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Wanted company (downtown / civic / van ness)

2009-11-11T17:31:25-08:00

Wanted company for dinner and tommorrow hiking or . Me looking to make some good friends ,to enjoy time togezer. So you can tell me your story, I love and rspect women.

What Happens when you're 30(ish) and Still Single (hayes valley) 32yr

2009-11-11T17:30:09-08:00

Once you are in your 30's the whole dating scene changes. Lemme tell you, it sucks the big one.

For Men: The women you meet will be:
A- Sluts (Spent their 20's jumping so fast from guy to guy looking for the love daddy never showed them.)
B- The Jaded Chick (either has never found love before and doesn't believe in it, or was in a long-term relationship that ended badly. Has potential if you have patience)
C- The Gold-digger (the first thing she will ask is. :"So, what do you do for a living?")
D- The Desperate Damsel (looking to get married, will put the relationship into hyper drive and overlook reality for the ring).
E- The Divorcee with kids (Tired, needs help, will settle. If you want an instant family, she's probably going to take very good care of you.)
F- The Married Woman (husband cheated, she's getting her revenge. Expect animal sex.)
G- The Uptight (nobody will ever be perfect for her)
H- The Drama Junkie (if you are relaxed and normal, she will be 'bored' and missing the drama she had in the past)

For Women: The men who ask you out will be:
A- Married (all those guys who married in their early-mid 20's have discovered that their sweet, loving wife is a shrew who wouldn't blow them after they said their vows).
B- Over 40 (for some reason, as soon as you hit the magic 3-0 all the old farts seem to think you should be grateful for their attention.)
C- Playboys (Had fun while he was good looking and young. Find themselves stuck home alone while their "posse" have married off)
D- The Divorced Man with kids (run...looking for a mom, housekeeper, cook, laundress etc etc. Afraid of sex because they have learned the hard way what a pain it is to have kids).
E-The Younger Man (These guys love the idea of dating an older chick, will learn all they can from ya then go find an 18 yr old to show off their new skills).
F- The Career guy (found himself on the fast track, realized that work sucks, can be a good find if he has learned that his personal life should be a priority.)
G- The Idealist (sincerely believes that "just have not found the right person yet", but breaks up for reason like "she couldn't cook", "he didn't challenge me enough".....bottom line: nobody had a chance.

All in all, a pretty sad scene for both sexes. I'm 32, and I've discovered that Saturday night at home can be a whole lotta fun. Ok, maybe not fun, but better than the dating jungle. (oh, if I had to categorize myself, I'd be a Career guy. At this point, I wish I was a Playboy ;) Aw shit, too late to lose the morals.

Hope you have better luck than me.

Super Low Key Dating (hayes valley) 30yr

2009-11-11T17:29:44-08:00

I don't know what the "casual" in "casual encounters" means. It seems to mean "lets fuck kthanxbai" (perhaps not the OED definition, but still, in spirit) and I currently don't have a use for that. Something dirty and quick seems exciting, sure, but I could get drunk in a bar and snag someone with ease, and then wake up the next morning fuzzy on the details of what happened, who this person is or if I even enjoyed myself, and then count the hours till Macy's opens so I can buy new sheets and a soda-pretzel combo.

I like casual as in, informal. Relaxed. I don't want to marry you, but I'd like to get to know you. I'd like to like you, as a person. I'd like to be attracted to you, and I'd like you to be attracted to me as well. I'd like be comfortable with you, to ease into you, and then make it a regular thing that we both enjoy. I'd like there to be honesty and openness and fun and laughter. I am cute and educated....hopefully you are too.

Seeking something ultimately long-term of substance w hip lady (mission district) 32yr

2009-11-11T17:29:38-08:00

First of all let's just get this out of the way. I'm 5'8", hwp, dark hair, brown eyes, occasionally dressed in hipster garb, always fun, positive disposition with a cynical side. I'm pretty much a city boy and love the park, biking, etc. So I probably won't wanna go hiking with you all the time or camping. I can be talked into either of those activities, but I'll never be prompting you to do them. I'm kind of over partying every night as well. A girl who can handle her booze with me on a Friday or the occasional Tuesday will do just fine. Someone who will drunkenly dance with me too will be quite nice. However, I want the majority of our nights spent catching up on tv on dvd or maybe dinner out?

I like a lot of music and play in some bands. I prefer indie music of the quiet bon iver, bonnie prince billy, bat for lashes, Beach House, Blitzen Trapper, Boards of Canada variety. If I were to journey away from my ipod Bs I suppose I'd say fleet foxes maybe? I have a weird sense of humor and shows like arrested development, it's always sunny and the venture bros are my absolute faves. I love old lounge, soul, vocal jazz, old movies, records, etc. I'm all about the castro theater or even driving down to the stanford. There are plenty of girls in this town who enjoy great music and old world charm, but here's the part where I really feel like I'm going to waste. I actually want a relationship. I'm looking for someone smart and realistic who is all about working in all aspects of a relationship. I'm actually a very mellow guy who believes communication is the answer to just about any problem. Obviously, I want someone I really click with who really gets my motor running, but I'm also realistic and realize we're not always gonna be staring into each other's eyes ready to jump each other. Well...one can hope. I have a real 9-5 job, a car, amazing friends all over the country and world. I'm not hard up for a lady by any means, but it's so hard to find a nice girl in this town in dive bars at 1am when you're 5 or 6 drinks deep. I've never been good at that and don't want to be.

In conclusion I just want to say I think I deserve someone of very high caliber, but please realize that I, in no way, expect someone perfect. We are flawed and the world can be a horrible place. We are so lucky to be healthy, young, vibrant, and living in this amazing city. Although, it's disappointing sometimes to be shopping for 1 plane ticket or to buy 2 tickets for a show not knowing who you'll be taking along. It's so gratifying to forward that ticketmaster confirmation email to your girl and say "look what I got!"

Let's get the ball rolling.

Let's have dinner and great conversation! (San Francisco) 44yr

2009-11-11T17:29:34-08:00

Hi There,
I was toying with the idea of going to north beach to have dinner and maybe a drink or two and thought it would be great to meet up with someone for some great conversation, and maybe even some innocent(or not so innocent) flirting! Anyone interested??? I'm 5'10' tall, brn hair hazel eyes and a goatee. I could stand to lose a few, but I'm not too worried about it. I'm a professional that lives and works in the city. You should be 30-45, attractive(to me), intelligent(I'd like to talk), outgoing and looking to have fun. If interested, let me know and send a picture. I'll send one back...I promise! Have a great evening!

Mr. Cuddlekins is Ready to Go (SOMA / south beach) 31yr

2009-11-11T17:26:29-08:00

I've been an avid reader and extremely rare responder of the Craigslist personals for about a couple of months now, and I've noticed some common (and hilarious) threads of interest among the women of SF bay area. I'd like to take a minute to break it down for you, so you can recognize the following horrific cliches and just maybe find someone normal.

"Seeking a man that's at least 6 feet tall. I like to wear high heels" - Damn, totally boned here. I'm only 5'8� or maybe 5'9�, apparently equaling "somewhere between midget and elf, and therefore un datable", even though the average American male height is 5'10�. And 6� feet tall? What kind of shoes (lunar landing) are you wearing anyway? Next...

"Must love animals" - Great... You mean I have to pretend to like your fluffy Poodle/Chihuahua/Norway Rat mixed breed long enough to maybe earn some kisses? Or that huge mastiff that's physically capable of kicking me out of your bed? How about the cat that's contemplating using my balls as a scratching post every time I walk around in my boxers? I think I'll exit stage right before your pet eats my socks again.

"Must like the outdoors" - Barring a select few dweebs I've met that live in their parent�s basement so they can play World of Warcraft for 87 hours straight, most human beings like being outside at some point. Sure, I'll go for a day hike with you. Does that mean I want to live in the woods for a month and wipe my ass with a pinecone? No thanks!

"Must love children" - Unlike the mighty lion (who will kill and eat cubs from rival males) I say the more kids, the better! We can open our own sweatshop and they can make you shoes.

"I like having fun" - Whew, what a relief! I'm meeting too many people these days that think having fun sucks. I'm a big fan of fun myself! We have so much in common.

"I like going out, but also enjoy staying in for a quiet night at home" - That's great, because staying home or going out and doing something are pretty much the only two options you have.

So in conclusion, I say the luck be with you lovely ladies of SF bay area in your search for a Daniel Craig-era James Bond look alike that will dance the Macarena with Mr. Cuddlekins the Poodle whilst purchasing you an all-expenses-paid vacation to Maui. Just keep in mind that Mr. Bond is only 5'10�.

Searching any asian there? (inner sunset / UCSF) 45yr

2009-11-11T17:24:46-08:00

Hello

I am a very simple guy. I have a nice life, nice apartment in San Francisco, I live alone and do pretty much what I enjoy. I am a good man with a lot to offer someone. So why should I settle for something that isn't the best? I don't have to have the most beautiful girl in the world, or the smartest or richest either. But the girl I want has to be sweet with a good heart who would be happy to settle down with someone and build a life together. That's why I'm still single. I just haven't found that "right" girl and I'm still looking. women only
Thank you!!

Indie Rock? (mission district) 31yr

2009-11-11T17:24:03-08:00

I'm a musician and am way into groups like Modest Mouse, Editors, Panda Bear, Of Montreal, Royal Bangs, Arcade Fire, MGMT, Rogue Wave, Les Savy Fav, Minus the Bear, Guided by Voices, Menomena, Shout Out Louds, Japandroids, Built to Spill, We Are Scientists, Dear and the Headlights, Longwave, Air, The Quiet Ones, My Bloody Valentine, Dungen, Viva Voce, Tortoise, Akron/Family, Cut Copy, Dub Trio, White Denim,Twilight Singers, M Ward, Yeasayer, Band of Horses, Animal Collective, Two Gallants, Phoenix, Fleet Foxes, Death Cab, Mermen, Aloha, Mates of State, Interpol, Peeping Tom, Sigur Ros, Brian Jonestown, Ratatat, Lovage, Blonde Redhead, Tapes N Tapes, M83, and on and on....Any single women into groups like that? I find if I'm into the same music as someone, a relationship can be possible with that person....hit me up

European? (lower nob hill) 39yr

2009-11-11T17:20:09-08:00

Cute white male, American, looking for a smart and sassy European woman for heated discussions, nights at the movies, urban adventures and cuddling under the sheets. I'm in good shape, gainfully employed and exceedingly bright.

Honestly, I just need a rebound fuck! (mission district) 33yr

2009-11-11T17:14:54-08:00

Just ended a somewhat complex, albeit short, relationship and really just need to have some fun. This could be one time or ongoing, depending on the chemistry.

About me:

Single
34
Mission-dweller (live alone)
Dog owner
Dark Hair
Blue Eyes
HWP
Intelligent
Sensual
Tattooed
Oral
Attentive
Cuddly

Interested? Tell me about yourself and maybe we can exchange some photos.

Garam Masala Anyone? (pacific heights) 59yr

2009-11-11T17:06:12-08:00

I am looking for a very fit, attractive and wealthy (as a result of Olympic Golds and Nobel Prizes) nymphomaniac who is liberated and subservient, can cook up a gourmet meal at a moments notice, and is a cheap date (for example I would never complain about any old car you pick me up in, or the restaurant you fete me at). What I am not is a celibate, teetotaling vegan, savoring the newly discovered joys of Buddhism. Give me moderation, or give me death! But I can compromise. Can you, and agree that celibacy is not even for the birds? See, I am asking nicely.

If there's chemistry, then of course I am open to everything and more. But I have found that to be elusive in the 16 years that I have been divorced (after a 16 year marriage). So I have temporized, with less than nirvana like results; but I remain optimistic. I am still looking for an intimate soul mate, companion and lover, for a balanced relationship in every important way. I am youthful (no Viagra yet!) from a lifetime of athletic pursuits, and relish the delightful gender differences between men and women. I am 5'10", 154 lbs, and live alone in Pacific Heights. As foreign (India) born, I am forever confused whether one 'hits it off' or 'gets it on' first. I am an earthy (salt of the earth?) man of many appetites. As a practicing Hindu, the only dietary restriction I have is that I cannot eat Islamic vinegar. Slang is not my first language, although English is; I think and curse in it. But cursing is slang, so the convoluted thought process continues. Oy vey!

I hope you will respond with details such as age, location, height, weight (rhetorical question: 'Why is height quantified, but weight subjective? Wait, wait, I know!), .... . Please include 'Cilantro' and/or 'Tumeric' in the subject line of your response, so I can tell you're real, not a spammer.

Plans for tonight....? 31yr

2009-11-11T16:55:38-08:00

Would any single women like to meet up tonight for sex? It is Wednesday and nothing usually happens on Wednesdays. We can meet and get a drink and decide where to go after that. I am being direct, but I hope you appreciate that; and that I am not playing games. Just looking to have mutual fun and maybe make a friend too. I realize that there is a "casual encounters" section, but it is all spam. I am 31, attractive, in good shape, very clean, etc. Send me a message if interested!!

Free trip to Jamica (SOMA / south beach) 36yr

2009-11-11T16:43:35-08:00

HI
i have a two freinds that are going on trip to hedonism early next year, date to be decided. I am looking for someone to be the roomate of my female friend. There will be no expectations on my part other than you have to be fun, easy goingm and be able to mingle
It is a a wild resort, but nuditly is rampant but my other friend is asain and quite conservative and is not sure if she is going to go nude yet so if this is a worry, you'd be in the same camp as my friend
The resort is all inclusive so once i have paid for the trip there are no other cost for you , unless you buy a lot of jamican shoes and handbags.
Please be intelligent as well as fun , all my friends are proffesional-- you don't have to be but at least pretend that you know a thing of two about life

Anyone interstested

Me and my friend Blaine are Visiting from LA (ingleside / SFSU / CCSF) 24yr

2009-11-11T16:42:04-08:00

Hey what's up me and my friend are visiting from LA and were looking for something to do tonight maybe go to a club or bar. We need a couple girls to show us around, Hit us up..

Looking for a ... (marina / cow hollow) 59yr

2009-11-11T16:41:20-08:00

..... casual lover because celibacy is not even for the birds. This would be an honest and discrete (if you prefer that whatever your relationship status) arrangement just for the pleasure of heterosexual intimacy to begin with, without double standards, nor ulterior or commercial motives. Actually I am open to everything with an open-minded right person, but don't like the dating game.

Please be a naturally fit not heavy, stable, mature, secure woman with a healthy libido. I think we all need to keep the pilot light lit, even if the main flame flickers. I am single, live alone (can host), 5'10", 157 lbs., clean and clean shaven, have own hair (thinning and graying for sure) and teeth (nice, warm smile), in great shape, good looking (I'm told), erudite, educated, amusing and entertaining, and gainfully employed. Like you I am drug and disease free and youthful.

If you are interested beyond just idle curiosity, please write with details (pic too?) such as age, appearance, location (SF city preferred),..... . If you do, I will share more details and pic. No pros, promoters of porn dating sites, or other spammers. I will only consider responses with 'Open Minded' in the subject line to avoid pro responses.

Let me buy you dinner at Houston's tonight (north beach / telegraph hill) 31yr

2009-11-11T16:37:41-08:00

Hi. I am a 31 year old married guy living and working in North Beach. My wife is out of town a lot on business. I am looking for a lady that would like to go to dinner and/or a few drinks tonight. I was thinking something along the lines of Houston's or another nice restaurant. I am not looking for a LTR and am not out looking for sex. This is for dinner. Maybe a movie if you'd like. WOMEN ONLY PLEASE.

It's almost Christmas time in the City 30yr

2009-11-11T16:30:43-08:00

Christmas is starting to appear all over the City.... decorations are going up in the malls, there's the ice skating rinks, and soon the Embarcadero Center buildings will light up. Of course, let's not forget those company holiday parties. How wonderful it would be to find someone special to share in all the holiday magic!
I'm an average single guy looking for an average single girl. Someone that is ready to get to know me for who I am, share pure and simple companionship, and make a connection where we both feel that 'spark'. Non-smoker, no drugs, and don't drink alcohol.
Among my best qualities are my ability to make people smile and feel happy when they spend time with me. I have an outgoing personality, but also one that is mellow. I also believe that caring is sharing.
So, if you are starting to hear those sleigh bells jingling, let me know and let's get to know each other!

Millionaire (portola district) 36yr

2009-11-11T16:21:05-08:00

Financially Stable gentleman. Single. Established. Wanting a child.

Seeking to impregnate. Will provide all necessities and a nice lump sum amount upon success.

Let's talk details.

Thanks

Drinks tonight? Maybe Salsa dancing... (mission district) 31yr

2009-11-11T16:20:21-08:00

Anyone interested in going out for drinks tonight? We can grab a few drinks and maybe go salsa dancing? I am thinking Mission but am open to suggestions. I�d like you to be sane for starters, attractive, have a dorky and funny side but know what you want in life.

In return, I can offer you someone who is genuine, cute, funny, educated and attractive.

Great guy seeks LTR (inner richmond) 39yr

2009-11-11T16:20:11-08:00

I'm a warm and easy going guy, educated, creative and successful in my career.
I've been single for a year and am ready to meet the right lady. I do want a long term relationship.
I'm 6' tall, in shape, fit and active white American.

I live and work in SF. I like spending time outdoors, enjoy world cuisine, like the arts, culture and travel.
I live a pretty quiet life but I'm very passionate and artistic.
I love all there is to do in SF and can't wait to share my favorite spots with you.

I'm not a thrill seeker - I have no interest in sky diving or motor boats.
I don't go to bars - not much of a party guy but I do like to socialize and talk about life.

Attraction, passion, emotional give and take - I'm looking for a great connection and great communication.
Let's start with a friendly chat and see where we can go from there.

i like raisins (bernal heights) 26yr

2009-11-11T16:06:59-08:00

hey,
I'll start out by saying what i'm looking for. I like a women with some backbone, a tough girl almost. but not a tomboy, i like a lady as well that looks just as good in a nice dress as she does in sweats and a T. A girl who know's how to ski/snowboard well. likes to camp and hike and that stuff. I like a broad sense of humor. someone who talks shit, not in a negative way, just likes to joke around, and not take life too seriously. Someone who i can drink with at a bar anywhere in the world and have a good time. I'm not really picky on what one does for a living. I'm also usually attracted to tanner, dark skin women, but anyone should feel free to apply. A women who is comfortable with herself, physically and personally. i won't go on too much, thats just a basic outline.
about me: i'm very nice, caring,affectionate. I like to go out, but also like to watch movies at home and drink some beers. I spend time with family. I don't have many friends but the ones i do have are very good ones and most of them are in their 30's, late or early. I'm not a looser, i just don't need many friends, ha. I ride my bike alot, mostly city, but i have done some distance riding as well. I like to travel. I'm origianlly from NY, lived here for like 6 years. I like to laugh a lot. I like to listen but i'm not a huge talker. I'm very clean, and neat. I like home to be comfortable. I prefer early mornings over late nights. Well if you want to talk some more and possibly grab a drink, please respond. hope to hear from you.
-Kevin

Looking to meet my cute Asian soulmate (Fidi) 35yr

2009-11-11T16:01:19-08:00

Looking for a cute single asian female who lives in san francisco (age 25-40)
About me ..prof'l spanish male who works in the financial district, 5'9, 160 lbs, olive complexion, dark brown hair and eyes, hobbies include: surfing, swimming and bike riding. of course the ultimate time would be hanging out and talking on a rainy saturday afternoon. I also enjoy happy hour along with finding that hidden jem whether it be nortbheach, haight, marina, tendernob etc . Besides that I am looking for someone to start off as friends/email buddies and see where it may lead. I have a picture to trade if you wish I have been told that I am very very easy on the eyes and would
leave it up to you to decide. Hope this email finds you well and Happy Holidays!

Submissive? fun? curvy? tonight? click here (downtown / civic / van ness)

2009-11-11T15:38:55-08:00

I'm searching for a curvy woman who wants a man to take charge and use her body for his pleasure (and hers, too!).

Me - Exotic , handsome, masculine guy. SEM.

Very attractive Successful professional. Live alone in San Francisco, pretty normal outside the bedroom (or wherever...).

Feel like having some fun? Get back to me!

Are you a beautiful curvy woman?

2009-11-11T15:32:50-08:00

I only ask two things.
-You're a woman who is considered a curvy woman and/or any other like term.
-You're looking for some company for a physical encounter tonight.

If you fit these two descriptions, then the only thing left to do is write me. I'm keeping this fairly simply because I don't want any misunderstandings. However, don't think that I can't hold a conversation or be entertaining otherwise. Also if you prefer, this can remain a single anonymous get-together, or more in-depth. But if it turned into something more (friends, something long term, etc.), I wouldn't fight that either.
Finally, be open to share any questions or anything else you want to do or know or let me know before, during, or after we meet.

Loser Boy Seeks Miss Goofball (mission district)

2009-11-11T15:30:46-08:00

Are you a goofball?
Are you considered "The Black Sheep"?
Thinkin' people just don't "get you"?
Feel the whole world is headed STRAIGHT to hell?

P E R F E C T!!

Let's goof off then.

Hopefully, you're into indie rock, cinema, drives to nowhere, damn good food, wine/beer/cocktails, creating art/vid/music, street fairs, gritty galleries, parades, hikin', picnics in GG Park and if the chemistry's right--bonus!

About Loser Boy

I don't aim to represent myself as someone who is all that appealing at first glance, however, I do have the gift of gab and can and will make you laugh until you piss yourself. I'm a SWM and I still act like the punk rock kid I always have been (insert devil horned salute here). I've been away for a few years from SF, but now I am back!

Looks-wise? I'm of Irish heritage. I sport the nerd-boy euro-style specs. Nice smile, blue eyes and light brown hair, most of it. On the stocky side, but fit and I take care of myself. Redeeming features? Sure, I shower daily and always have beer in the fridge. I just acquired a funky, raw basement apartment with crazy furniture in it. It's big enough to hang out and do "couple-ish" things together. Or we can pick up some jet fuel just down the street and watch the world rumble by.

What else about me? I'm an art fag. I admit it. Well, not the fag part--it's just that I take myself semi-seriously with my art stuff: editor, animator, artist, and published author. Teach when I have time.

B O N U S: No psycho ex's, kids or craaazy diseases. Not a lotta baggage. Currently working my ass off doing my own thang in the film business. Not rich, but I usually have a little extra dosh. Catch me now before I blow it all on hookers and beer.

Miss Goofball should be cool with a sense of humor. You take care of yourself in some way, and have your own style that can kick out the jams. I like cute, mod-girls that can be jeans and t's but still rock the girly-girl look when apropos. Prefer a former spelling bee champ or band geek. You have "mad skills" at...I dunno--something creative, hopefully. Age/background/ethnicity matters not, but as a former college radio DJ and all-'round musical snob, my taste in friends/culture, etc. skews more towards hipster-esque. Freaks encouraged, but if you're normal but have "hidden weirdo tendencies"--well, I'll accept that. Wait. This is SF, I might want to rethink that "freak" request.

If you are looking for Mr. GQ, Billionaire Doctor/Lawyer dreamboat washboard abs/dumb as a bag of rocks actor-model-waiter boy, then I probably wouldn't be your type 'o dude. I'm the opposite of that, actually. Spontaneous, fun and funny-with lots of smarty-ideas to keep you well entertained. Give a shout!

Show me your curves (russian hill)

2009-11-11T15:30:00-08:00

I need a curvy lover, No relationship, just mutual sexual fun, I love a nice ass and nice tits, let me run my tongue up down and all around. I will make you so hot; you can even sit on my face and grind on me all you want. Let me taste you. If this sounds good let�s talk, and set up a meet and greet to see if we click, the younger the better, but please be legal.

A DVD, Wine, Cuddling and Tender passionate Kisses tonight 29yr

2009-11-11T15:24:45-08:00

You read it. I have been pretty busy with work related stuff recently and haven't really had the time to go out on a bunch of dates. Ideally, I would really enjoy it if some cool girl would be into hanging out tonight. We can watch a dvd, of which I have many, drink some wine, relax, cuddle and make out. I'm not looking for sex. So no worries. I just want to feel some affection tonight and maybe you do too. I'm college educated, cool job and not at all pushy. I can host.

I have a cute sarcastic grin most of the time. (So I'm told). Well if any of this sounds like fun don't hesitate to write. I promise I don't bite. Just looking for a relaxing night with a great girl. I'll send a pic if you send one as well.

Anyone watch "Intervention" on "Gloria"?? (Cali) 37yr

2009-11-11T15:16:16-08:00

I just watched the "Gloria" episode of Intervention last night and had a serious crush on her daughter Renee who I think lives in the S.F. area. Anyone know her? She is stunning and just beautiful......This is sooo random, but you never know.

Mutually beneficial (financial district) 59yr

2009-11-11T15:10:54-08:00

Older man looking for a mature warm caring woman who would appreciate a mutually beneficial arrangement where you could get some real, immediate, and concrete help and assistance. Seeking a warm, caring, slender, affectionate woman who would deeply appreciate such a caring and helpful ongoing friendship to help things out a bit in these difficult times. A woman who appreciates intelligence and a sense of humor in a man, and who loves music, art, culture and films. Please reply with your interests, your current situation, and your own thoughts on what might work well.

movie tomorrow? advance screening WHEN IN ROME (potrero hill) 26yr

2009-11-11T15:04:36-08:00

my friend got some extra tickets... anyone there want to watch WHEN IN ROME tomorrow in San Francisco AMC 1000 in Van Ness... send a message with your info and a pic! =) age must be around 24-30... and you MUST BE SINGLE! lol!

Attractive Man seeks a Sensuous and Sexual curvy woman this evening - (downtown / civic / van ness)

2009-11-11T14:57:42-08:00

I'm a nice looking guy. I have a very positive upbeat personality. I'm recently out of a long-term relationship, and I would like to find a friend and lover for a casual relationship. Just looking for some loving, playful companionship. I am drug and disease-free; and I expect you to be also. I prefer a sexy and sensuous woman in her 20's or 30s.

Race is certainly not an issue.

I am a very warm, romantic and passionate guy. I do love to kiss and cuddle for hours; to me foreplay is the most important part of lovemaking. I am extremely oral. I love the sight and the feel of the curves. I am definitely a breast man. I just love a woman who isn't hesitant to tell me what she wants and how she wants it, and allows me to fulfill HER needs. I am also very interested in learning more about, and experiencing, the tantra style of lovemaking.

I've written quite a bit about myself, please respond with more than a short one liner. I do drive and can travel a reasonable distance. Hope to hear from you soon. Good luck out here and please be safe.

Not enough sunsets (inner richmond) 33yr

2009-11-11T14:54:14-08:00

Hey there,
I was driving along ocean beach one evening last week and it dawned on me that I don't see near enough sunsets.
There's something amazing about the sun setting at this time of year and the colors that it creates in the sky. I started thinking that it would be nice to share this with someone, to walk along the beach or just sit on a sand dune chatting.
If there's a cute girl out there who lives in the city and would be interested in the same kind of thing along with stuff like roadtrips and movies then I would love to hear from you.
I'm an Irish lad with an athletic build, selfemployed, single and easy to get along with.
Thanks for reading and have a great week.

Very Attractive Indian Male for.... - m4w

2009-11-11T14:49:27-08:00

I am a very attractive Indian male seeking a sexy and a romantic girl. A little about me: - Educated professional - Very attractive - I enjoy taking control in the bedroom and exploring your naughty side - 5'10' - 180lbs.

A little about you (desired characteristics) - slightly submissive - very horny with an insatiable desire for being naughty in the bedroom. I am looking for one very naughty special lady who fits the above description and would consider a long term friends with benefits if the chemistry is right. Your pic gets mine.

I have a Girlfriend. I am seeking a friend to do outdoors tuff with (SF) 33yr

2009-11-11T14:46:46-08:00

My GF does not like the outdoors. We have a great, open and understanding relationship. She understands that I like to do fun stuff outdoors with guys and girls. I have plenty of guy friends, no girl friends to do this stuff with. If you are open minded and active think about it.

I surf, hike, bike, swim, climb, snowboard and will try anything outdoors!

My GF loves yoga and that is about it.

What do you do?

About me:
6'1
185
brn/blu
very fit
very fun
very respectful
educated
employed

Women in their 40s all of a sudden are so attractive !!! 51yr

2009-11-11T14:37:09-08:00

Why is that??

Is it a balance of maturity with a hint of the fading bloom of youth??

Is it a balance of carnal knowledge and solvency??

Is it the balance of no forthcoming children and total commitment to the relationship??

Where are these girl/women?? Where were you when the Berlin Wall fell?? What were you doing when John Lennon was assassinated??

Very Attractive man seeks a stylish curvy woman Now!

2009-11-11T14:36:16-08:00

I am a very attractive male seeking a sexy and very horny curvy woman

A little about me:

- Educated professional

- Very attractive

- I enjoy taking control in the bedroom and exploring your naughty side

- 5' 10'

- 180lbs

A little about you (desired characteristics)

- slightly submissive

- very horny with an insatiable desire for being naughty in the bedroom

- large breasts, the bigger the better and they are a major erogenous zone for you, amongst others.

I am looking for one very naughty special lady who fits the above description and would consider a long term friends with benefits if the chemistry is right.

it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests

A Glass of Wine? (inner sunset / UCSF) 29yr

2009-11-11T14:29:17-08:00

Hi there. It's been a busy week at work, so I think it's time to relax! My friends and family have been wonderful with helping me unwind, but now I'm looking for something different. A spontaneous evening, with the possibility of romantic sparks, or the comfy warmth of a new friend. Would anyone be interested in a glass of wine and then seeing where the night takes us? I'm a 29 year old scientist, works hard, plays hard, relaxes hard. Cute and attractive. Drop me a line if you're up for something unexpected this evening...

Down to earth writer seeking�

2009-11-11T14:15:13-08:00

You may have long black beautiful hair�you might not.

You may love all the same writers as me�you may not.

You like to laugh�a lot.

You�ve never crazy-glued someone�s hands together while they were sleeping�at least not on purpose.

You�ve never been to Machu-Pichu but you really want to go.

You can be attracted to a guy who is more on the artistic side, who is strong and handsome and slightly stockier than your average Olympic speed skater (not by much though).

YOU think you are pretty�

You couldn�t live without a man who didn�t LOVE to go down on you.

You might be a but-too skinny supermodel�you might be a curvy and voluptuous angel�you might be Chris Farley in a dress (please no!)�in which case I�ll still be your friend, but never mind all the flirty, dirty talk.

You might like to spend a day in bed.
You might like to spend a day at the beach.
I might like you.

Personality is crucial and attraction is vital�a picture would be nice and would be reciprocated.

40-49

Healthy male for mating... (pacific heights) 50yr

2009-11-11T14:08:49-08:00

Healthy male wishes to connect with SF woman for fun and games.
Italian Ancestry; 5'10"; 160 lbs. Especially prefer taller woman
5'8" and taller, weight proportionate for long term relationship.
Must love cunnilingus on a daily basis and enjoy being a woman.
All expenses paid for suitable woman. Serious inquiries only.

getting dark earlier... (the city) 32yr

2009-11-11T14:00:55-08:00

...and i'm looking for a girl who loves to go check out all the great SF spots, but does not Yelp. okay, if you Yelp, just be extremely cute to make up for it.

looking for a girl who makes something: music, writing, art, spreadsheets...whatever really...just as long as it�s something that makes you happy when you do it.

looking for a girl who works hard during the week, loves lazy weekends, coffee at Blue Bottle, traveling, music, nights out, nights in, and good fun debates over philly cheesesteaks and beer. okay, you can eat and drink whatever you�d like, but i�ll be having a philly cheesesteak and beer:)

is this post too food oriented? sorry, haven�t taken my lunchbreak yet.

tell me about you?
include a pic. i'll send one back.

me: 6�0, cute, from the midwest, love sf, my family, good friends, cooking, and...i�d have to go with shoes.

looking ... 30yr

2009-11-11T13:52:13-08:00

Hey ... I am bored and would love to chat with someone and see where it goes... I am 6'0 tall and height/weight proportionate and would love to meet someone fun ....

Dynamic Man Seeks Dynamic Woman (downtown / civic / van ness) 60yr

2009-11-11T13:47:51-08:00

ME Energetic, Fun Loving Sensual Intelligent Educated Positive >>>>>>> Man

YOU Energetic Fun Loving Sensual Intelligent Educated Positive>>>>>>>>>Woman

We Meet >>>>>> A Great Couple!!!!

Creative Grad Student, sense of humor required (mission district) 29yr

2009-11-11T13:47:48-08:00

Hi there,

I am an open minded, intelligent and adventurous man who is open to anything with the right person. My passions include social justice, political science, literature, music, dancing, cinema and cinema minded television (Dexter, The Wire, The Sopranos, Mad Men, etc) hiking, nature, talking endlessly, biking, cooking and coffee. I happen to be of Irish descent, but I do not have a preferance of heritage with dating.

A few fun facts: In the past year, I have been to Denmark, France, Germany and Costa Rica. I would love a partner to travel with.

I am an obessive music collector. I like a lot of genres and go to a lot of shows. I am slightly High Fidelity like, but not a misanthrope.

I have 2 dogs and love animals.

I find Eastern philosophy fascinating, like Buddhism and Taosim.

I have a hard time labeling myself or tying myself down to one scene. This can be a detriment when trying to describe yourself, but I appereciate all types of people and expression.

Write me if you would like to hear more.

Buddhism, Art, Travel, Music, Dance (mission district) 29yr

2009-11-11T13:37:29-08:00

I have been single for a year now and Grad School is keeping me too busy to meet anyone. It would be nice to meet for coffee or a drink and chat with someone like minded. I enjoy long conversations, live music, comedy and getting out into the world.

A few faves of mine:

Music: Joy Division, David Bowie, Velvet Underground, The Pixies, De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest, Aesop Rock, Bus Driver, Digable Planets, The Buzzcocks, X-Ray Spex, Dresden Dolls, Calexico, Dan Deacon, MGMT, DJ Krush, Goldie, Bjork.

Food: Thai, Mexican, Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, Middle Eastern.

I am of Irish ancestry, but I do not care what heritage you claim. I am open minded and somewhat free-spirited. I am also loyal, funny, creative and loving.

Let me know if you would like to know more.

ASIAN SUGAR DADDY SEEKING YOUNG LADY- I'll TAKE CARE OF U =) (ingleside / SFSU / CCSF) 26yr

2009-11-11T13:30:06-08:00

Hi, I am a sincere, kind,funny good looking Asian gentlemen who is interested in a mutual relationship with a young cute sweet fun girl, who wouldnt mind me spoiling her a tad bit and me taking care of some finiancial bills that you are unable to clear up. I am a bit fortunate then some others, but I am no means filthy rich. So please do not expect anything drastic. But I am happy to share my extra income with you, so we both may enjoy each others company, and have fun together.

My job requires me to be on the road a lot, I travel daily to all parts of california so hopefully you are able to spend some time talking on the phone, and getting to know each other. But I am not looking for a serious relationship. I just ask you spend some time getting to know me, we'll occasionally hang out, and hopefully there will be some mutual physical relations out of this, and in return I will take care of the financial parts =) There is no strings attached to this, I just dont have the time currently to explore and build up a relationship , and this arrangment I feel will work best for me. Kinda the saying goes.. You scratch my back and i'll scratch yours.... (financially =)

I am seeking someone between the ages of 18-25, please send a picture and a perhaps some information about you. I will gladly send a picture of myself afterwords. Hopefully we'll talk soon...

Fishing........ (russian hill) 43yr

2009-11-11T13:22:23-08:00

Hi there

I am visiting this beautiful country of yours and would love to make it home. I know it is a big ask on my part considering I will need to start from scratch in terms of employment and security however there is alot of good I have to offer you.

Let me see, I am.... intelligent, hard working, good work ethic, motivated to do well, good looking[ I think .. you be the judge :) ] , fun , in shape, sporty, strong , big hearted, good values, family oriented, likeable, open minded to try anything and everything this country and life has to offer .... best you find out huh!

I am just throwing a line out there in the hope I do meet someone while I am here on vacation (till April 2010) for friendship, company, possibly a LTR if things go well.

Someone around my age, mature, fun, honest , grounded, who leads an active life and is health conscious. In all honesty I feel religion is important,.... an area I could improve on ,.... would be great if you believe in God to some degree.

It is ok if you are back at school studying, it is ok if you have not been to college, it is ok if you are renting, it is ok if you are finding it hard to make ends meet... whats important to me is your values, your heart, and you are willing to meet me 1/2 way.

Ps I hope I dont sound desperate coz I am not... just fishing to see whats out there, if any.

I have never been married, nor do I have kids.... I would love to though but again I understand that women my age may have kids already and do not want more. I could live with that.

Drop me a line if I sound like a person you would like to meet. Please no spammers.

Oh by the way, I am a Pacific Islander.... now don't let that stop you from saying Hi :)

Honest and simple creative guy looking for LTR - I'm Real (inner richmond) 25yr

2009-11-11T13:21:04-08:00

Hello,

I am 25, from SF and I am currently doing my masters focusing on art direction. I am very laid back, simple, honest, loyal, caring, open minded and creative. I love photography, going out to the movies, restaurants, playing video games, hiking, and exploring the city.

I am interested in a longterm relationship with a simple girl. It's really hard to find good people but I hope I can find the right girl through craigslist.

I'm not a picky person. I'm just looking for a girl that respects me for who I am and we get along just perfectly.

We can also talk on AIM, Yahoo, MSN or Skype.

I will send my pictures if you reply and I know that you are real.

Looking for a creative, cute, intelligent girl to keep up with me (San Francisco) 32yr

2009-11-11T13:12:58-08:00

About me... 32 y/o gentleman (6ft tall, 175 lbs & fit) well educated, well traveled and have a great career. A few words used to describe me - cute, funny (ok, usually a smart-ass), creative, classy, outspoken, crazy at times and considerate of others. Hobbies are - dancing, traveling, riding motorcycle, exotic dinners, sports, walk by the beach, anything outdoor and wines. I also enjoy hanging out with friends, not necessarily out at bars all the time.

I'm looking for someone fun to hang with when I get off work, make dinner for, spend a Friday night together, and of course if it develops into something more, great. You be...22-35, live in the city, someone that isn't insulted if I open a door for you, loves being spontaneous, road trips, random walks around the city in search of something fun, and someone with your own opinions and views, who isn't afraid to tell me I'm full of shit when needed. ... hope you get the picture.

Well ...send me a note if something has piqued your interest w/ your picture and I will respond with mine. :-)

I'm interested in companianship and a long term relationship

2009-11-11T13:12:19-08:00

I'm interested in companianship and a long term relationship

Hello !

I'm interested in companianship and a long term relationship but realize that takes meeting and talking to establish if we have that wonderful connection.

My interests are world traveling, movies, outdoor activities

I consider falling in love and having a long term relationship as one of the best things in life. I am not a player so if you are, please dont respond.

And if you decide to meet me, I'm one of the nicest, safest guys you'll ever come across. I take pride in that. I'm romantic, easy to fall in love with, insightful, and a very deep person.

If you are interested, please respond with a little bit about yourself and a picture or two.

Sincerely !

Foodie looking for Nookie (financial district) 37yr

2009-11-11T13:10:29-08:00

Married foodie looking for a little nookie on the side. You pick the place and get a reservation, I'll spring for the food and wine. No mandatory nookie, but at least be very pretty and a talker so the meal isn't a terrible bore.

Fit Yoga M seeks Playful F (busty?) for strip twister

2009-11-11T12:50:50-08:00

\THis seems like the place for some silly flirtatious fun. I post often, but rarely get any sincere response. (Despite getting several Fake response, very annoying)

Yes My post is silly
And yet I am somewhat serious.
\I am 36 6'1 single fit white male. Shaved bald head, blue eyes, nice smile. Well educated and world traveled. No smoking , no drugs. I spend time playing piano daily.
Enjoy some yoga and meditation from time to time, but not very consistent with that. I have a large strong frame, used to play college football. I have ran in 2 marathons, but not a runners body.

Any Females up for some silly playful fun?

I would really enjoy some touch and affection. A little skin on skin contact would be very nice. Twister , strip or otherwise, would be something silly.
Mainly I am looking for some silly playful fun, that involves some touch and physical contact.

Married and looking? (north beach / telegraph hill) 32yr

2009-11-11T12:34:28-08:00

I've always been interested in having an affair with a married woman but haven't found the right girl. Looking for a fun, fit and open woman to have some fun with.

If you think you fit the bill get in touch.

Ice skating, tree lightings, and other holiday fun 30yr

2009-11-11T12:30:23-08:00

With the holidays almost here, it would be great to meet someone special to enjoy some holiday dates! Let's twirl on the outdoor ice rinks, catch a tree lighting ceremony, or just enjoy some of the amazing decorations that are scattered about the City! If you enjoy a cup of hot chocolate, I'm sure we can fit that in too!
I'm looking to meet someone that has time to enjoy dating, making a connection, and seeing what happens over the next few months. Being family-oriented is appreciated as well as having a big loving heart. Good communication skills are important, trust and honesty are essential.
Besides enjoy the merriment of the holidays, I also enjoy music, movies, travel, photography, Disney, and much more.
The holidays are meant to be shared with someone special. Is it you?

Half a box of condoms... (SOMA / south beach) 31yr

2009-11-11T12:26:47-08:00

It is a nice day and my relationship status is such that I am cleaning out my sock drawer. I get to the bottom, and discover 5 blue, foil squares. Ah...old friends, I remember you well. The optimism of buying a box of 12. The butterflies in the stomach on the night of your unveiling. And now you sit abandoned. And, it turns out, soon to expire. I'm a frugal sort. I hate wasting anything. So now I've got a time line for final deployment: November 30th, 2009. I am very task oriented and love working against a deadline.

I am open to the idea of a long term relationship as well!

Funny, Educated and Cute.... (inner sunset / UCSF) 30yr

2009-11-11T12:26:38-08:00

So I am single ... well for almost six months now. I really enjoyed being by myself and the independence is great. I could get away with not making my bed in the morning, leaving the toilet seat up, leaving the bathroom counter a little wet, listening & watching whatever I wanted, you know, the things...and it is all fun.

But then being single starts getting to me. I miss being in love with a woman, the touch, the laughs, the showers, the arguments, the sex after the arguments, the travels, the adventures, the cuddling, the random visits, the kissing, the whole thing. So I have decided to start dating again....email me if you are interested in meeting someone funny, educated and cute.

Nice Girls Don't Have to Finish Last (hayes valley) 31yr

2009-11-11T12:19:43-08:00

Just looking to meet someone nice, funny, cute and smart. Um...is that too much toask for?

I like surprises, sunshine on bare skin, fresh fruit salad, water fights, laughing till it hurts, camping, mutual respect, freedom, kids, rain on the window, lazy Sunday mornings spent in bed, animals, animated movies, fresh air, swimming, candlelight dinners, sunlight on water, comedy, a good book, cooking a meal for someone special, thunder storms, midnight phone calls when you can't be together, holding hands, trust, cold fingers on warm skin, the wonders of nature, watching a video curled up, being naughty, singing out loud to a song, getting away for a weekend, walking in the rain on a deserted beach, intimacy, people watching, snuggling.

I'm cute, funny, smart, sweet, caring, interesting, not full of myself and have a life.

Not exactly �Seth, the non-profit director� (lower haight) 41yr

2009-11-11T12:08:43-08:00

OK, here comes the baggage: I�m a little caustic. This seems to be a bit of a handicap for me while dwelling in the land of cuddling, kittens and long walks on the beach. Not that I dislike any of those things, in fact I�ve taken some pleasure in a great number of those personal-ads truisms, like a love of life, laughter, nice days and the like. The sticking point for me comes in having to say so. I mean, who really hates to laugh? Does a love of life really differentiate you from everyone else? Aren�t we all a bit more complex than that? Obviously, no one wants to come off sounding like they�ve got their head in the oven, but so many of these ads skew so far off into the land of hearts and cuddles and herbal tea and positive energy that it just makes me want to drink a glass of bourbon and growl the foul language of my workplace.

I tend to be inquisitive, engaged, ironic and often silly. I stay fairly fit and am generally attracted to those who are as well. I go skiing whenever I can, which sounds a bit like a Match.com posting� I take black and white pictures, but need to find another darkroom. I have a kick-ass turntable that isn�t being used as a planter.

In some ways I�m a working guy: My hands are often cut and my thumbnails are both smashed; my wardrobe is simple but not offensive; I shave infrequently (when I�m not seeing someone); I have a loud motorbike; I like beer, potty humor and fast things. Not so much fast women, whatever that means.

In some ways I�m not: I know what a tip is; I know how to use an apostrophe and I never use quotation marks for emphasis; I know what end of the asparagus to cook and I know that fine dining isn�t Black Angus and White Zinfandel; I know, unlike my co-workers, that a conversation consists of more than dueling monologues; I�m fairly progressive; I�m a news/documentary/lecture nerd; I read, though slowly; I�ve traveled a bit, most recently to Thailand last summer.

I tend to bristle a little in the company of those who are enthusiastic self-boosters: I would rather I say nice things about you before you get a chance. I don�t know if I�m any more authentic than anyone else�god knows it�s tedious listening to someone drone on about how �real� they are and how nobody can handle it. If this sounds interesting, say hi. Maybe we could go skip through the park or something.

Let's figure this out.. (western addition)

2009-11-11T12:03:47-08:00

It shouldn't be that hard for a gentleman like me and lady like you to find each other in this city.. I imagine that a beautiful woman like yourself wouldn't mind running into a charming handsome charismatic witty individual who says exactly what he thinks and doesn't play games. We both enjoy taking a break from the hustle and grind to relax with a few drinks and maybe eating somewhere new or just lounge around and veg-out watching TV. We don't require much but we both could use some company.

My stats (that's why you�re into right?):
6'. 195lbs. Athletic build. Dark blonde hair. Blue eyes. Dimples. Two eyebrows. Straight teeth. Late 20's. Good Job. Education in progress. Normal. No baggage. Honest. Single. Caring. Funny. Smart. Good kisser. Incredibly sexy. Very VERY modest.

I think that CL is a stab in the dark but so is going on thinking someone might fall out of the air into my lap. If we do meet up and things go well, when people ask could we say that we met at a bar?

I'm a good guy- throw me a bone... Also, please include a pic and tell me what you look like so I can send you some pics. What do you do for work/fun? What else can I tell you about myself? etc...

Conscious ramblings of a calm madman (San Francisco)

2009-11-11T12:02:38-08:00

Duality: Athletic, healthy appearance saturated by CFS energy; lover of exotic travels now taking local and internal journeys; imprisoned spaciousness; captive expressiveness.
I appreciate awakened beings, stories, silence, drama, ease, sensuality, play, curiosity, beauty, diversity, community, solitude.
Interests: bicycles, sports, nature (sea sky sand cliffs, running water trees, canyons) poetry, music (voices, piano, cello, violin, sax . . .), food (thai, indian, mexican, italian, raw, chocolate, eclectic mountains of mush), creativity (childrens to classical), travels, home . . .
Physically 6' 170 child-like/eroded 51 open to a wide range of ages and all races.
Seeking now; don't have the energy to get far into the future, although love plans.

Financial Help resources Friends With Benefits Type Relationship (San Francisco)

2009-11-11T11:59:47-08:00

Good looking and young, just got divorced there for I am not ready for a typical relationship at this time, but miss the female company If you are in a similar situation then read on.

I am looking for adult female drug and disease free for an ongoing relationship,
I have not done this before, prefer you haven't either.

My idea looking for a female that just needs some financial help resources (friends with benefits type relationship).
If we spark there may be a possibility for something ongoing, I would prefer to meet just one good adult female

About me: I'm European mix I live in the bay area by the water and I have a professional job.
If this sounds interesting please send photos and I will do the same for you, then we can talk.

Please notice:
I am looking for a female for an ongoing relationship to benefits each other and I am for real

Are you tired of the bar scene 29yr

2009-11-11T11:57:06-08:00

Aren't we all?????????????????www.URBANDIVERSION.com

Check us out on Facebook and give us a call sometime why don't ya!?

any kinky minded girls out there (SOMA / south beach) 30yr

2009-11-11T11:34:56-08:00

i am 30 white english and very kinky - love bondage etc
just thought i would start with that ......that way saves time...lol
dont know what to say really, just looking for anyone that is looking too

hope to chat

Craigslist Old School Styley! (sunset / parkside)

2009-11-11T11:03:17-08:00

Anyone up for drinks and conversation somewhere in the city?

I am single, fit, no baggage, intellectual, creative, and open minded. NOT A CREEP. Seeking exactly the same.

No blind dates either.

Peace.....

p.s. Please mention your favorite drink in the subject line otherwise I will delete your reply based on the fact that it is probably spam.

Hot SWM seeks Beautiful SF

2009-11-11T11:02:25-08:00

Dynamic Chemistry Sought: Single Male seeks Single Female
DESIRE:

To meet a beautiful, bright, healthy woman(in body, mind, heart, soul and spirit), who is similarly seeking a meaningful, long-term relationship with her male counterpart

NEED:

To be loved. To be adored. To be thought of often. And of course, to equally reciprocate these same gestures. To be in a naturally comfortable monogamous, loyal, deeply romantic relationship that overtime transcends into a life partnership... however that may come to be beautifully defined, understood and experienced.

ME:
--SWM
--Intelligent
--Well educated
--Never Married
--Never had/does not have children
--Handsome
--Fit / Sexually attractive
--Healthy(no stds / no HIV / no diseases / no addictions or substance abuse / non smoker)
--6'
--190lbs.
--Dark brown hair(full head of hair)
--Clean
--Kind Hearted
--Honest
--Honorable

MY INTERESTS:
--Reading
--Writing
--Thinking
--Volunteering
--Spending time in nature
--Spending time with family and friends
--Exercise(swimming, cycling, calisthenics, yoga)
--Meditation
--Cooking
--Dancing
--Catching plays, ballets, symphonies, theater, art exhibitions, musical concerts, literary/poetry readings, quality films in and out of the house
--Environmental work
--Human Rights work
--Carpentry work from time to time

YOU:
--Single Female (age range 25 to 45)
--Intelligent
--Beautiful
--Fit / Sexually attractive
--Healthy(no stds / no HIV / no diseases / no addictions or substance abuse / non smoker)
--Clean
--Kind hearted
--Down-to-earth
--Real

YOUR INTERESTS:
(You fill in the blank area here.)

ADVANTAGES:
You were born in the Chinese Calendar years of the Dragon, Rat or Monkey. You were born in the astrological month of Aires, Leo and Sagittarius.

CORRESPONDENCE:
Please respond with a brief description of yourself and one or more photos. In turn, I will reciprocate the gesture and send to you pics of myself. NOTE: I will automatically delete any responses without photos and that appear to be of a suspicious nature.

Submissive Slave seeking Bitchy Mistress 30yr

2009-11-11T10:59:08-08:00

I probably don't look the part (tall, handsome, fit, confident) but my alter ego likes to be degraded, have my tongue put to work, and various other things ranging from mild to kinky.
Ready to serve your every whim.

Yeah, where are the surfer girls? (All over SF) 34yr

2009-11-11T10:52:22-08:00

Though I'm not professional surfer, nor a girl... I guess that, yes... like the earlier post, I too would like to know where all the surfer girls are in the bay area. This is something that has concerned me for the past 2 minutes, since the question was posted. Though I have never considered it a problem before, and have never even given it any thought, I can say that this issue, now having my attention, has received shockingly little support from the community. I will walk down the streets, buy groceries, and spend time with friends as I always have, though now, there will be one question plaguing me: Where are all the surfer girls in the bay area? Have we let them slip through the cracks of our social flooring? Perhaps we have never taken the opportunity to make them feel welcome... either way, one thing remains very clear: we have no idea where all of the surfer girls are in the bay area. I think that I speak for the community of the bay area, nay- the country as a whole- when I say that we need to immediately address this issue. I have spent my life dedicated to making my fellow Commonwealth members feel welcome and enriched for their ideas and inner beauty... something that every human possesses, but lately, in the past 4 minutes, I am painfully aware that I cannot locate all of the surfer girls in the bay area. This city may be known for liberal views, niceties, the 49ers�, academic excellence, and the world premier software institutions, but if someone showed me a map of the city and asked me to point to where all of the surfer girls are in the bay area, well... shamefully, I don't think that I could do it.

I call on my fellow CL'ers to help put an end to our collective ignorance. We must demand resolution from our leaders, assist our neighbors, and embrace each other, otherwise we may never answer the question that has been brought to my attention roughly 6 minutes ago. As I type this, I once again ask myself, as well as the Heavens above: In what location would one find all of the surfer girls in the bay area?

Looking for a lunch or walking buddy today... (financial district) 29yr

2009-11-11T10:32:22-08:00

It�s Wednesday and it's supposed to be a moderately nice day outside -- I�d love to meet a normal, interesting and fun woman for lunch today in the financial district. Let�s meet up for lunch, we can eat, walk or just people-watch and hopefully make a connection. If things work out then we�ve both made a new lunch buddy nearby! And of course, lunch is on me. No drama, no expectations and no weirdness, let�s just meet up and see how things go.

My schedule is completely flexible so I can meet you anywhere downtown at any time up until 3pm. I�m centrally located between Union Square and the Ferry Building so just name your place.

Me: 29, normal, professional, educated, extremely laid back, great conversationalist and easy to get a long with. As far as the �good stuff� I�m 5�7�/140/fit body. My recent pics are below.

You: Age and race are not important. Just be free today, normal, easy going :)

Hope to see you soon...

Seeking Asian model for beautiful muse / paramour / girlfriend. 32yr

2009-11-11T10:29:32-08:00

I'm searching for a beautiful and sweet Asian model type who I can take care of
and spoil.

I handsome, intelligent, very succcessful, and can take very good care of you.

It would also be nice to take you traveling with me :)

Women seem to love me as I'm confident, professional, intelligent, handsome, and
established. The problem is that I don't have any time to date as work keeps me
amazingly busy.

I think the model of a European 'kept woman' or muse would be really nice and
just what I'm looking for. It would be really nice if this was more of a
girlfriend style relationship. We can figure this out based on how you want to
move forward.

I would prefer if you did NOT have a job as this would mean you have more time
for my flexible schedule. I want me to be your number one priority not some
silly job :-P

I'm also planning on taking some trips later this year and it would be great if
you could accompany me to Europe. Prague, France, Tokyo, etc...

SEEKING SBF QUEEN TO CATER TO - PAMPER - SPOIL - SERVE (sf)

2009-11-11T10:24:40-08:00

PLEASE READ THE WHOLE AD BEFORE ANSWERING - YOU WILL NEED TO SAY SOMETHING IN YOUR REPLY ABOUT WHAT I POSTED AND WHAT YOU LIKE IN THIS REGARD - GENERAL SPAM REPLIES AND THOSE THAT STATE YOU CAN SEE PICTURES OR PROFILES AT ANOTHER URL WILL BE DELETED IMMEDIATELY AS OBVIOUS SPAM. All spam gets forwarded to the host and the accounts are usually closed!

I'm seeking an intelligent, educated, attractive, shapely (not fat!), assertive, Black woman (SBF) that enjoys being catered to, spoiled and waited upon by an attentive, worshipful, submissive swm.

You know you're a queen, and should be treated as such at all times, you enjoy sitting back as the center of attention. Relax in the manner of your choosing, watch surround sound movies or tv, read, listen to music, or just sit back to unwind after a long day. I will place you on a pedestal and serve you completely.

While you're relaxing I'll serve you the beverage of your choice, from tea or coffee to fine wine to champagne. I will serve you, massage and cover your feet with kisses to prove my desire to wait on you literally and totally hand and foot, and kiss the ground you walk on.

You need do nothing in return, just allow me the privilege of fulfilling your desires, and have the privilege of serving at your feet. I'm not looking for sex, so there is no hidden agenda, just a genuine and true desire to worship, serve & obey a fine african american goddess exactly as described above. Maybe I can also spoil you with that occasional gift and fine lounging attire to accompany your relaxation. I am very picky and choosy, but rewards and benefits await the right one.

I'm a swm in San Francisco, intelligent, quite successful, good personality & sense of humor, pretty good shape, mature, dark hair, brown eyes, safe and sane, very respectful of others, uxorious and submissive to you, genuine, and have a beautiful home in which to cater to you.

I'm in sf, and you need to have the ability to come to the city if you don't live here. I am serious and for real, and looking for same. Most of the women responding previously were lacking in basic social skills that they never learned; they have been truly socially dysfunctional and ignorant, though always telling me how they were different from the others. If this sounds like fun or something you might truly enjoy feel free to email me. You can also send pictures if you like, as well as a phone number (I will not abuse it, harass, or call at weird hours). I don't send out pictures, so don't waste time asking, but will be happy to provide a phone number so we can talk seriously and discuss any details. Not interested in teeny boppers who play online, curiosity seekers, ghetto hood rats, or bored losers! Don't waste my time if you can't afford to get to SF, or "think" you're too busy, or your car (i.e. beater) is in the shop.

Attractive man of color seeking voluptuous bbw (ingleside / SFSU / CCSF) 29yr

2009-11-11T10:24:15-08:00

Attractive man of color seeking voluptuous bbw in the bay area. I'm a man who definitely appreciates, prefers and is seeking a sweet, outgoing, sensual bbw. Skinny women have never done it for me! I'm college educated, outgoing and enjoy nature and traveling. Seeking a women who knows what they want, and is looking for a friendship that can hopefully progress into more. I'm a 29 yo man that is 5'11'' 190 lbs and in good shape. Serious replies only. If this ad is interesting to you let's chat!

$40 to you (pacific heights)

2009-11-11T10:16:37-08:00

$40 fee for you if you can find me a decent clean lady who will have sex with me If i pay her $40. This can be a weekly thing. I am good looking but do not have time to date.

I Hit Paris Hilton's Car and didn't leave a Note! (SF Bay Area) 47yr

2009-11-11T10:01:18-08:00

Attractive, fun, outgoing, well-spoken, culturally-advanced Jewish Man, 47, NY roots, compassionate, witty, conversant, experienced life with multitude of stories about life, the social whirl, and so on...

Looking for an equally fun, compelling, sassy, witty, engaging, pithy, articulate lady that desires a man with emotional stability, social relevence, quiet dinners, romantic ideals and a clear vision of the future and desire for domestic bliss.

How's that for starters?

Note/picture appreciated.

Open to LTR? Inter-Racial guy iso AMAZING lady! =) (SF Bay Area) 28yr

2009-11-11T10:00:12-08:00

www DOT myspace DOT com SLASH mixedmorenito (my profile)

*UPDATE: **NO PIC, NO REPLY** (I will just delete the email). Also, due to most of the responses being spam/fake, I will delete responses that do not have the following information in the first email to me: Location, Age, and why you decided to respond to my post. Sorry to make this change, but I need to separate the sincere from the spam!

**Also, in the subject of your first response please just put "SINCERE RESPONSE" in the subject line, so I know you are not spam, and have read this post. If you dont have pix attached, but have them on myspace or facebook, etc..please just mention that in the subject of your email. THANK YOU! =)**

Am I any different from other guys? YES..why? Because I am fun, sincere, and have a good heart and NOT motivated by sex!! I have morals and seek a quality lady to learn and grow with!

I will keep this short, but if I spark your interest, I am an open book for you!! And i look forward to some stimulating conversation!

A few things upront FIRST:

*PLEASE be 22-29 years old, local to sf bay area, more on the thinner/athletic side((((please..no.. "voluptuous", "thick" "curvy", BBW, etc)))) be 100% single with no kids. Lastly, like tall guys!! LOL...

I am into ALL nationalities: japanese,persian,chinese,italian,burmese,thai, korean,native american,egyptian, pinay,greek,jewish,vietnamese,russian,afghan,puerto rican,etc..and of course mixed..

Also, I am a gentleman so I must say:

1. sex is NOT and i repeat not the best thing a girl can offer me. so please do not approach me as if that is how you "take good care of your man". i will never choose "physical pleasure" over a real connection with a girl. I am looking for a connection that is deep and meaningful!

2. comes after 1 and before 3..lol..!!

..some basics... i am single Mixed male (SMM) CUBAN/filipino/Black. 6foot4. never married. no kids. i am in the east bay calif (Bay area!) Intelligent, unique, fun, confident in who i am, outgoing, straight forward, not into games, not a playa, not fake or flaky, not drama. I like to mix it up...keep things fresh...and i am NOT ashamed to admit i prefer to be in a relationship. i am hoping to find a female that *has time for a guy*...that can keep her word, not fake or flaky, strong, independent, fun, open minded and is open to a relationship if it gets to that point.

...i LOOOOVE to make a girl LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH!! i have a ZEST for life!!..a lil bit of a dork at times..but i KNOW when to be serious. i take pride in being able to KEEP a smile on my "special someones" face. i am religious (christian), artisitc, romantic, athletic, sincere, goofy, diverse, have my own style, not a follower, i know what i want in life, i have my own place and a good job,no kids, educated, and enjoy life...

... im into many things from fine dining to miniature golf..to opera to working out, to just cuddling up at home with my special someone and a dvd..i like to be active..but i am also easy going. i am into art,outdoors, movies, anime, jamba juice, skating, pool, bowling, working out, car shows, comedy clubs, karaoke, dancing, joy rides, theatre, beaches, volunteering, photography, site seeing, amusement parks, cooking, shopping, good conversations, writing, reading, coffee houses, foreign films, music....you name it..... wanna know more? just ask!!

allow me to STIMULATE your mind, show you new things, LEARN and GROW together. i am a GOOD change of pace from most guys. say hi, ALLOW ME THE HONOR

Classy Italian Exec seeks Ebony 'Diva for Drinks/Camaraderie Tonight (richmond / seacliff) 47yr

2009-11-11T09:57:53-08:00

Refined, spirited, non-weirdo, fun, well-dressed Italian Man, media Exec, culturally literate, well-versed and just out of a recent r-ship...looking for a fun, classy, intriguing, passionate Black lady in her 30's for a very relaxed, fun, no hassle, drama-free evening of cocktails, conversation and kinship.

Your note and picture gets mine.

Wednesday Fun? (mission district) 33yr

2009-11-11T09:52:54-08:00

I am off today (Veteran�s Day ;-) and I thought I would see what is out there and maybe have some fun this morning/afternoon.

I am a sexy a friendly European Guy. I am well educated and live in San Francisco. I am looking for some thing casual but open to more if chemistry is right.

Opera this Friday with fun, hot guy (marina / cow hollow) 30yr

2009-11-11T09:47:54-08:00

I have an extra ticket to go see Otello and thought I'd if any of you CLers might be up for some high class fun.

About me: I make pretty much everything fun. Seriously everything. You could take me to the DMV, the dentist�s office, the security line at the airport, your gyno appointment - it doesn�t matter, I will have you laughing the whole time. Sometimes at me, mostly at you, and if you come with me this Friday, probably a lot at all these weirdos on Craigslist.

You�ll see from this picture that I look really preppy. My friends tease me for being the Poster-Boy for White Privilege. Okay, so I have 2 fancy degrees from schools that begin with H and S. And yes, I like golf. And I occasionally wear light blue button-downs with over-priced jeans. Alright fine, maybe I am preppy. But that doesn�t mean you have to be a Marina Girl to date me. If you can call me out on my bullsh*t and crack equally funny jokes about all these weirdos on Craigslist, I would love to hang out with you.

Work-wise, I have the best job in the world. I run an online education company that helps kids with disabilities.

It�s just a few hours at the Opera, so I�m not going to throw out a bunch of requirements. That said, if you�re a 60-year old, 300 pound, post-op trannie from Hayward, it�s probably not going to work out for us. So send a pic and some witty banter, and let�s go enjoy the opera.

Seeking an OLDER WOMAN for Adult fun (SF) 34yr

2009-11-11T09:42:11-08:00

Hello,

I am looking for a sensual relationship with a mature, older (35-55) woman who is yearning to fulfill her physical needs. Whether you are in a loveless relationship or currently single I hope to be a safe, discreet, sexy partner to share laughs, wine and carnal pleasures.

I am a thirty-four old professional man who would is interested in entertaining you inside and outside the bedroom. Women of all shapes and sizes will be considered. As long as you are drug/disease free, sane and discreet because I am. I have a flexible schedule and look forward to chatting with you soon. I am not looking to satisfy my 'MILF' fetish but rather want to find a partner who is secure with their body and understands their natural 'needs'.

Responses with pictures will get replies first. Fair is fair-- share information with me and I will share with you. Looking forward to having some great sensual times together!

That November chill in the air 30yr

2009-11-11T09:34:22-08:00

With winter on the way, there is already that chill in the air. Makes me think how wonderful it would be to find someone to share some warmth with, both in heart and soul.
I''m ready to meet someone that is right for me, capturing my attention and catching my eye in more ways than one. A down-to-earth, girl-next-door, caring girl would be wonderful, someone that is mellow but knows how to have a good time as well. Kindness, trust, honesty and being a good communicator helps.
If you enjoy the outdoors, music, photography, movies, and exploring places, I'm sure we could get along well. Of course, you'd be happy to share with me some of your interests and I'd do the same. Open to new ideas... let's get out there and have fun together! I don't smoke and I'm not interested in sports, so it would be nice if you were the same.
I'm looking for a relationship that starts with dating and builds into something exciting and meaningful in the winter months ahead!

Click here to open link! (707) 19yr

2009-11-11T09:24:32-08:00

Play no games.. Keepin it short, dont email me with bullshit.. Heres a pic if you like message me..

Benefactor and mentor (financial district) 59yr

2009-11-11T09:09:56-08:00

Gentleman is seeking a reliable and mature woman. A woman who could enjoy and appreciate a benefactor and mentor arrangement. A relationship in which you are able to get some immediate, real and ongoing help and assistance in these tough times. In particular am searching for a person who is caring, sensual, warm, slender, fit, and affectionate. Someone who is interested in the arts, culture, music, and films, and who loves great conversation. Someone who deeply appreciates intelligence and a sense of humor. It is important to state that this would be an ongoing and dependable discreet friendship. A friendship where independence is respected, and where no one is interested in drama. The focus instead is on sharing wonderful times and enjoying life. Please respond with your thoughts, interests, a description of you or a picture, and your current situation, along with what might work from your perspective.

Military Stud for Fun (SF)

2009-11-11T08:47:33-08:00

I'm just back from Afghanistan a few weeks ago where I'm in the special forces. I'm not here for only fleet week.. Looking for a woman that appreciates a tall, rugged, and strong military guy or a man in uniform.
I'm 6'3 205 lbs built like an NFL quarterback and 34yo. I'm white with blue eyes, a great smile and broad shoulders. I'm also extremely well endowed. Not looking for anything sleazy but please be fun and open minded and sensual. I won't be here for too long but if all goes well I'd like to keep in touch. I have family in this area.

You Want to Explode in Ecstacy (San Francisco)

2009-11-11T08:46:28-08:00

I looking for a partner to practice my oral techniques on.

You never get approached anymore .......here's why (sf)

2009-11-11T08:27:54-08:00

Surely, even if you are a 'hot' chick in the bay area you must have wondered what's going on with the lack of men approaching you when out with your girlfriends these days. Recently, I even read a post about some Asian girl complaining saying she was 'so hot', and 'so was her friend', but none of the guys at the bar they were at approached them. They were so puzzled over this and their egos bruised (awwww violins play). But the reasons men ignore women like this in 2009 are very simple.
Read on.

Before the internet a man had to do his hunting in the wilds of bars, streets, libraries (remember reading books?), cafes etc. A man will do what he has to do to achieve his goals. Straight guys love women and we figure out ways to find them. It's a matter of sexual survival. With the advent of dating sites, cl, social network sites, etc, it has made the whole pick up artist routine a very antiquated and an extremely inefficient way of 'scoring' women. We can now line up dates for ourselves from the comfort of our offices, our couch, or while sipping a cocktail and watching a football game. We no longer have to try so hard in public, trying to woo you away from your group of friends and be cleaver, cute, and funny throwing cash at your expensive grey goose cocktails, hoping and praying you will find us interesting and give us a chance. We have figured out that there's actually a very good chance you don't even deserve a chance at all.
More........

The Pick Up Artist scene may have never died but 'you women' killed it by going out in groups of 4 or more. Yes, we know you girls are rarely comfortable enough in your own skin to go out alone, hell no that can never happen! And even going out in pairs is something you really can't do. After all, that would mean a potential meaningful conversation with a good friend, or a conversation with two of you and two men. That's not 'sexy' enough for you...and it's too intimate. It also might expose what a dope you are and we wouldn't want that now would we? Nah....you much prefer to get dolled up in a party dress, and giggle like idiots with 5 or more tertiary friends. Keep it simple stupid. Heeheee.... maybe you can sucker some guys to buy you all drinks! And if you get the drink bought for you alone you look great in front of your 'friends' and they will be envious. After all, you ladies are all in competition with each other and you'd love nothing more to show them up publicly. ....heeheehee Right? The Twenty something crowd is the absolute worst with this. As a guy in my 30's I cringe when I see groups of girls in their mid twenties out on the town or in the same bar as me. There's nothing that's more of a turn off than a group of outwardly attractive girls in this age range. Inside they are nearly always extremely vapid, and whores to the biggest mirror they can find.

Truly many girls out there have already figured out that that bars and public places are not the place to meet guys anymore. There would be no reason I meet so many prospects online if it was so easy for a woman to pick up 'quality' men in public these days. These girls 'get it'. And the modern era has forced them to evolve and humbled them at the same time. It's a good thing for all of us. But still I get the occasional dopey girl asking me: 'so why do you have to meet someone on craigslist?, huh?' Honey, I don' t have to meet someone on craigslist, I choose to meet someone on craigslist. Let's keep it straight. And wasn't it YOU that replied to me? So, check yourself woman, please, and stop wasting my time with dumb ass questions.
Finally......

So, you see that good looking guy at the bar who definitely saw you (the girl dressed to the nines and eager for attention to bloat your ego), the same guy that's basically ignoring you or just more interested in the conversation he's having with a 50 year old man at the bar than in your long legs in a mini at the moment? That guy is me. And I've had enough dates this week to take a night off and have a drink alone or with a buddy and be happy with that. I'm an 'evolved dater' who refuses to go back to the old days of trying to get your number after picking up your bar tab and competing with drunks on who's the best looking, the most funny, or has the better job. That's a game for weenies and for guys with low IQ's , unable to take advantage of the technological advances of the modern era. Scary is the fact that these guys that still do it that way are one of 2 things: either a true PUA....and capitalizing on void in the market for guys like him, or more than likely: a guy that doesn't own a computer (and just how scary is that?!).

Leonard Cohen Concert This Friday (Bay Area) 47yr

2009-11-11T08:26:46-08:00

I am looking for someone who appreciates Leonard Cohen�s music and lyrics and who
would like to join me for the concert at the HP Pavilion in San Jose this Friday at 8 PM.

We could first exchange a few e-mails and talk by phone, in order to find out if we would
enjoy each other�s company for an evening, and who knows, maybe we would later decide
to meet again�

I am 47, liberal, live by the golden rule, originally from Europe, do not smoke or use drugs,
like to have red wine occasionally (Cabernet Sauvignon), divorced with no kids or pets;
in my free time I like to cook, especially for someone who appreciates delicious and spicy
cuisine, read, watch movies, listen to music, play soccer, go on hikes and discuss progressive
topics.

If you are interested and think that we could have fun together at the concert on Friday,
please write to me and introduce yourself.

Thank you!

Coffee? (cole valley / ashbury hts) 47yr

2009-11-11T08:19:50-08:00

Hi,
Do you like to drink coffee?
Well so do I.
Shall we meet at your coffee shop, or mine?

Looking for female company...

Looking for a mature woman (SF) 47yr

2009-11-11T08:18:53-08:00

As the posting says, i'm looking for a mature woman. This is a second posting. I tried once before, but didn't receive many real responses.
Just a lot of junk emails.
Well hopefully I have better luck this time.
I am looking for a woman to spend some time with.
Someone who enjoys the many things the city has to offer.
If you have time, please respond.
I am 47 years old, 5-9 170 salt/pepper hair, attractive, and educated.
I am also very easy going.
I have a picture to share on request.
Talk to you soon!

Tall, 6'2, Blond, Blue & Well Endowed

2009-11-11T08:13:53-08:00

Just wondering if any women out there can appreciate a tall good looking guy with blond hair anymore? Seems most want mr tall dark and handsome. But what about us blondish guys?
Besides being well endowed I'm also lots of fun to hang out with. Looking for someone sensual and openminded but not desperate. Must be attractive, and please, no BBW's (no offense).
35 years old

Curvy, Sexy? Look Here..... (marina / cow hollow)

2009-11-11T08:11:44-08:00

Nice to meet you........ I'm 6'2 green eyes, 215, extremely well hung and looking to find a woman that is on the same level as myself sexually.

I want to meet an open-minded sexual woman who wants to take sex to another level. I'm a total ass guy and love a real woman (a woman with real curves, ass, breasts), an open-minded woman who knows what she likes and is not afraid to express it are one of my biggest turn-ons. I love pleasing a woman and giving a nice oiled up ass/thigh massage to put you in the mood and have you craving for more. I like it hard, slow and deep, and long n'sweaty animalistic sex. Lets talk and share a few fantasies and see where it takes us.

I'm a normal easy going professional guy who is very sexual and loves thinking of hot new things to try and exploring fantasies, the kinkier the better. I want to find someone that seeks amazing sex, not just a 10 minute pop n go thing. I love the build up, sharing fantasies and getting each other all worked up and pleasing each other completely. I am very open to a friends with w/benefits thing if we are sexually compatible, also 420 friendly and discrete.

so, just reply to this ad. I do have more pics to share.

I am NOT a Gigolo

2009-11-11T07:29:36-08:00

And if you are not a whore, PLEASE answer my ad--because we obviously have something in common! Judging from my admittedly limited experience placing such ads, practically everybody in the Bay Area must be one or the other. Where do so many whores find work, for God's sake? I simply am not the type to either patronize or exploit, O most treasured females of the species. Sex and love need to stand on their own two feet, or at least on whatever parts are natural to that purpose.
>>>Why wade through more dreck when a couple of letter exchanges can either confirm this possibility to be the chance of a lifetime, or show that, for you, it is the road to epic panic and heartbreaking nausea? If you find this even the least bit amusing, we're already onto something way better than your worst date, let's face it. Aw c'mon! Tell me about yourself--your hopes, desires, the most delicate aspirations of the inner recesses of your heart, your ideal breakfast, things you think of when you lie awake at night, things you might like to do someplace tropical on a warm night, what animals are your favorites, what better not be in my closet, what you'd like to find in there in the unlikely event you were to stoop to snoopery. And prove to me you are real by not suggesting anything at all about my credit card, and I won't ask you about yours. I won't respond to anything where I need to sign up for some web site, sorry. Be real and talk to me! I may the the most real man in town...

Going to the 2012 screening tonight...join me? (portola district) 33yr

2009-11-11T07:23:17-08:00

Not really looking for a date, I just don't want to go alone. So here I am in cl. I can send a pic if you like. I'm 5'8, brown hair, green eyes, slim at 150#'s. Is there anyone else interested in this movie. Honestly, I don't know if i'd go if I didn't have free tix but hey it's free and in this economy that's everybody's favorite word. Drop me a line if you are interested. The movies starts at 7 at the San Francisco centre (a.k.a bloomingdales). I expect to be there around 6.
Thanks!

mixed Persian looking for friends (twin peaks / diamond hts) 27yr

2009-11-11T07:20:17-08:00

Hi there, I am here for networking and to make new friends. I just want good friends and then if the chemistry is right, could be more. About me: I am 27 years old, self employed "software engineer" and love my job. I play pool/snooker whenever i get time. I am somewhat an outdoor guy and if I find someone with mutual ideas and open minded, I am ready to hit the road and go as far as you want to.
I am NOT easily offended or petty. I believe in great conversation and fun, free personalities. I'm just a very open minded person with a humorous outlook on life...well...most of the time anyway :)
I'm basically looking for good company, I'm not a psychic, so I don't know if it'll turn into more than that...

Hmm, who I would like to meet?
I would like to meet a person with a good heart and somewhat independant. nothing major just be down to earth and respectful.
I personally like people with a good energy for life and who wants to live it to its best . I am not looking for anything serious right away. if we click, it can be a serious relationship.

Still single and not planing to get married tomorow.

If you want to know my stats, email me and say " Hi ".
Ciao

Responsabile caring fun spontaionous man (haight ashbury) 58yr

2009-11-11T07:18:33-08:00

Healthy Active creative man with sporty body liking spontaneity, making simple things into little adventures who does not use romance to get in your pants. Rather to show you that your appreciated and not taken for granted. Seeking younger slender woman who is basically cheerful that enjoys exploring seeing doing and learning new things for life time partner. I live in Paradise Ca 95969 If you are able to move to the country sometime Are a friend of Nature Do not use sex as a tool and seek a man that will be a commuted loyal supportive friend to love and play with. Lets get acquainted I am honest open respectful. I would like that person as an equal to enjoy a fun interesting and rewarding life in exchange for her loving friendship. I am an expert at compromising without taking turns.
Blue Skies ! Dave

Film Maker wants to interview long term singles (Bay Area) 45yr

2009-11-11T07:04:24-08:00

Documentary Film Maker seeks single woman and men who have a history of short term relationships.

You and your ex-partners will be separately interviewed.

You will be able to respond to and critique each others responses via video.

If interested please respond with an email address and short note about yourself including:

Age.
Sex.
Years single.
Average length of relationship.

lets be friends (mission district)

2009-11-11T06:57:13-08:00

hello lets chat

Tall and in shape and very healthy 53yr

2009-11-11T06:38:11-08:00

I have all my hair and teeth LOL, 6'1, weigh 167, white with brown eyes, am in shape. I do smoke, stay in an SLE, looking for a single, slim gal who is also healthy, age and race non important, whats in your heart that counts. Your response gets my phone number only.

Hey You ~ (Sf Bay)

2009-11-11T05:54:03-08:00

Hey There

Way too many picky Men and women out here..Anyway I am looking to see if there is a GAL out here, fit, fun & attractive to get to know and see where it goes. We already have common interests I am betting. Me: Fun,fit with above average looks , imperfect like everyone else and looking for Her to do some things with, whatever they are and wherever they may be. Should there be an attraction I am not opposed to an LTR if it goes there.. Should you be a little curious,ask questions and dig deeper and try to get to know someone for whom they are even if it is not me..Have a great day !! Cheers

Winter is on the way - attractive male - wood fire place & U (russian hill) 39yr

2009-11-11T02:46:33-08:00

WARNING: HOLD ON....if you thinking that it was unwise to write one so long...we might not click...anything worth while requires time and effort...and this is not an area I choose to cut corners...

Enjoying your journey, I am, yet it would be that much sweeter with the right woman. Perhaps we can make it even "richer" for both of us. I am not one of those who are "can't or try" types...nor do I do all I put out to do either, but I am solution oriented and positive. I like to keep surrounding myself with people like this, so if you "glass half empty" person, please reply to another and good luck on your search.

Anyone still reading? (LOL) I an explorer type and try new things and lived in three major cities: NYC (always be home in my heart), la la land (LA), and for the second time S.F. and I'm not moving - hell no!

Those who know me well would say that I can the life of the party but also taken home to meet the parents, those nice Jewish boy qualities (with an edge mom can't see). Not a believer in organized religion but if it helps society and family structure...what ever works. They would tell you I am a down to earth wise man yet a kid at heart. My friend will call run the issue or challenge by me then go to the shrink and get told the same thing - where is my co-pay. No...Seriously, I like to help people and if you look deep enough...around long enough you would never guess the depth of this sole and heart. Thank god for the NY shell, bad enough I get checked out by men too in this city...but I guess it�s a good problem to have.

I could stop here, but it be sound to tell you more since...most cant keep up nor really understand me and tend to view me...putting me into that typical man box. LOL I am anything but typical - while Alpha male with my pride and ego in check for the most part I also benefit for the attributes associated with the better half of our species, you ladies. I�m like a hybrid and you would never guess. When you understand communication as myself (profession � I have interviewed 1000�s of people and worked with troubled teens and sex survey work for the state of CA) you come to learn women and men hear differently and men only use one side of the brain where women do too. I listen with both, hypersensitive intuition, and sensitivity that make me complex in a good way, a cure for boredom which most suffer from whether it be in the bedroom too. That never happens � I won�t stand for it.

I enjoy a great conversation from the deep and more serious to sinfully erotic. My range and appreciation for making love to wild naughty sex extends outside the bedroom as well in music, food, movies, etc.

I look for a woman with a certain look, sure. More important however is her outlook...her mind. Nothing sexier! It controls everything and we even love with it, but saying, "I love you with all my brain" ...it just doesn't roll of the tongue. It can be the source of limitations or her empowerment, and lends one able to tell the difference between debates versus an argument. I like a woman who has her own opinions and will voice them. Not to worry I will plan the dates, and even throw in a surprise here or there - have to kept on your toes (in a good way). I don�t care how beautiful you are, it has to exist where I can not see it but only hear it. Sexy comes from the mind...its how you think of yourself, how you carry yourself, the look you can throw. It is also the very organ that will determine if your relationship will work or not and thus intelligence is required.

While I am very passionate, sexual, and have a large carnivorous appetite it by no means encompasses me. It also requires the proper inspiration from the right women but if she is "young" that way, it matters not...as long as you have the right pallet. It�s important but not a deal killer...told you I�m not consumed by it.

I also have a passion for carnivorous pleasures as it relates to food; I enjoy to cook and find it�s another way one can pleasure a women clothed. While I really enjoy food, I take pride and care in my appearance. I work out often, and seek someone who takes care of themselves too. I don't deny myself from "living"...everything in balance and moderation.

I am accretive yet supportive, big hearted and understanding, but I'm not foolish nor played. Understand this fact, only 30% of what we feel mean, or think is conveyed with words. My life (education, profession) has given me the ability with my natural talents to understand the other 70%. When people tell me that communication is important or that they are good at it I ask if they listen with there eye and be able to "hear" what they see. So please, don�t play any games with me or don�t keep my company. I pride myself meeting others "mask free" and proud of all my failures and miss-steps for they are in part what made me who I am, taken me where I am and I am happy with where I'm at.

Who wants to "play"?

(Not a big e-mail fan, and believe the old school method is a good start, phone conversation after a few mails)

Hi (sunset / parkside) 20yr

2009-11-11T02:45:13-08:00

I am an avid musician, a keen bibliophile, a fierce but jocular gentleman, and a hopeless vagabond. If such a combination sounds enticing, contact me.

Older but still enjoy kissing? (sf east) 42yr

2009-11-11T02:14:40-08:00

Are you older but still enjoy kissing? If so, perhaps we can meet and do something different. Take a walk at the park or marina and when we find a private spot, kiss for 5 minutes straight and if we feel that jolt of electricity, enjoy the moment that we may be developing a longterm friendship. Have a coffee afterwards or grab a bite to eat. I'm single, degreed, gainfully employed (hopefully can retire shortly), 6ft cleancut, do not use drugs, do not smoke (ok if you do). Age or size or weight are not a factor as long as we enjoy the kiss. Pictures are a big plus if you can send one on a response.

SAM for SAW (north beach / telegraph hill) 31yr

2009-11-11T00:57:37-08:00

You know, all the good ones are taken. Well, here's your chance to meet someone worthwhile. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs. I'm well educated, dependable, average looking, 5'6", speaks Cantonese and English, family orientated.