top, or Versatile.
. Have a Romantic, and Considerate Nature
. Hairy or Glasses. White Collar a +, though not required by any means. (My tastes vary!)
. Not planning to move out of the are anytime soon.
. Be someone I can feel comfortable introducing to my mother & friends
- Yes, this may seem overly picky and I may indeed be reaching for the stars here, but you know what, honestly, I'd rather be single than remain in a bad relationship (Been there, done that) and don't care for a redux. But if you feel we might be a fit and worth further conversation, by all means, shoot me a message and we can go from there. I have more pics to share with you of course, and a pic from you in your initial response is most appreciated.
Ok, the next step is yours. I look forward to hearing from you ;-) I hope I can meet someone special and handsome to boot!
P.S.- No offense intended, but please don't send me responses just to tell me you enjoyed reading the ad and good luck to me. But, I get all excited when I see I have messages from this ad and it gets to be such a drag to open the e-mail and find that it's someone who's not even a potential match, hasn't read the ad, or just wants to wish me well. I'd much appreciate it, thanks!
I am a easy going, British, laid back professional guy looking to date. I have posted on M4M here a few times and I met some really cool people. But today I am looking for more. Now this can range from a date or an overnight relationship but hope it will end up with meeting someone that I can get to know and build a strong romantic relationship with over time. Not adversed to ending up in one of our beds and waiting up to breakfast in bed, but this is also about some fun out and about etc!
As for me, I am 39, 225 lbs br/br, big strong build, 5’10’’ waist, masc, and from Europe. Clean cut and preppy, I have a good job and enjoy the good life. I enjoy everything from lying on the beach in the summer to down-hill skiing in the winter. I am also a huge fan of dining out and enjoying great food, drink and company. Would be away this weekend but been working too hard, and that needs to stop. Hoping that somebody in my life will ensure that happens! But in the meantime, hoping for some fun!
I wouldn’t say that I am into “the scene” per say, however I do enjoy going out from time to time to a bar or a club with friends. I think it is whatever you make it to be. Easy with a bar or nice restaurant, theater, a movie or higher arts!
I'm not into, wham, bam, than you man quick fuck etc, much more into the whole build up of being dominated and ass play being one component of giving up control and ownership.
In may ways the ancient greeks had it right, that the male on male erotic tension is something to be celebrated, along with opposite sex for reproduction. Enjoying the bond between men, the sexual tension, the primal desire to over power (or be overpowered by) another man and the enjoyment of exploring that sexual activity is what i love. The act of ass play and penetrating and seeding by another another man, is the ultimate action of male dominance and the act of being penetrated and seeded being absolute subordinance. It's the path of getting to this role definitive moment which was one of enjoyment, be it on the battle field, gladiatorial arena, showing the signs of wealth, power, prowess or in competition, both physical or mental and lastly within the act of overcoming and then submitting to the act of erotic/sensual/emotional ownership. As I said the ancient greeks got it right.
These days, building up to this in a private (or public for that matter!) setting also has the same erotic build up, I think getting shaved/waxed also represents the dominate partner leaving their mark on their prey; humiliation in front of a group reinforces ownership; restraints represents lost control and ability to make decisions and be able to act on them; being blindfolded or gaged heightens the other senses to extraordinary levels; performing menial tasks belittles the sub's role in life and then finally the act of subjecting to another man's masculinity and penetration as well as cum seals the deal on ownership.
So this is the psychological connection, but this is further combined with the physical stimulation. I certainly find all the above highly erotic and pleasurable, but when combined with physical interaction it completes the picture.
I am ideally looking for someone that is 30 to 49 in age, comfortable in their own skin, always gone out with Caucasian or Latino and clean cut, but open to all. I will admit I love guys with a nice smile! Professional, easy going, willing to try new things and open minded as well.
So, if you are interested shoot me an email. Tell me a little bit about yourself as well as what you are looking for. No one liners please.
Do you think I can find a guy to date on here? You never know.
I am looking to date nice, honest guys, age 25-37, someone who takes care of his mind and body, has a wide range of interests, masculine, etc.
I am a big movie buff. I love going to the movies, especially to the the independent theatre in the city and watch good films. Last film I saw was called "Paris" in the Embarcadero theatre. I'm not into big blockbuster and cheesy films. Whenever I can afford to go, I love going to concerts and plays. I really want to see Wicked soon. I am going to see Lady Gaga next month. I cannot wait!
I also like doing active things, like hiking, swimming, playing tennis, running, etc. Other interests includes travelling, going to museums, eating out and exploring restaurants in the city, hanging out at cafes.
Anyway, more about me. I work full time, I am Asian. I am laid-back,easy going, a nice guy, masculine. 5'7" 150lbs. not skinny or fat. I am a social drinker. I don't smoke or do drugs.
I am Caucasian, 6'1", 155lbs, tall, thin and fit, with dark hair and brown eyes, quite attractive for my age.
More importantly, I'm considerate, honest, interesting and fun to be with, and I love satisfying a woman, nothing turns me on more.
But let's begin with email to see if there's a connection. Mutual trust and absolute discretion are a must. Ideally you are hwp, have some availability on week days, and live in or somewhat close to The City.
Ideally, I would like to meet someone who also values what our heritage has to offer and, at the same time, can express himself in the context of Western culture. He should possess the quality of devotion, loyalty, consideration and care. Hopefully, we can find each other and grow together, experience together and share life together.
If we click, that would be great. If not, we can still explore the possibility of friendship.
Since this ad is for serious dating and possible life partnership, I would like to list some of the plus and minus points below. I am trying the comprehensive approach and evaluation of a potential date, instead of a litmus test. In other words, you don't have to meet any one or two criteria, but you have to be overall reaching a certain level of desirability in my eyes.
Ethnic Chinese from China, Singapore, Taiwan; or ethnic Korean, Japanese: +20
Ethnic Chinese from other areas from the above: +13
Ethnic Thai, Cambodian, Laotian: -3
Ethnic Vietnamese: -5
Ethnic Pacific Islander: -7
Ethnic Indian or other Asian ethnicities: -10
Mixed ethnicity within the same categories above: no addition or subtraction besides above applied points.
Mixed ethnicity across different categories above (only apply the following points, do not apply any points above):
1. one parent is of first category: +8
2. both parents of other categories: -10
Mixed race (assuming part of any Asian ethnicities): -20
Age between 30 and 46: +10
Each 5 years above 49: -5
Each year below 30: -5
Ever had body modification (e.g. pierce, tatoo): -6
Members of two or more generations of your direct family (including self) went to college: +15
Your socio-economic status NOT exceeding your parents by vast margin: +12
Either or both parents have ever been divorced: -6
Had LTR of 5 years and longer with Asian: +15
Professional in engineering, science, technology, law, medicine, research, etc: +10
Professional in fine arts, music, etc.: -8 (if published by major labels, no points subtracted)
Professional in other liberal arts (psychology, literature, history, public administration, etc.): -5
Professional in business: -2
Non-professional: -12
Had LTR with only non-Asians before: -15
Previously married with woman and with children: -10
Previously married with woman more than 5 years and without children: +7
Current homeownership: +12
Assuming base point is 5 points (given just by being able to read this post), if your final score is above 35 points, I look forward to hearing from you.
IN CASE THIS POST SEEMS DISCRIMINATORY TO YOU, I WISH TO EMPHASIZE THAT IT'S NOT YOUR WORTH OF A PERSON BEING JUDGED HERE. INSTEAD, OUR COMPATIBILITY AS LOVERS IS.
Sure you can place fantasy ads all day long, but nothing great comes from them. It would be much nicer to find a special guy.
While my life is quite full, I wouldn't mind finding a handsome mature professional - banker, psychologist, lawyer, doctor, someone involved in the arts or not for profits, an executive, VC - to date and get to know. I basically want someone who can make me melt both in and out of bed.
I've got a nice career and don't need support, just a successful man with a classic, clean cut, looks fantastic on a date to the opera type of man.
I'm just 30, 135 lbs, HWP, 5 foot 8, supposedly attractive, very fashionable, definitely educated and smart, love the arts and lots of indie fashion and music. Lots more hobbies too!
Sexually, I enjoy men who are thicker rather than thin, smooth or moderately hairy, aged fifty to seventy, the grayer the better, clean and as if they treat their body as a temple. Great looking business men certainly catch my attention often. I am mainly a top and love to kiss and cuddle and explore various facets of good sex as it evolves with one special man in my life.
You'd think this wouldn't be so hard, but I'd love for a professional, full of life, busy and successful man to simply have drinks or a date with. We'll explore the rest over time.
I have my own place in a nice area of SF. I can host a date or meet for drinks dinner.
Now I'll roll the dice and see what comes up. There must be some great men out here though, right?
Ideally, you are sweet, sincere, intelligent and attractive, and ultimately seeking a discreet long term extra-marital relationship with the right person, someone who you can exchange emails with on a regular basis, and occasionally meet up with to experience sizzle beneath the sheets. It also would help if you live in or somewhat near San Francisco and have some availability on weekdays.
I am down-to-earth yet somewhat sophisticated, very considerate, respectful, and romantic, gentle but passionate, interesting and fun to be with. Despite my need to be unfaithful to my wife, I truly am honest and decent; I guess you have to be in my situation to understand. I am Caucasian, tall and very thin with good muscle tone, dark salt and pepper hair, brown eyes. I am no model but I believe I am quite attractive for my age.
WHO I WANT: I desire a companion who will be a David to my Jonathan. Who will be my best friend, who embraces life, who understands that life is complex and has nuances. Who consciously exercises effort in his relationships. Who is curious about other people, other cultures, other ways, other places. Who is more interested in contributing something to a relationship than wondering how big my dick is before you even know if you like me. Who is giving, comforting, understanding, can make me laugh. Who cooks for me and likes it when I like it. Who has a spiritual side, and brings that into the bedroom, too. Who is respectful. Who has a sweet nature. Who is at least as interested in the 99% of time spent outside the bedroom as what happens in the bedroom. Who, when it comes to that, likes affection, kissing, oral sex, and if you want occasional anal sex, it would be as the recipient. Who is poz or is capable of negotiating a sero-mixed relationship. I'd like to meet someone who is not afraid to risk a phone conversation or a meeting; to risk being kind or giving; to risk succeeding at finding love.
We are likeliest a mutually discreet episode, not faked, could be brief, perhaps transient, probably friends on out, or not so much. (If we turned into an affair (given sometimes awesomely serendipitous power of cl connections), it comes with care, growth (and heat), a beautiful base, options of interesting people and great Bay activities.)
I'm about (not2) music, business, flying, chess, politics, literature, theater, friends, work, judicious hours at the beach or on the water if available, and making a nice summer time (going, going...but there's Fall, and wintertime) or few for you. Straight, safe, sixties, six-foot, lanky, sexy, attractive, handsome, chivalrous, deep. Worldly walker. Infrequent light drinker, smoker.
You're fun, and intent on...? Or different; or easy-- city or country. Twenties or older. Nice wit, legs, back, hair, voice. Refined or rasty. Might be ungratified, curious, sojourner, inbetween. Wisely/crazily opportunistic learner, or naturally seeking, or fantasy-distracted~preoccupied. Cat moderate, cant-free. Maybe with truck, preferably stick.
We'd fit, pretty limitless, romantic or dark, compulsive or compassionate; no nasties.
Rather, best of . . . All in hand, sensual hands. Sweet crossings.
If this is the right time, please drop me a line and we'll go from there, pix, phone, info, your--and my--etcetera, to where. Thank you.