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VOLUPTUOUS LADY

2009-12-03T04:43:38-08:00

I�M LOOKING FOR BEAUTIFUL VOLUPTUOUS LADY TO GO OUT ON A DATE WITH.
You:
BETWEEN THE AGE OF 30 - 45, NO YOUNGER THAN 30...
MATURE
EDUCATED
WINE DRINKER.
BEAUTIFUL
TALL
THICK
KNOW HOW TO HOLD A CONVERSATION
NON-SMOKER

I'M
EDUCATED, PROFESSIONAL, WITH GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR
34
6' TALL
180 LBS IN GOOD SHAPE
BRN EYES
BLACK HAIR
LIGHT OLIVISH COMPLEXION.
MIX ETHNICITY

PLEASE SEND A PHOTO IN YOUR reply

Musician for Musician (mission district) 31yr

2009-12-03T02:28:56-08:00

Ok, so I figured I would try CL to see if there is someone out there who is experiencing something similar and understands what I�m talking about. I�m currently in a gigging SF band and also work full-time, which doesn�t leave me much time to pursue a normal-type relationship. As with most other humans out there, I like having someone I can spend time with, get to know and enjoy on a physical/emotional/mental level. However, it seems many women out there feel like they are in competition with my band in terms of my time. My music is my main priority and a lot of people can�t handle that. I�m trying to find a woman who understands that and maybe is in a band herself, so then we can live our lives� and be involved with other respective projects and don�t have to nag each other about not spending enough time hanging out and so forth. So that�s my story in a nutshell. Oh, I�m 31 yrs old, 5�8, 185lbs, white/latin and into rocking (serious, indie and otherwise). Whew!!

Saturday - Kissing 30+ (sf bay area east) 42yr

2009-12-03T02:02:14-08:00

I just want to kiss long and deep on Saturday night as we walk along the Marina or in the car. If we feel a connection during the kiss, mutual touching. If the touching causes a spark, maybe more? Not a casual encounter but something in between. If the night goes well, we repeat it and perhaps a longterm friendship develops involving normal activities like movies, coffee, eating out, etc. Employed, single,cleancut,d/d free, easy to talk to. If I had to list a preference, Caucasian, maybe 30+, size and weight do not matter to me because it's more about chemistry rather than what a number is on a scale. Please send your pic(s) and put "loves kissing" in the subject field of your email so I know you are not a spammer.

looking for interesting, intelligent girl (sf bay) 22yr

2009-12-03T01:59:18-08:00

I am looking for an intelligent, active, witty, sarcastic girl who doesn't mind getting some dirt under her nails.

I am 22 years of age 6'1, 195, blonde, blue eyes.
i love my job and am very passionate about it. I am easy going, resourceful, intelligent, sarcastic, perceptive, sophisticated yet silly, a romantic, adventurous and a bit old fashioned in a way.
I enjoy travel (i just spent month backpacking the Mediterranean coast) , extended camping trips, kite surfing, naps in the sun, swing dancing, sailing, hammocks, sunrise and the hour after when every thing is still, building things, the stars in a clear sky far away from a city, intelligent conversation, a glass of good scotch, adventures of any kind, and many other things.

I want to take the time to enjoy the little things. I what to explore a like mind and to go adventuring. I believe that cuddling is underrated and sex often overrated, I want to find a special person to spend time with, to surprise them, and play with them, I wish to increase their potential and their joy.
Favorite books include: one flew over the cuckoos nest, snow crash
Favorite movies: fight club, the princess bride.

If you are interested in meeting up at the beach/bar/club/forest clearing/whatever, let me know.

your pic gets mine,

~cheers

looking for a cuddle buddy, maybe more? (ingleside / SFSU / CCSF)

2009-12-03T01:55:49-08:00

im 23 tall 6'1 half asian and white looking for a girl/woman who wants to have some fun.. your pic gets mine

Cirque du Soleil Ovo - Sat Dec 12? (SOMA / south beach) 30yr

2009-12-03T01:53:40-08:00

So I got great tix to the newest Cirque du Soleil show "Ovo" playing near AT&T park for next Saturday evening. Now I need a hot date. =)

You
- Single Asian Female SAF
- 25-35
- cute
- fun/spontaneous
- Cirque fan a must
- foodie a plus

Me:
- Single Asian Male SAM
- early-30s
- 5'8"soccer-player build
- boyish-good looks
- clean-cut professional
- world traveler
- amateur chef

We can also meetup before next Sat too and just hangout and get to know each other!

Please email me and tell me a bit about yourself, including what your fave Cirque show is! Pic for pic.

Happy holidays!

Looking to chat on AIM (San Francisco) 28yr

2009-12-03T01:41:08-08:00

Hey there!

I'm just looking to make new friends on here and hopefully chat on aim.

I promise I'm nice :)

AIM: EccentricAura

Vanilla on the outside, Rum Raisin on the Inside (haight ashbury) 43yr

2009-12-03T01:14:50-08:00

I like bullet points. Do you? Let�s hope so because that�s what this ad is all about it.

� I�m a great cook and I love doing it; hopefully you like your man in the kitchen.
� I�m well educated as well as street smart, but sometimes painfully na�ve.
� My favorite author is Cormac McCarthy followed by Haruki Murakami. But I love many others.
� My cable box was broken for three years and I didn�t notice.
� I�ve been to 40 states and 25 countries.
� I can pitch a tent. In the dark. When I�m drunk.
� I�m in touch with my feminine side. You need to be ok with that.
� If I had only one song I could hear for the rest of my life it would be a tossup between Radiohead�s �Let Down� and �E Lucevan Le Stelle� from Tosca.
� I still have a job, which is amazing considering my sector within my industry is about as bad as it can be. But things are looking up� And you can help by buying junk bonds!
� I�m on the Board of Directors of a national not-for-profit.
� I paint my toe nails sometimes.
� I write. My writing is mostly dark, which makes being published challenging. But I�m hopeful.

So the CL requisite stats� 43, divorced with kids (who rock), 5� 11� and 160. I�m attractive, cool and fun. Very liberal and open minded. No pets, but I want an eel. I tend to get along best with artistic types with similar interests who are HWP and around my age, give or take a few years on either side�

What do you think?

PS - I'll send you a picture on first response. But my job is highly visible in San Francisco and, well, you get it...

one of these things is not like the others... (San Francisco)

2009-12-03T01:06:20-08:00

And yet they are all, give or take a letter, Elliots.

I am amused by this.. it is a blessing and a curse...

I am also quite amused by Wards.

But is there some dread mystical linkage between the Wards Three (Churchill, Connerly, Cunningham), as well as (Merge Records recording artist) M. Ward?
I think not. But they are some funny-looking guys.

Hailie Selassie.

I am also quite amused by BBC reporter
Katty Kay.
She rolls off my tongue.
(Not literally, though when she marches up and demands some, how can I really refuse..)
Katty Kay.
Katty Kay.
Katty Kay.

So, perhaps you see where this post is heading. I seek a woman who likes words, humor, has a sense of the absurd, a sense of the erotic charge, has some media detritus floating around the cranium..
It is earlyish Saturday evening as I write this and I am loaded with catch-up-on-your creative indoor projects, but would drop it in a heartbeat for the social monkeywrench made of conversation, beer and what-have -you*.
Final piece of media detritus du nuit
Did DLC dude Al From

ever meet actress

Joanna Going?

Phew! google images has just graced my life with tiny thumbnails of J.G. with her top off. I'll be in the shower if anyone needs me....

* Not an idiom and not figurative-- what have you??

young Gentalman seeks a older woman (bayview)

2009-12-03T00:49:21-08:00
I am very passionate and kind Ive been told my voice is very attractive. But Im tired of the games female my age play so if you in trested in a younger man ill be your partner Im 6 foot 180 athletic very attractive pleas send me a massage mabye we can get to know each other or have a good time

Still Live With My Parents... (nob hill) 26yr

2009-12-03T00:47:48-08:00
Actually, the truth is that I do not live with my parents... I've got my own pad here on the hill...

... but if you were cool enough to check out this post anyhow, then it means that you are an amazing person. Yup, that's right. Based on the fact that you clicked this link, I now know many things about you, such as:

*You are not superficial or driven by money... you rarely ever think about super expensive things you can't live without (ok, maybe once in a while, but that's fair enough).

*You probably had your heart broken by a low life at some point, and you don't want to date another loser, but there were a FEW things you liked about him... and you're hoping that you can get some of those good things, without all the downside...

*You don't live in the Marina.

*You've got a good sense of humor � after all, if you like guys who live with their parents, then you've probably endured a number of embarrassing parental walk-ins, etc.

WOW -- you sound fantastic.

Email me to say hi and tell me a few fun things about you...

Looking for friends (Burlingame) 48yr

2009-12-03T00:39:14-08:00
Hi everyone,

Looking for a special friend.
I enjoy live music,dancing,sailing, hiking riding my motorcycle and the great outdoors.

More info about me at myspace/captn_mac

shoot me a line

Thanks

Steve

looking for my partner in crime (the bay) 25yr

2009-12-03T00:35:07-08:00
new to the bay and wanted to meeet someone for maybe a old fashioned dinner and a movie. i really hope i find someone cute and active like myself. good personality is a must. me i am 25 with a decent job, car and a great personality. i currently live with my uncle untill i can find that nice studio. i am mexican and japanese born in japan raised here in the states, grew up in the central valley so i was poor but through hard work and lots sleepless night i made it. :) so belive me i know what a dollar is worth. as far as my perfect date i am not picky but i do ask that you take care of yourself, not saying i dont like a healthy girls. just not to much. i work out 3times a week and skate, run, or jog to the store. i like to travel alot too. so you must be able to take of on a one second notice. haha really i am that way. so if your looking for a very mature, young, handsome man that you can talk to i am all yours. you just have to show me your the same way. on the subject line please type the word REALGRL so i know your real. thanks and hope to hear from you.

Just Looking 23yr

2009-12-03T00:34:58-08:00
I think meeting someone on craigslist is like meeting someone elsewhere. Dont really have time to go out and meet girls because of school and work, so just wanna try this again. Just want to meet someone cool, down to earth, hope to find that chemistry and see if it works out. Send a picture and little info about yourself. Real Post
Me:
Intelligent
Mature
Athletic
Tattoos
Head on Straight
Fun
Out-Going
Niner Fan
Charismatic
Great Smile

You:
Active/athletic
Cute
Out-Going
Good head on Your Shoulder
Smart
Great Personality
Good Career Going

Very Attractive Indian Male for.... - m4w (russian hill)

2009-12-03T00:24:51-08:00
I am a very attractive Indian male seeking a sexy and a romantic girl. A little about me: - Educated professional - Very attractive - I enjoy taking control in the bedroom and exploring your naughty side - 5'10' - 180lbs.

A little about you (desired characteristics) - slightly submissive - very horny with an insatiable desire for being naughty in the bedroom. I am looking for one very naughty special lady who fits the above description and would consider a long term friends with benefits if the chemistry is right. Your pic gets mine.

Healthy male seeks friend/lover (nob hill) 60yr

2009-12-03T00:24:14-08:00
Italian ancestry (3rd generation) 5'10"; 160 lbs
single, healthy, comfortable male seeks healthy,
happy caucasian woman for intimate relationship.

Well Established professional looking for college age girl ! 29yr

2009-12-03T00:11:58-08:00
This is a real posting and I am serious about what I am looking for.

I am looking for a college age girl to enter into a role playing encounter - Professional Man/College girl . I want this to be an on going encounter and want someone who desires this. You must desire to have an older man as a daddy, someone to be your mentor, lover and friend. You want a man who is very secure and will treat you well, a man who teaches you on how to care for a man sexually.

You are HWP, somewhat submissive, need a spanking at times, unsure of your inner conflict that drives you to need me.

I am 5'10", fit, clean, non-smoker, classy, strict and will provide the required discipline when needed.

So write only if you have this inner need and want what i can provide. There is no better time than tonight!

Your Beauty has often been a curse (marina / cow hollow)

2009-12-02T23:59:46-08:00
I seek a very special, yet maybe impossible to find girl.. However, I believe that we live in a Universe that is positive, dynamic and reflective of all we think, feel and do. So..I think if I feel this way, I must do something about it in order to find her..........

You are very beautiful, in fact your beauty has often been a curse as it has become a wall that stops people seeing the true you. You are incredibly sexual, sensual, open and comfortable with your needs. Your nature is to be submissive, yet the irony of your looks is that most men are unable to give you the strength and direction you have always looked for but never found.

You dress in a way that is sometimes provocative, often "head turning" but always with an extra degree of class and style, that sets you apart from others...

You are a deep thinker, you have an emotional and sensitive soul that stays protected from the world, behind a facade of independence created to keep your heart safe from disappointment and pain.

You are a paradox, you could easily be the most explicit porn star, yet you are intelligent and creative and now seek something more profound in life.

You have searched for love and only found shallow relationships that never fulfilled or uplifted you.

You have dreamt of being discovered by the one man who will understand, accept and LOVE you for all you have been, all that you have become and all that you are yet to be..He will accept you without judgement or jealousy - without shock or shame...no matter WHAT has happened in your life, he welcomes you with open arms and no condition.

You want to live a life that is filled with laughter and adventures. Where loyalty, faith and passion are the foundations of a long term relationship.

You are tired and weary of the world you have lived in so far and you hunger for something that you have never experienced before..

You are not looking to club and get wasted, or party and pass out. You are just as happy to have your hand held whilst sitting in a park, gazing across the City and listening to your lovers words whisper secret messages to you as being blindfolded and taken on a mystery trip to a beautiful location for a long lost weekend.

You ache to be childlike and naive as well as mature and experienced...to crawl under a "tent" made of sheets spread across sofas and tables and fall asleep in his arms is just as beautiful as sharing a bottle of fine wine whilst watching the sun set.

You may or may not have close family but you seek a man that will give you the protection, inspiration and the safety to be YOURSELF, nothing hidden, nothing denied...You dream of letting go and trusting...the one thing that has always been so hard for you to do...to TRUST...

There may have been things you have done in your life that you look back in with guilt or shame...but these don't matter to him, for he loves you for the SOUL inside...

You seek a relationship that borders on obsessively loving and needing, but in a healthy way...where each are confident in the love of the other and there are no awkward moments or envious arguments..in fact there never need be an argument as LOVE is too important to tarnish with negative energy and bad words...

You love music and artistic ideals, you are kind and empathetic with others..in fact, you are a very loyal friend that gives so much yet gets so little in return..You are often let down by those who you have tried to help the most...sometimes you have to deal with their jealousy or their lack of self confidence around you...but you try to take the moral higher ground and not respond in kind..

In your secret innermost thoughts, you need to be lover, partner, best friend, confidante and sex kitten...but this is your paradox, you need to be all these things, but only for one man...

You are not interested in material things anymore (nice and fun though they are) but now you seek the spiritual connection that will let you live life with LOVE in everyway, everyday... You would happily invite me to stay having never even met me because you believe and trust in life�like I do.

So if this is YOU, if my words have touched many nerves..if you are genuine and serious in your search for someone that is unlike ANYONE you have ever met before...I wish to hear from you..

I am quite prepared for the fact that no one will reply to this, as I believe all that I have described here is just the tip of an amazing iceberg of very specific qualities that I SEEK in someone..and maybe she doesn't look at online dating sites...maybe she is still unsure if I exist and has given up her search...maybe she doesnt exist at all..but I don't believe that

But I have faith...I have such powerful faith...

I am quite sincere in this advert, I am a real person, living in the real world and waiting for the ONE girl that will match and balance all I need and all I offer.

I am highly creative, passionate, stubborn, driven, successful in my world and devilishly good looking...I would not even place this ad, if I didn't know that all I have detailed here, I reflect and balance in all I have to give..

Take a chance - reach out and see where we may go...

I am here ...I know you are out there somewhere...

Take some time to tell me about yourself..I would like to see your pictures and really get a feel for the girl who has never done this kind of thing before..fall in LOVE, that is...!

Your Pleasure Tonight

2009-12-02T23:56:52-08:00
Smart, fit, educated man sitting home all alone but feeling very sensual and very much like pleasuring a woman tonight!

So . .. if you are interested, I would love to drive you wild!

Live music anyone? (western addition) 58yr

2009-12-02T23:39:00-08:00
I have two tickets to see Vienna Teng at the Independent on December 20th and I'm looking for someone to go with. If you love music and/or Vienna Teng this is the last time she'll be around here for months. If we hit it off that would be nice but it's no expectations here. I would prefer someone about my own age or a few (not many) years younger.
Please live in the area.

Attractive guy is looking for a cuddle buddy 28yr

2009-12-02T23:29:35-08:00

I broke up with my girlfriend several months ago and have been missing the affectionate part of a relationship ever since. I am looking for a normal/sane girl to be affectionate with. By 'affectionate', I mean spending time together and cuddling and of course fooling around :)

I am an attractive, sane, well-educated and a funny guy. I'm 28 (although I look much younger), in great shape, laid back and won't flake out on you. Please be cute, in good shape, 19-34, cool and live in SF please. Thanks!

Spiritual Tantrik seeks Sensual Tantric lady for Passion & Pleasure 30yr

2009-12-02T23:26:21-08:00
In these times of work and Life Stress, where all of us are crazy busy, juggling and keeping all the tasks up in the air, we may question whether it is possible to seek...................Inspiration, Motivation, Empowerment and making connections.

The real Question is........is it possible not to?

I believe, because of our daily Challenges, now more than ever, we need to Seek-Work-Life Balance!!!!!!!! Today�s Frenetic World, any reprieve for the Everyday is essential to preserving our SANITY. Balance is ever-changing and different for everyone.

Technologically Advanced

Too Much Technology with the negative affects of Technology are very apparent in our World today. Many people experience increased isolation, depression and alienation when they spend too much time immersed in their Computers, Cell Phones and Ipods, Blackberry�s, Televisions, Variety of Gadgets .Thus creating Havoc on our MIND Body and Spirit.

The continual march of emerging Technology allows work to cut into HOME LIFE. And increasingly STRESS. Technology maybe Short-Circuiting your Home Life.

Some researchers say to remove Televisions and Computers from their BEDROOMS!!!!!!!!!!

We have become Technology attached every day all day. It�s difficult to remember a time when we didn�t have the NOTION of an immediate response when we need to contact someone or when someone else wants to reach out TOUCH us.

It is interesting notion that we live in a WORLD where we are attached to others: Spouse, Partner, Family, Co-Workers and Friends. We can access anyone anywhere, anytime. We have now developed a behavioral pattern in Life of experiencing a constant union with others.

If you have any of this TECHNO === STRESS and Need Some Rest & Relaxation, we need to talk today~~~~~~

I truly believe in the self healing power of pleasure of one's sensual sexuality, and the life giving joy that lies inside of each and every one of us.

There�s so much talk about low desires these days. But sensual sexual desire takes more than pills, patches, creams, or an extreme makeover.

I believe in integrating sensual sexuality and spirituality. (ISSIS)

Heart to Heart Connection Freedom to give and receive LOVE Yearning to hold and be held Permission to let go of control And delicious tender moments that transcend rational boundaries and TOUCH their souls

Fabulous sensual sex isn�t about how many partners you�ve had or how often you have intercourse or achieve orgasm.

Researchers have declared that almost half of us is dysfunctional. But in my years of practice and as a researcher I have learned that sensual sex is much more than performance.

Our sexual energy isn�t limited to the bedroom , behind closed doors, it�s with us all the time. It affects our energy, health, self-esteem, our relationships and how we relate to the world.

� Sensual Sex isn�t everything but it is a part of everything�.

Can you open yourself up to the heart and soul of sex- the kind that rocks your whole being and fills you with wonder and awe!!!!!!!!

It�s a matter of connecting body, mind, heart and spirit and letting go, the question is are you willing to let go????

Listen to your body, it�s smarter than you think Open your mind Speak your heart Connect sensuality with sex and spirit

You will hear soft words, and feel soft sensual hands and body movements, with reassurance, and tenderness, even prayer, and meditation to relax. I keep you entertained and let PLEASURE be your inspiration and your guide as you relax into TRANQUILITY in my sensual sanctuary.

I am a down to earth guy with a great sense of humor, easy going, friendly, with a great outlook on life. I am athletic, single, never married no kids and come from the land of India where Tantra originated 1000's of years ago.

I am a business professional and would like to meet that someone that I could relax with, talk with, watch movies, go to dinner and stay home.

You must be drug & disease free as you should expect the same from me, which I am.

I am looking to meet someone that is fun to be with, friendly & easy to talk to, a good sense of humor, sexy, attractive and who is not afraid to walk on the wild side.

I am looking for a very attractive, athletic, Tantric Goddess who has an authentic interest in Tantra, be creative and empowered, must be confident, have found the Goddess within enjoy dressing up, like wearing makeup basically embracing your femininity.

Within every woman stirs the soul of a Goddess, yearning to be released, ready to explore the sensual mysteries of the universe. If she is bold enough to pursue this quest, a women will learn to receive pleasure and to allow herself to surrender to previously unknown passions. She will experience a wide gamut of sensations, from gently soothing to exhilaratingly powerful. Within our gentle world, she will be honored, and the Goddess now sleeping within, will be awakened to release your sexual desires.

You must be physically fit and athletic and have a willing desire to learn and practice different sexual techniques of tantra with me ...... its time you express your sexual freedom... don't be afraid to do so......... You are missing so much in life, worrying thinking of how people think of you.

Please include a picture and NO-One liners!!!!!!!!!!!

Sex is such a strange thing, don't you think? (mission district) 28yr

2009-12-02T23:16:51-08:00
Doesn't it seem strange to you too? I mean, there is this place inside you, and I put myself inside you. And then we move around. And somehow that's how it works. It's so strange to me. I can't really explain it properly, how strange it seems to me.

Trending South Adventure (treasure island) 26yr

2009-12-02T23:14:51-08:00
Hello, I will tell you a little about me and if it resonates with you tell me why :

I have a traveling spirt, I am headed south in search of warm blue water,! I left Seattle when the sun was fading and the leaves were down. My travels lead me to climb rock, hiking coastlines, biking city's, good cooking and good people! I have landed in SF for a short visit and am preparing to continue south, I am looking for someone to share this wonderful world we have, I am looking for a travel companion/friend/lover/partner that lives to enjoy the simple things, likes too cook creekside and explore caves,climbs mountains, lives the dream, enjoys sharing bodywork, appreciates we are what we eat. loves playing in the outdoors', wakes up to dancehall in the morning and goes to bed dancing to ambient, you just might enjoy dancing and local radio., lets pack a pick nick and see were the wind takes it, enjoy!

Passing through SF

Would you like to get pregnant? (SF Bay Area)

2009-12-02T23:12:39-08:00
Is your biological clock ticking? Does it feel like you have awoken to that terrible moment just before it rings and you know you must face that terrible day? It's too late to try to go back to sleep and merely ignore it. Either you embrace that passionate /need/ that has been rising within you to have a child grow within you or forever accept that it might not be something you will experience.

That's why you're reading this. You want a baby bump...However, you don't want to simply go to a bar or a get a sample from the sperm bank: no clinical, cold lab work for you! You want your baby made the old fashioned way. You want to feel that passionate, that connection, and wholesome and lusty completion as you create your child.
That's where I can help!

I, too, have the desire and need to, well, let's be honest: breed. Nothing's hotter than a woman moaning that she wants me to get her pregnant. No orgasm is better than when its with the intent to seed.

Just imagine, that hot spurting within you, swimming deeper and deeper, making you into the mother you crave to be.

However, there are some caveats:

1. If you do not have health insurance, this is not for you.
2. If you are not emotionally or financially sound, this is not for you.
3. If you are a smoker, drug user (even 420), drink a lot, this is not for you.
4. If you have some form of STD, this isn't for you either.

What I don't care about:

1. Race does not matter.
2. Age (well, over 30 and under 45, please)
3. Relationship status - Discretion is guaranteed if needed

As for me, 6 ft 1 in tall, Caucasian, blonde hair and blue eyes, emotionally and fincancially stable and in very good health.

Please include a picture when you respond.

Couples welcome too.

Very Attractive, Confident Young Male (western addition) 19yr

2009-12-02T23:11:13-08:00
Ok this time I would rather not get spam from people asking me to go on various dating sites... Im just looking for someone serious, real and down to earth. Being attractive def seals the deal but again looks aren't always everything. I work part time and go to school full time so i dont have much free time but when I do I would like to spend it with that special someone. Can it be You?

P.S. Please send a face pic it's only fair and it helps me make a decision sooner if your the one for me.
Thanks

Why women like jerks by Mr. Nice (haight ashbury) 31yr

2009-12-02T23:09:43-08:00
There are certain �compliments� in life that are just veiled doses of reality. If someone says, �You look fine.� You really look like shit. For a guy, that line is, �You are such a nice guy." Girls mean it when they say it, but they also mean so much more. It means, �I will give you all the attention in the world, until what I really want comes along." It means you are filler. How many times have you ladies said, �I just want a nice guy who will treat me right?" How many guys have been that guy only to see that girl end up with some jerk who treats her like shit? Why do women like jerks so much and why is being called a �nice guy� the absolute kiss of death?

- Women love drama: Any girl who talks about how happy she is with her guy is really daydreaming about the milkman. Women love to complain about their man to their friends. They get more attention from their friends when they are pissing and moaning then when they say everything is great.

- Women like to chase: The hardest thing about being in a serious relationship when you are a guy is that you become more appealing to women when you are attached because it makes you harder to get. If a guy is readily available for a female to bat around like a ball of yarn, that girl will move on something she has to work for. Nice guys will do anything for a girl and never say no. Girls want to be told no so they can convince you to say yes.

- Women want to be submissive: Women want someone with a plan and who is decisive. Nice guys leave decisions up to the woman and don�t get respected for it. Girls want a guy who tells her what he wants, and just to make room for her. Most girls would rather be included with what their man is doing even if they have no interest in it, than do something they want to with their friends.

- Soap Operas and Romance Novels: So many girls daydream about the kind of love and romance they saw on 90210 when they were teenagers. They have convinced themselves that the best kind of passion is born from being star-crossed lovers. So they look for that. They look for the wild stallion no one can tame, marry them, and complain for the rest of their lives about what a guy he is - completely forgetting about the fact that is who is was when they met. They forget that we are just normal everyday people and they look nothing like Tiffany Amber Theissen.

- They mistake kindness for weakness: Most women for some reason think that if a guy will bend over backwards for them he is doing it because he is trying to keep her happy so she won�t leave. It never crosses her mind that maybe he is just sweet. Once again, he is too available for her liking.

The only time a girl ends up with a nice guy is when she is either so sick of being with a jerk, she marries a nice guy so she can take out all the shit she went through on someone, or a girl who is on the rebound.

- Mr Nice

Looking for some chit chat! (ingleside / SFSU / CCSF) 20yr

2009-12-02T23:03:31-08:00
I don't know how much longer I'm gonna be up, but it would be nice to chat with someone lovely for a little bit. Aim, text, phone, w/e. Just put "Chat" in you subject line so that I know you aren't some bot. I live in SF, by city college. And Yes, that is me :)

Let me entertain you... (SOMA / south beach) 25yr

2009-12-02T23:02:24-08:00
It�s true that I�m a little shy by nature. I suppose you could say I�m naturally submissive and blend in well with the crowd. But give me a moment to warm up and you�ll soon see I�m wacky � maybe even a little insane. But, you know, in a really good way. By day, I take part in the latest Web 2.0 marketing strategies. I�m a big believer in hard work. I am motivated and dedicated to career success � and I�ve done pretty well so far. But by night, I aspiring to global domination by geeking out with a little art, history, current events, fining dining and the X-files. I�m hoping to meet a great girl to make an already good life even better. Maybe that�s you.

I am a sucker for a woman with a gorgeous smile. And if she has a pair of eyes to match? Call me a goner. But more important than a cuteness factor is that she be smart and dominant. She�s honest and loyal yet still has a romantic personality. That�s right, folks � she believes in true love! She can rock it in a pair of Converse All-Stars but can also dazzle me in a pair of high heels. She is intelligent, adaptive and open-minded. And she�s ready to get in touch.

Date Night 39yr

2009-12-02T23:00:27-08:00
Hello....

Just looking for a simple date with a sweet and cute woman.
We could start with some great conversation over a drink to see if we are a match.......or not
I am looking for something more long term but would love to meet some new friends too.
Life is too short to not open your world up to other people.

I find tall(er) women sexy, I am only 5'-6", but I am very attracted (SWM) 52yr

2009-12-02T22:41:37-08:00
to women my height or a bit taller. Not grossly overweight, please, but firm and curvy is great. If you are really tall, I can always wear heels! Seriously if you might find a nice, short man sexy, I am a very healthy, fun-loving guy who would adore you, and who is not afraid to fall in love if we hit it off. Of course photos can be sent, but only after I have determined you are who you say you are.

Toasty Times (lower haight) 30yr

2009-12-02T22:37:23-08:00
Maybe it's the change in temperature outside and inside of my poorly insulated house, cause all of a sudden I'm in the mood for some snugglin'. Maybe it's seeing all of the lovelies in their heavy winter coats and scarves, red tipped noses, and the smell of spiced cider on their breath, that makes me get all nostalgic for something unexplainable. Who knows? I do know that it would be nice to meet someone feeling the same way as me. So come along with me as we snuggle away the bitterness of winter, and toast to the sweetness of some boozed up eggnog.

I'm a slightly scruffy guy with brown hair, blue eyes, and a beard. Maybe you would think I was cute or good looking if you saw me on the street. Maybe not. Maybe you would think 5'8'' is too short for you. It wasn't too short for my mom, who is 3'' taller than my dad. I like to surf and be in the out of doors, and indoors when it's called for. I like music, but don't have any favorites. I'm probably not what you would call a "professional", but aren't we really all professionals if we are getting paid? Anyways, I look forward to hearing back from you.

A little note with a picture attached would be nice.

Please don't be a smoker.

anyone still up? (the beach) 22yr

2009-12-02T22:28:56-08:00
hey, I am having a hard time sleeping and I was wondering if anyone was still up and would like to talk. send me your aim and or yahoo sn. Talk to you soon and have a good night

shy guy for a date? (downtown / civic / van ness) 24yr

2009-12-02T22:25:44-08:00
Hi there.

I'd like to go on a date. Something casual and fun. Maybe to go to the exploratorium. Or go to see a documentary at the Roxie. Or to make a kite to fly in the park. Or to go see some live music.

I'm young, I take care of myself, and I'm just looking for a bit of interaction with a chill girl. I'm a designer, I listen to good music (most recently bought a Tony Allen & Jimi Tenor record), and I'm shy (at first.)

I ask the following:

You take care of and respect your body
You do not take yourself too seriously
You have an open mind

If this sounds good, let me know. We can find something cool to do together..

0 for 5 (San Francisco) 40yr

2009-12-02T22:17:16-08:00
Craigslist, Match, Plenty 'O Fish, OK Cupid, eHarmony.....

tried 'em all to no avail. here i am- still single. still attractive. still funny. in fact, all i have for my troubles are these TRUE stories:

*was set upon a blind date by a friend who neglected to tell me the girl i was meeting was pregnant (what do you say to a pregnant girl? what have you been doing lately??).

*met a young lady at the farmers market who invited me out that night. i arrived at her door to pick her up only to be greeted by her husband who was "cool with her seeing other guys".

*while bouncing at a club some years ago a regular and her friends suggested we hit Sparky's for a 3am. meal. hours later there we sit and those two were pretty loaded and proceeded to start a food fight. for awhile Sparky's had a sign on the wall with our pictures and the caption read "we reserve the right to refuse service to these three".

*met a girl dancing in north beach. we had a nice time and when the club closed i walked her to her car. her two kids were asleep in the back....

i take it all in stride as i have a pretty good disposition. looking for some pretty normal dates these days tho'.

what's your story?

Fully Submissive Woman

2009-12-02T22:16:57-08:00
I would like to meet and get to know an intelligent, fully submissive woman,passionately interested in a long-term relationship. And with a sense of humor. (All is not grave and serious.) By fully submissive, I mean a woman who very much needs to belong to one man and to accept (and to *crave*) whatever discipline he will provide.

Age is not as important to me as attitude. I will likely be older than you are. If that does not attract you, you shouldn't write.

I am only interested in LTRs. No one night stands. No bisexual women; no women already married or involved; and no women abused as children.

If you are looking for a standard dom who will practice certain erotic techniques for pure pleasure, that would not be me. My needs and demands from a woman are total--emotional/psychological, as much as erotic/physical. Therefore, there are no limits, no "safe words," nothing of that sort. Trust on your part must be total and complete.

Please write and tell me about yourself at length, and why this would be appropriate for you.. No photos yet-- but you can describe yourself physically.

What does HWP mean? (financial district) 30yr

2009-12-02T22:15:06-08:00
I'm new to this and have seen women describe themselves w HWP

art lover 45yr

2009-12-02T22:03:09-08:00
If you are a sweet heart, petite, sense of humor, adorable, 5ft - 5ft 3", 90lbs-100lbs, very LTR minded and very good morals, and would like to be with an artist type(my profession), send pics and lets chat.

art 45yr
Artist/painter/musician...good sense of humor, tall, healthy, no smoker, social drinker only ...for a smart/cool/ petite(100lbs)/ sweet/ adorable/ cute girl with good morals who likes to laugh(has no kids)... for LTR. Send pics and some info please.

Going out for drinks, Join me 22yr

2009-12-02T21:56:25-08:00
Going out for drinks this evening. I'd like to get together with someone, talk and hang out. We can see where it goes from there. E-mail me and it will go directly to my cell, if you'd like to leave a number i'll call you and we can meet up.

Cheers

an occasional distraction... (SF) 34yr

2009-12-02T21:41:52-08:00
I miss having something to think about during the workday. you know...random texts, emails, etc. let's break up the monotony a bit with a high quality + low maintenance steamy distraction of sorts. I'm definitely not searching for something run-of-the-mill and I hope you aren't either. now here's the crucial part, we must like each other as friends! it's just not going to work without some sort of connection outside the "benefits" portion. let's spend the majority of our time engaged in hot physical encounters and then once in a while mix it up with a wholesome activity too. ideally, you're like me and simply wanting a pleasant ongoing diversion that's not overly time consuming. I've got my act together in life and you should also. please, no wishy-washy responses. logistics wise it would probably be best if you were somewhere between SF and palo alto.
me:

semi-attached white guy
5'10" with a thin/lean/athletic build
educated, healthy, totally sane, very clean
low-key, sarcastic, reliable, drama-free
not the macho man ex-frat boy type
well endowed, stamina, and legit skills!
you:

asian american or white
slim to fit, short & petite is a bonus
fashionable, well-groomed, girly
cool, witty, maybe somewhat nerdy?
smoke/drug free and not a total drunk
playful with a cute little spankable ass!

you'll have to like borderline skinny builds, since I have one...

G spot? (ingleside / SFSU / CCSF) 20yr

2009-12-02T21:41:10-08:00
hey there im 5,10 and brown skin native american and lation

how can you say I go about things the wrong way? (lower haight) 27yr

2009-12-02T21:40:55-08:00
One often reads, when one peruses ads such as the one you, dear reader, currently see, many boasts and demands made by the authors, such that one learns (these fall under the category of boasts, now) that they can match Lance on the cycle, best Keller as a chef, exceed the complete walker (may he rest peacefully) as regards the outdoors, are well versed when the subject at hand's cheap bars or outlaws who never, for some reason, work alone and want a partner to help them as they transgress the law, and, perhaps most common of all, these authors make clear to us readers what they prefer as to matters cultural, a subject where the focus tends to hover above all on the authors' most-loved bands or large-screen events, though when the authors make note of these matters or (here we enter the demesnes of the demand) expect of respondents that they enjoy analogous styles, they make the fallacy of shared cultural tastes (a fallacy, you see, because once one excludes the truly awful, the range of tastes one could accept or even be charmed by and adopt oneself looms larger, probably, for all that, much larger, than one would antecedently have guessed; not to add that to lay down such rules smacks of an unseemly arrogance---most of all not to add that, for the most part, what these authors have to say by way of these tastes stands squarely on the near half of the banal/noteworthy border); however, these people apparently do not take proper account of the fact that the presence of such a sequence of statements about oneself really does not reveal all that much, at least not when the way one proceeds lacks style, and I therefore hold that those who say that a quantum of self-effacement both belongs properly to the genre "personal ad" and actually creates more chances for one's self to be expressed (perhaps because focus on the removal of even the smallest amount of bald, unsubtle statements that merely *regard* oneself equals more uncontrolled, even unknown to the author, chances for clues that tell much to escape through unguarded cracks and seams) are correct, and one has endeavored to make the present ad and that precept sound a consonant euphony together, to the extent that one has followed what can only be called a rather absurd procedure to compose what you now read (when one may flatter oneself that any would read so much of such a daffy text!), and has sedulously not added the least jot of what would normally seem of utmost relevance, at least when one really does want to carry out the usual purpose of such an ad, except now at the end to note that one does, of course, have photographs of oneself, and that one would be more than happy to send them to anyone who asks, but that one merely feels chary to append one's face to the text here, as, for that matter, who wouldn't?

Christmas Party (San Francisco) 51yr

2009-12-02T21:20:50-08:00
I' am a fun and easy to get along with guy, who is looking for someone to share a fun
evening at a Christmas party dinner dance at my club. I 'am afraid that if I don't find
a date my friends wives will try to set me up on a blind date. I promise you will have
a great time. The party is next week, so maybe we can meet first and get to know each other.
If your interested send me a pic and a little info about yourself.

Style seeks Vixen for Romance, Adventure, and intrigue (marina / cow hollow) 30yr

2009-12-02T21:17:08-08:00
A bit about me, I'm successful, cute, funny, and a great piece of arm candy for any occasion, I'm in school but almost done Love pets, cinema, new experiences, and if some how you have all those and a clever sharp wit...your my gal :- )

I work out regularly and LOVE yoga I've never done anything like this before, but after being inspired by the lack of chemistry I found out in the mission last night I thought I would give Craigs list a try

What I am looking for?
First and most important is someone that will at least be open minded to a relationship, I'm not talking about jumping into anything, but it's nice to know that if we do click then there is some place for our new found Romance to go

Great fashion is always a plus and beautiful smiles always catch my eye :)
please live in the city and be okay with pets, if you have one great even better
Everything really always starts with a pic so yours gets mine myspace links are cool to

oh and you get bonus points if you know who that is on Elvis's arm

Cuddle buddy wanted! (SOMA / south beach) 30yr

2009-12-02T21:15:51-08:00
Some things in life are too complicated and I'd like to simplify. I have a Netflix subscription, a comfy couch, a real fireplace, too much good chocolate and wine and good to great cuddle skills. I'd like to find someone who likes to cuddle and relax, especially on a cold and foggy winter night. Where are the good cuddlers of San Francisco?

I am 30 and live in the SoMa district of San Francisco. I am tall, Irish, and tan, with a good sense of humor to keep us both smiling. When not watching movies or lounging on the couch I like to hike along the coast, play soccer, browse art, people watch in caf�s, and explore new places in general. I like trying new wines and I appreciate good chocolate (dark!).
I recently watched An Education, Pelham 1 2 3, and Fantastic Mr. Fox. Next up are Bad Lieutenant and Angels & Demons. I will probably watch summer blockbusters as they come out on Blu-ray before Christmas but realize the need to balance them out with some indies at Kabuki. Hopefully you could introduce me to a few new movies and tastes. My favorite movies are Shawshank Redemption, Almost Famous, Zoolander, and Braveheart. I am a fan of Ridley Scott, Cameron Crowe, and Samuel L. Jackson and usually check out their new movies. I don't currently have an actress crush, or at least none that immediately come to mind.
What are some of your favorite movies? What actress are you surprised I don't have a crush on? Who is your crush?
The idea of cuddling with a stranger can be a bit intimidating, I know. I'm merely suggesting we establish a simplistic goal before meeting, and hopefully enjoy each other's company enough to relax and watch a movie in the semi-public setting of a indie movie house on a cool evening. Good cuddlers smile more, know how to relax, show affection, tend not to club baby seals. All good qualities worthy of getting to know someone. Lately I've experienced a few people recently scarred from past relationships and could benefit from simpler experiences.
Perhaps in the future we can graduate to yummy desserts and movies at home. Dark chocolate, red wine, cupcakes, or some stovetop popcorn. What's your favorite movietime snack?
Sound interesting? Good! Send an e-mail and let's get to know each other a little better.
Movies are much better with a good cuddle buddy!

Manifesting Romantic (fairy-tale) Symmetry (mission district) 30yr

2009-12-02T21:14:12-08:00
The true beauty of craigslist is in a way you are asking the universe for exactly what you want and people tend to look at postings at that exact moment that they need to, well universe I am taking note and I hope you are as well,

Someone once said that Romance is Friendship on fire, or something like that, and I think that sums up what I want, a best friend who I click with and who there just happens to be an openly known mutual love affair between us that would even make the silver screen storylines of vintage Hollywood pictures jealous

Okay down to the facts, I am attractive, and told so by more then just friends and family, taller then some, and definitely more stylish then most ( if that sort of thing matters ) I know the subtle line of when to be a gentlemen and when to take charge. I am a good listener and a great, kisser

Loyal and successful at what I do, and a bit of a nerd at heart, but in that charming arm candy that I can trust and run a muck through out the city having crazy adventures kind of way.

You: just be emotionally present, good with who you are and not dealing with a lot of drama from your past, oh and I am a bit of a sucker for good girls, that doesn�t mean you don�t have a big mouth but just like I said above someone who can be a best friend as well as a best lover

And lets be adult here, if you send a pic or two I will return the favor
But make sure I can see ya in it : )

If I sound like your type of guy, drop me a line and say hello

Date with an Older Woman (mission district) 23yr

2009-12-02T21:12:31-08:00
For the sake of brevity and privacy, not revealing much here. But if you're into younger men(which I assume you are since you clicked :), then email me and I'll tell you more.

Naughty Catholic Girl 32-42

2009-12-02T21:03:34-08:00
I am seeking a genuinely sincere, warm, stable,romantic practicing Catholic girl (not "lapsed") with a fine sense of humor, and who's highly literate/articulate--for a long-term, committed relationship. I am a man in my fifties-- thus "the older man."

*Naughty*, in the heading, means a woman who desires/needs to explore "The Dark Side" for the first time, with a man that she can and will give her full trust to.Whiloe being monogamous.

I am seeking a woman who has fantasized about "a different, darker type of love," but has never before explored this side. I am strongly attracted to an engaging mixture of innocence and guilt--and *need* A. strong need!

No: married or involved women; no bisexual women; and no women who have been abused by family members in childhood.

If this fits something you have long thought of, wondered about, been fascinated by--but, again--have never yet acted on, do write to me and tell me about yourself, and why this would be right for you.

No photos at first; let us create a bit of dark mystery.

"Our love's on the dangerous edge of things." Robert Browning

Well, I don't expect to get many responses...

2009-12-02T20:52:38-08:00
but here we go... :-)

You:
(1) Intelligent - You don't need to be a Rhodes Scholar, but if you had previously thought that a Rhodes Scholar was someone that knew a shit-ton about the origin and history of streets and highways, we probably won't get along. Exceptions MAY be made if you're supremely hot.
(2) Attractive - This is vary vague and problematic for that reason. Let's say you qualify as "attractive" if anyone has uttered any of the following in response to seeing you: "hot", "smokin' hot", "mmmm mmmm", "hottt", "fine", "stupid fine", "I would sell my grandmother to sleep with you"
(3) No kids - I love kids, but if your kids happen to be the spawn of Satan, and I feel the need to kill them, I don't want it to cause a rift in "us".
(4) No BBWs - I love women, and I even like curvier women than most guys, but if you're pushing 200 or fall into the "overweight" category on the BMI scale it's just not gonna happen. Basically, I'm a big dude (6'3", 220) and I'd feel emasculated if you were larger. And please don't send me a diatribe about how the BMI doesn't appropriately speak to your constitution--if you're 5'6" and 160lbs, we're not likely to jibe.

Bonus:
(1) Tall - One day, I hope to create a clan of super-human children, and well, "marginally taller than average" children don't really scream "super-human"--you'll need to be 5'8" at a minimum, and 5'10"+ is better, with a bullet-proof vagina and uterus to make this happen.
(2) Feminine - I'm noticeably masculine, and tend to prefer very feminine women (heels, dresses, non-excessive make-up, curves, etc). Yeah, nothing funny about this one--women dressed entirely in denim just don't do much for me.
(3) Trust Fund - I'm very comfortable, but not opposed to meeting a woman from a notable family interested in adding a witty and charismatic young stud to their roster.

Now, provided you've made it to this point without feeling the need to fire off a nasty e-mail (if you HAVE felt the need, it's probably because you're either a BBW or don't have a bullet-proof vagina), send me a note with a couple pics.

Oh, and a bit about me per request:
I'm quite smart, tall, well-built (think 'linebacker'), ambitious and a host of other ambiguous and largely subjective traits that I'll spare you. Get in touch and we can figure it out.

Sincere Sugar Daddy Seeks Saucy Miss to Spank and Spoil.. (sf) 46yr

2009-12-02T20:37:40-08:00
I'm seeking an attractive woman who wants to explore her sexually submissive side in the bedroom - with the right man. You've explored it before, or perhaps just imagined what it would be like. I envision a mutually beneficial arrangement - a sugar daddy, if you prefer - where we share friendship, trust, and the intimacy of a sexually satisfying journey centered around spanking as foreplay. Naturally, I will ensure that your bills are taken care of - the better to allow you to concentrate on more important things in the bedroom. I seek a drama-free, perhaps weekly get-together for a few hours. Something we can both look back on with a smile. A form of erotic "personal growth", or "friendship with benefits" - but ultimately, something very special, though without a wedding ring at the end...for I already have one.

What kind of woman am I looking for? Outside the bedroom you are confident, educated and perhaps quite accomplished. You expect to be treated as an equal in all ways - until the bedroom doors close. There, another side of you -the side you keep hidden in your public life - comes out. Your pulse quickens at the thought of him taking absolute control - the way he leads you to the bedroom, passionately kissing and stroking you, asking if you�ve been reading certain personals on craigslist, or flirting with other men, or letting those naughty fingers of yours wander�you tell him you just can�t help yourself, as his own fingers probe you deeply to confirm your forbidden wetness�wetness you know will lead to him turning you over his knee, pulling your panties down, and teaching you a lesson about what happens to naughty young ladies� the electric fear and excitement you feel at his raw strength as he easily flips you across his lap, your bottom perfectly positioned - one of his strong arms pinning your wrists to the small of your back as he casually flips your skirt up, slowly takes your panties down, as his palm caresses your bare bottom and wide-spread thighs, fingertips grazing and teasing the most private, sensitive places.. the way his hard palm begins the spanking and discipline you so badly need from him�the way he pauses so that his hands and fingers can casually check to see if , heaven forbid, you're actually getting turned on by having your bare bottom spanked..oh my, it seems the naughty miss is so wet she's almost asking to have her naughty bottom punished....what's a strict disciplinarian to do with such a misbehaved young lady? It would be such a shame to not put that abundant wetness to good use�Yes, yes... those, and so many other images you've constructed in your mind, keep you squirming with unfulfilled desire...desire that your vanilla lovemaking sessions never seem to satisfy...

But it's so much more than just physical...it's the tone of his voice as he nods approvingly at that very revealing outfit you wear..the one you know arouses him....the feeling of light restraint, the carefully chosen words he whispers in your ears, for he knows the brain is the center of arousal...the way his hands firmly grip your hair as he guides you exactly in the position he wants so that you can demonstrate your complete submission to him.....and the pleasure he'll likewise soon return, for he is a man who appreciates the gift of your submission and knows how to show it in all ways. And when she's riding him on top, it the way his hands firmly palm and grasp her well-spanked bottom, a subtle reminder of his mastery of her, as he urges her on...

And though this personal is loaded with sexual imagery - the better to get your attention - I'm not one-dimensional or crude. I'm well-rounded, a highly educated prof'l, responsible and mature -and highly experienced in matters relating to teaching a woman so much about her submissive side...and I understand the thought of answering a personal as highly charged as this is as bit nerve-wracking. But fear not -I have a great sense of humor, am very down to earth, great company, and someone you'd want to take home to mom. I'm tall (6'2"), dark hair and eyes, very attractive, athletic, fit, and extremely healthy. and I'm wise enough to know that this is a power exchange that you give solely with your permission, that we are acting out some hard-wired aspects of our sexuality that need acting out, that just because you're giving me some power in the bedroom doesn't mean I'll abuse it. I know that this is just one side of you, that it does not extend outside the bedroom, and that you need to feel completely safe and trust me enough to even consider this. Your submission is a gift - and you expect that a man who comes across like this will know a thing or two about ensuring you multiple orgasms throughout a leisurely afternoon...

The woman I seek is between 21 and 39, fit and attractive, intelligent and mature. If i've enticed you, drop me a note and tell me a bit about yourself. I envision getting together a few times a month or so, as I have a busy schedule and assume you do as well. As to the level of the monthly stipend I provide, I'm certain you would find it more than sufficient. And while this arrangement doesn't involve romance or a relationship in the traditional sense, it should does involve friendship, support, respect - something we can both look back on with a big smile I'm pretty picky, and hope you are as well. Thank you.

Single, Smart and Cute (lower nob hill) 39yr

2009-12-02T20:34:58-08:00
Exceedingly well-read guy, easy on the eyes, fit and been called cute a time or two is looking for a smart woman that can have fun no matter what she is doing. I'm usually attracted to indpendent woman that have interests that extend past the television and gossip pages. Perhaps we can meet for a drink and see if there is chemistry.

chinese american looking for a rship! (bayview) 23yr

2009-12-02T20:25:48-08:00
I am looking for someone in my area or out of my area, which ever is fine. I am a college student and i play sports. I am look for a latina, black, Pinay or mix race. I want something differnt from a other culture. You can be working or a student, atleast your doing something. I have my own humor. I am friendly, confident, i am smart in my own way. Contact me to fine out my hobbies or more about me, also tell me a lil about you. I think i am attractive, be as attractive or even more beautiful. That means you know your attractive in the outside, that shows on the outside.

chat on yahoo??? (pacific heights) 30yr

2009-12-02T20:19:37-08:00
hi. looking to chat for a bit on yahooooo.
swm.
likes dirty talk, but has other interests :)

One fair-haired girl left? 39yr

2009-12-02T20:05:27-08:00
Searching for a nice fair - haired girl in the most unusual of places. If you are interested in finding a real man that is seriously interested in a LTR, please reply. If you should be looking for a one night stand, do not respond. I am a good looking 5'-9", caucasion with blue eyes, and am very fit. Great sense of humor, honest and real. I love all the usual things and much more. I am very out-going and appreciate the important things. Please be single, American, educated with no children, not into any drugs, and drama free. Please be emotionally available and serious, living near San Francisco. Having a good long term outlook on what you want in this life, and an interest in family are a must. If there is such a girl left, you will not be disappointed with this guy. Please be between 30 - 35 years old and a quality individual. A good description of yourself would be appreciated along with a photo if you like. No genetalia pics! This certainly is a tall order, but maybe you are still out there wishing to find one last gentleman.

Richard Brautigan from The Pill versus The Springhill Mine Disaster. 31yr

2009-12-02T20:03:53-08:00
The Beautiful Poem

I go to bed in Los Angeles thinking
about you.

Pissing a few moments ago
I looked down at my penis
affectionately.

Knowing it has been inside
you twice today makes me
feel beautiful.

3 a.m.
January 15, 1967

looking for a nice women to chat with :-) 37yr

2009-12-02T19:57:47-08:00
I am a smart guy and a smart ass :)~.....i do NOT love to fight... but i will fight for love.

we can talk about all things serious... or all things naughty... or both........(smile)

i am tall... well educated.. well traveled....but mostly ... i am well...... nice:-)..(.i really am)

i hope you are the same. :-)

find me tonight.. por favor

Kinky intellectual seeks complex woman for banter, kissing & lust. (In the realm of the senses.)

2009-12-02T19:41:31-08:00
Ah, to reduce one's essence to a few
short paragraphs. I'll give it a go.

I'm a professional, well-educated man who wants to
meet an unusual woman. A woman blessed with great
intellect, a dark wit, a wicked imagination, confident
and sexually tending towards the submissive.

I think I have all those qualities, excepting of
course that I'm naturally dominant in the bedroom.
Intellectual is relative, but in a country where Paris
Hilton is a topic for cocktail chatter I guess I
qualify.

I have no problem meeting women, but I want to meet
someone who matches me in all realms, thus my
resorting to, shall we say, more unorthodox means. I
have myriad interests including art and aesthetics,
literature, culture both high and low, travel,
domestic and foreign, great food, be it the obscure
ethnic restaurant or something cutting edge, music
from opera to 70s punk to alt.country to Aretha
Franklin, film of all genres, writing, politics (I am
more left than right), and witty repartee.

I'm trim, attractive, selective and that being said, I
don't take myself too seriously. I'll make you think,
make you laugh, and if it gets to that point, I can
assure you I'll make you come.

I never presume chemistry, but have no problem acting
on it if it is there, know how to listen, and your
jokes and allusions won't go over my head. I like and
prefer a challenge.

I've realized over the years that I'd like to find a
woman who is as sexually adventurous as I am. I don't
define myself by my sexuality, but at the same time, I
realize that a shared desire to explore sexually on
all levels, mental, physical and emotional is a vital
part of any relationship I'm in.

Write and tell me about yourself, your history, what
turns you on in bed and in a lover, any questions you
might have for me and send a photo if you have one.
I'd be glad to reciprocate in kind.

Looking for Make-out/Sleeping Partner (north beach / telegraph hill) 29yr

2009-12-02T19:41:10-08:00
Professional 29 year old white male looking for cute female to make out with or sleep next to once in a while. Could end up being more, but I want to start slow at first. I'm also up for going out for drinks and finding places to eat. I'm white, 5'10, 175, with brown hair and blue eyes. I usually date curvy-toslight BBW females so I'm good with that. Thin is okay too. Thanks for reading.

Tall, very attractive, outgoing guy (San Francisco)

2009-12-02T19:35:13-08:00
Hey there. Just thought that I would see what CL has to offer and perhaps meet for an early happy hour. I'm 6'4, early 30s, caucasian, laidback but very intelligent, dark green eyes, dark brown hair, handsome, outgoing and fun. Also, I have a great sense of humor, am successful and I happen to live in SF - but wouldn't mind if you don't. Anyways, I tend to like women who are younger than me, attractive, fit, and fun with limited baggage (I really don't have any myself). Exotic is nice as well, along with a sense of humor. Yes, high standards that I can meet myself. Also, I only like WOMEN so let's make that clear as well.

Let me know if you are interested in knowing more, and your pics get mine.

For the 3rd time, stop flagging! (lower pac hts) 34yr

2009-12-02T19:35:11-08:00
I read your hilarious posting, and now it's gone before I could reply! I'm happy to send you an email in return if you want to connect with me through here...

Best wishes!!

In search of that ... Tall? special Dominant Lady... (SF Area)

2009-12-02T19:31:52-08:00
Are you Dominant? i am search of that special Dominant lady who would be interested in a Domme /sub relationship and would like a sub to totally explore her Dominant nature with and that enjoys intense B&D, i am openminded. if you would like a sub to train mentally, physically and emotionaly to serve adore and worship you, Please, i would look forward to submitting to you.

sincere only please, No pro dommes, Gamers or Spammers. Thank you for your interest, submissively yours.

Understand the dilemma of meeting quality people as we get older... (SOMA / south beach) 32yr

2009-12-02T19:26:58-08:00
Just looking to meet someone nice. I'm fun, happy, cute, outgoing, intelligent, silly, random, educated (grad school). It's tough to meet quality women out there... and I'm not a bar person, don't date where I work, can't bring myself to join an internet site, and although I meet the occasional cool girl at the park, I'm kind of at a loss for where to find a good date. So, let's exchange a few emails, pictures, and see what happens. Ideally, you're smart, fun, wise, cute, know how to take care of yourself and understand the dilemma of meeting quality people as we get older.......

Funny, Educated and Cute.... (hayes valley) 31yr

2009-12-02T19:25:22-08:00
So I am single ... well for almost six months now. I really enjoyed being by myself and the independence is great. I could get away with not making my bed in the morning, leaving the toilet seat up, leaving the bathroom counter a little wet, listening & watching whatever I wanted, you know, the things...and it is all fun.

But then being single starts getting to me. I miss being in love with a woman, the touch, the laughs, the showers, the arguments, the sex after the arguments, the travels, the adventures, the cuddling, the random visits, the kissing, the whole thing. So I have decided to start dating again....email me if you are interested in meeting someone funny, educated and cute.

Why don't I ever have a Missed Connection? (pacific heights) 29yr

2009-12-02T19:23:26-08:00
Everywhere I go, I scan my surroundings and wonder if someone is secretly plotting a CL missed connection post for me. "We locked eyes briefly at the Safeway as you were picking out those peaches. You smiled at me so innocently. If this is you tell me what I was wearing"? Nothing

I drive down the interstate and look in all the cars and then come home to check CL to see if anyone missed a connection with the "Sexy dark haired guy in the Beemer going towards SFO International Airport on, you eyeballed me. I want to take you out." Still nothing.

I get up every day, shower, get dressed and go out just so someone can miss a connection and look for me on CL.

Don't approach me in public. I'm waiting for you here!

muslim looking for a muslim wife (downtown / civic / van ness) 39yr

2009-12-02T19:21:07-08:00
Salam Alaiqum

I am a muslim live in USA in the bay area. I am 39 year old. I don�t drink and I don�t smoke either. I am looking for a muslim wife. I want to have a muslim family. If any sister serious about that please contact me. I have a job and financially ok. More details about me later and I have to see you in person.

Please no scammers, no contract signature. Be real and serious about that.
I am not interested with sex, porn or any kind of that.

thanks

What Happens when you're 30(ish) and Still Single (SOMA / south beach) 31yr

2009-12-02T19:18:56-08:00
Once you are in your 30's the whole dating scene changes. Lemme tell you, it sucks the big one.

For Men: The women you meet will be:
A- Sluts (Spent their 20's jumping so fast from guy to guy looking for the love daddy never showed them.)
B- The Jaded Chick (either has never found love before and doesn't believe in it, or was in a long-term relationship that ended badly. Has potential if you have patience)
C- The Gold-digger (the first thing she will ask is. :"So, what do you do for a living?")
D- The Desperate Damsel (looking to get married, will put the relationship into hyper drive and overlook reality for the ring).
E- The Divorcee with kids (Tired, needs help, will settle. If you want an instant family, she's probably going to take very good care of you.)
F- The Married Woman (husband cheated, she's getting her revenge. Expect animal sex.)
G- The Uptight (nobody will ever be perfect for her)
H- The Drama Junkie (if you are relaxed and normal, she will be 'bored' and missing the drama she had in the past)

For Women: The men who ask you out will be:
A- Married (all those guys who married in their early-mid 20's have discovered that their sweet, loving wife is a shrew who wouldn't blow them after they said their vows).
B- Over 40 (for some reason, as soon as you hit the magic 3-0 all the old farts seem to think you should be grateful for their attention.)
C- Playboys (Had fun while he was good looking and young. Find themselves stuck home alone while their "posse" have married off)
D- The Divorced Man with kids (run...looking for a mom, housekeeper, cook, laundress etc etc. Afraid of sex because they have learned the hard way what a pain it is to have kids).
E-The Younger Man (These guys love the idea of dating an older chick, will learn all they can from ya then go find an 18 yr old to show off their new skills).
F- The Career guy (found himself on the fast track, realized that work sucks, can be a good find if he has learned that his personal life should be a priority.)
G- The Idealist (sincerely believes that "just have not found the right person yet", but breaks up for reason like "she couldn't cook", "he didn't challenge me enough".....bottom line: nobody had a chance.

All in all, a pretty sad scene for both sexes. I'm 31, and I've discovered that Saturday night at home can be a whole lotta fun. Ok, maybe not fun, but better than the dating jungle. (oh, if I had to categorize myself, I'd be a Career guy. At this point, I wish I was a Playboy ;) Aw shit, too late to lose the morals.

Would love to meet someone sane, normal, fit and fun!

Let's make our dreams a reality (bernal heights) 31yr

2009-12-02T19:17:18-08:00
Hello there ladies and thanks for reading my ad,
It seems harder these days to meet genuine people so I'm giving this a try. I am very compassionate, romantic, honest and funny person...really i am this is a real ad :) My ideal relationship would be one with my lover and I being my best friends, sharing our interest, doing fun spontaneous things, and sharing the deepest part of ourselves in growing in our love. I love to be romantic if you let me.

I am most attraced to kindness, funny, honesty, and faithful. I would love to meet a girl who has these qualities, and pretty one too.
Me... I'm 5'9", 220lbs, light brown eyes, light skin latin guy. I can tell you more about myself but I would rather hear from you. Tell me what's your ideal on first date?

Well hopefully you'll e-mail me. Please write "Romeo" in your subject line so I can know that you're not a spam. Please tell me about yourself.... a picture of your self is always apprecated and you'll get my pic, I promise.

PS and yes that's my dog on the pic.

Cosmic Reverence and Animal Attraction (mission district) 25yr

2009-12-02T18:57:58-08:00
Every moment holds the potential for love and transformation
I'm playfully looking for an extraordinary lover and partner. While I do want a LTR, I'm in no rush, as I've learned these things have their own way of finding me. Age aint nothing but a number, I've dated the range of 20-40 and have loved the full spectrum. Who am I to limit possibility?
Some stuff I enjoy

Seeing
tasting
touching
smelling
hearing
creating
appreciating that which has been shamed
surrendering to my shadow
the perfection of reality
animistic tribal freak dancing in the desert
revealing a lie
breathing deeply
Walt Whitman
Fire
cooking
sensuality
sexuality
sacred profane
prayer
merging
money
late night ocean salty body
magic of helping others get what they want
unconditional surrender
revealing my awesomeness
Yoga that cracks my heart open
irreverence
Monomaniacal obsession with Truth
Flying
contemplating my mortality
Angels
Devils
aligning all parts

Looking for the one
cause we are all one

looking for appreciating the present,
not strategizing how to cage it for later

Want to open my eyes and SEE all the gifts the universe is sending me

I want to go on a date of cosmic reverence and animal attraction

That sounds fun

SM

A Voluptuous Vixen

2009-12-02T18:43:01-08:00
Curious if there are any curvy mature ladies, prefereably over 29 looking for a sensual massage and pleasure. Love all types, olive skin middle eastern women are my favorite. Clean white guy 29, 185lbs would love to make your acquantance.

a story (mission district) 24yr

2009-12-02T18:38:21-08:00
So...

The last thing that happened to me was that I got trapped in a bookstore. Suffice it to say that after quietly reading for half an hour in the back of a little hole-in-the-wall in the mission you can't count on the proprietor not going out to lunch.
But I had to leave for an appointment. And the guy locked the front door and slyly left no key in the lock either... So it was just me and my wits against the connivings of an oblivious aging hippy...I quickly reconnoitered the place and found a broken window sloppily patched with cardboard above a sink teeming with dirty teacups and soup bowls. I removed the cardboard and leaped/fell out the window, only to land in the courtyard of a charming apartment complex--complete with a dry fountain and bougainvalea (sp?). The front gate out was locked, so I had to push my ninja skills yet again and dexterously shimmied up a tree to jump over a barb ware fence and fall landing handily on my arm: looking around in a crouched position and finding myself free of witnesses I leaped a final measly five foot fence sans barbs and raced around to the front of the store where my bike was chained. I mounted and was off, another success.

If you like the idea of a skinny indie(ish) guy whose pic won't fit on craigslist and such literary adventures as the one above..

Looking for a steady cuddler...

2009-12-02T18:38:15-08:00
Its getting cold now...Looking for petite or curvy (not too fat sorry) girl to cuddle with during the week

this would be casual but steady...someone to be friends with first and see how things went...but love to cuddle so you should too =)

email if interested and we can talk

Coffee? 33yr

2009-12-02T18:29:44-08:00
I know it's freezing, but I'm wondering if there's anyone adventurous enough to venture out in this cold for some really good random conversation.
I'm not expecting instant sparks but you never know. We should trade pictures, and pick a neighborhood in between us both, and just be spontaneous.
I am creative, but pretty adaptable, with eclectic interests.

Very Attractive man seeks a classy curvy woman tonight (russian hill)

2009-12-02T18:25:51-08:00
I am a very attractive male seeking a sexy and very horny curvy woman

A little about me:

- Educated professional

- Very attractive

- I enjoy taking control in the bedroom and exploring your naughty side

- 5' 10'

- 180lbs

A little about you (desired characteristics)

- slightly submissive

- very horny with an insatiable desire for being naughty in the bedroom

- large breasts, the bigger the better and they are a major erogenous zone for you, amongst others.

I am looking for one very naughty special lady who fits the above description and would consider a long term friends with benefits if the chemistry is right.

it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests

R U Thick, Curvy, Sexy, and Horny? Lets hookup tonight 29yr

2009-12-02T18:24:34-08:00
I am single, good looking, clean, fun, laid back, and interested in hooking up tonight. I am for real, can host at my place, and will take this down when I find what I am looking for. Send your pic if you like what you see.

Looking for an Unsatisfied WOMAN to come over (downtown / civic / van ness)

2009-12-02T18:23:01-08:00
Are you in town for business? Alone and horny? Unsatisfied by your husband? Let me spend the evening satisfying you. "Curvy" is definitely a turn-on but not a necessity. I can host. Please include age and marital status in your response. A picture would also be appreciated, I could reciprocate in my response to you. Don't forget to type "pleasure" in the subject line. No Guys!

Seeking submissive woman for regular play (haight ashbury)

2009-12-02T18:20:51-08:00
I am very easy to be with. Seek warmth and am the good friend type. My middle name is even Ernest�lol

But when our clothes come off, I want someone who desires to be tied up and dominated. I can be intense but I am also a very aware lover and actually prefer to move slowly and spend most of my time teasing you for a long while.

I will teach you how to suck cock depending on different moods, how to spread your legs, how to pose for me as I like you, how to touch yourself as I watch or do things to you. In between, I might tie you up and play with you or spank you. Most of all, will want to make you cum and keep you wet all the time.

I am a better fit if you are open to being taught rather than bratty all the time. I have a good imagination and want to put it to use.

Am 40s, younger looks, slim/athletic build, 6'1, 175, sexually confident and creative. Intelligent.

Maybe I'm different from your day to day (financial district) 27yr

2009-12-02T18:18:48-08:00
This is to all the beautiful women that work in the financial district. I spend some of my days basically wandering around the area in a headphone daydream in awe of some of the gorgeous professionals that I see. I can only fantasize that you are also intelligent and interesting. Could you ever be interested in the type of man that would never work in one of the many office jobs surrounding you?

I spend most of my time taking little adventures trying to experience life. I am a t shirt and jeans type of a guy. I read a lot and like to try and write as often as I can. I use the gym, skateboarding, and riding my bike to expel nervous energy. Every so often I binge drink and might party until the sun comes up. I like to try and live in the moment and keep an open mind. I participate in 420 rituals often. New experience is what I thrive on. I'm a tall, healthy, athletic white male with dark hair and light eyes. I listen to mostly older punk rock and wonder what went wrong with our generation. I despise tv but enjoy movies. I'm smarter then most but the only way you might catch it at first is by the flicker in my eye because I'm usually such an introvert.

If any of this sounds of intrest, please respond to my add with a picture or a myspace and a little about yourself and I will surely reply.

PS I wrote this on my phone in a cafe so please excuse any spelling or punctuation errors. Thanks.

New guy in town..tall white male..professional no bs (financial district) 30yr

2009-12-02T18:14:59-08:00
Hi there,

Fairly new to the city. Originally from NYC but on a rotation here for work and will be working in SF for most of 2010. Looking to meet new people outside of work.

I enjoy sports, movies, wine, traveling, hoping to enjoy all the city/bay area has to offer..talk to u soon.

Let me know if you want to chat sometime.

Intelligent/athletic/handsome man seeks brilliant/sexy/outgoing woman (marina / cow hollow) 32yr

2009-12-02T18:08:11-08:00
I am a well-educated, professional man who lives in Cow Hollow and works in the financial district as an attorney for a large law firm. In my free time, I like to hang out with friends, workout, go out to bars, watch theatre, and catch a baseball game. Whenever I get some time off, I love to travel. I try to get to Wine Country, Europe, New Orleans, New York City, or some other exciting destination whenever I can. I'm looking for an amazing, beautiful, challenging woman to share some great experiences together. Ideally, we would go out and have fun exploring all San Francisco and the Bay Area has to offer from wine tastings and gourmet restaurants to art galleries, farmer's markets, and ethnic neighborhoods. I also want to be up front that I have a very high sex drive and would ask that you have similar desires. If you're up for getting to know each other, drop me a line. Hope to hear from you soon.

Hi :) (SF) 21yr

2009-12-02T17:48:57-08:00
Well I want to find someone to hang out this saturday, age, race don't really matters. I'm free basicly all day so I want to meet someone new intereresting :)
I'm 21 years, fit and 6"2". I'm intelligent, mature, silly, dorky, goofy, physically active, understanding, affectionate, wise. I enjoy so many things and it really doesn't matter.. be it intellectual, a physical activity, or something down right silly. I love conversation but when you're with the right person sometimes you don't say anything for hours, similar with the activity you do with the person as in when you're with the right person it doesn't matter what you both do. My friends and family mean the world to me. I'm very upfront and confident. I have standards which I follow and live by. I'm working full time and going to school. I love music post-rock/hardcore/ambient bands like Russian Circles, Red Sparowes, Isis, Pelican, Jesu, Converge. I absolutely love going to the local shows, festivals. I love to read, movies, clubs, bars and etc.
Well I want to meet someone for a cup of coffee or dinner/lunch :)

Tonight: Dancing at the Star Light Lounge, with Engllish gent/ (mission district)

2009-12-02T17:48:06-08:00
HI
Anyone off work tomorrow and fancy going to the Star Light lounge with an English gentleman. We can go to dinner too, if you would like

Me Proffesional and am considered handsome handsome by some and HOT by most, and modest to boot

No expections dinnning and boggie needed

Something Casual (Tonight)

2009-12-02T17:44:13-08:00
Someone to talk to. Human contact. Let's hang out and keep each other company. We'll grab a bite, maybe some coffee or a drink. See a late show. Why don't we go downtown and see the holiday displays around Union Square? We'll just play things by ear.

Where are all the curly haired girls??!? (The Bay) 32yr

2009-12-02T17:43:20-08:00
Where are all the curly haired girls???? I Love curly haired girls.....

I'm 32....white guy.....in good shape.....love the outdoors....

send me an email...send a photo......

Nice guy seeks nice girl (mission district) 24yr

2009-12-02T17:33:57-08:00
Smart, funny and employed, what more could you want? Tall and Rich? sorry can't help you out with that. Anyway if that's what you are looking for then you are probably shallow and will fall into a loveless marriage. If you are looking for a super sweet guy who you can laugh with or wax and wane all philosophical like then i might be your man.

A bit about me:
I am a 24yr old Art major at SFSU. I am attractive, athletic, and love the beach. I have one tattoo but might get more. I love getting together with my friends and letting loose to the old jams of yesteryear.

You:
Similar age, attractive, and must have a great sense of humor. Love of disco a plus, 420 friendly also a plus. other then that i'm pretty open.

take a chance who knows what might happen. Your pic gets mine.

Funny, romantic, stable, and well rounded asian guy for LTR 29yr

2009-12-02T17:32:31-08:00
Hello there,

I am the type of person that loves life. I also love travel. I was in Shanghai a few months ago eating delicious dim sum. Then I visited Seoul to see what the night life offered, and more recently Vegas to party it up at Pure. The world is pretty interesting, and I wish I could see more. I grew up in the Bay Area so I'm in this area most often.

In my spare time, I watch TV crime dramas (CSI, Southland, etc), play video games, study Korean (btw, my background is Chinese), and enjoy life. I also like snowboarding, enjoying the night life, and playing the violin. And all the basic human hobbies like movies, concerts, museums, hiking, cafes, etc., SF is pretty fun too.

What I'm doing with my life:
My job is in the accounting field. I graduated from UC Davis with a BS in Managerial Economics and I'm a CPA.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food:
Books - I like anything on the new fiction shelf that have turned into movies, the Lord of the Rings series, Xmen comics, and other science fiction books.

Movies - If it's got Al Pacino or Robert DeNiro in it, I'll watch it. I also like those 1-star action flicks like Equilibrium, Wanted, Ultraviolet, and Resident Evil.

Music - I like a hip hop, rap, dance, and classical music.

Food - I'll eat anything healthy. And I like Korean, Japanese, Indian, Thai, and all things on the dessert menu.

The six things I could never do without:
sunsets, friends, dogs, travel, compassion, stars

I'm looking for a stable relationship or just friends in the area, so send me a note if you think we'll get along or just want to know more.
PLEASE SEND A PHOTO.

Thanks.

AIM: Twine30
MSN: exqin at hotmail dot com

4 truths and 1 lie (sf)

2009-12-02T17:20:52-08:00
can you figure out the lie.... [I swear 4 are true and 1 is a lie]

1) I play drums in a rock band
2) I can auto-fellatio myself
3) I speak 3 languages fluently
4) I live alone in sf
5) I am over 6 ft tall

all winners get a free date

Sagittarius looking for his match (San Francisco & Peninsula)

2009-12-02T17:20:38-08:00
I am 6'1ft tall, single white, never married, Mediterranean look, Sagittarius and well established. Healthy, height/weight proportionate, well-spoken, well-educated, smart, and articulate professional I like to hang out in coffee shops and people watching. Laid back, good listener, and Love to travel. Sometimes I like to make short trips to Tahoe or Reno for one or two nights. I am very passionate, honest and sincere. I am active and adventurous, love life, have a quick wit with a wild sense of humor and know how to enjoy life. I may have everything you are looking for and maybe more. You should have great set of values, honesty, sincerity, and want to start a relation ship not a one night stand. There are a lot of single women in San Francisco, but most of them are snobs.

Attractive, Real guy seeks fun girl! (downtown / civic / van ness) 26yr

2009-12-02T16:33:50-08:00
So... let me start by being clear... I don't LIVE in the city, I work out there. I am in the process of relocating to the Walnut Creek/Pleasant Hill area. I'd like to get to know some one/date/whatever in the SF area as I come from a very small town in the NorthBay where we all know each other, and it's just OLD. So if you're real, and you'd like to hang out, let me know. I'm usually free before 5 or after 10 during the week. Sometimes I work late shifts, sometimes I don't. It varies. Oh, it would probably help to know I'm a bartender. I also race a motorcycle, and travel for modeling. I'm busy, but not too busy for the right girl! I'm not fake, or spam or some stupid link, just a normal guy looking for a cool chick!!! Can't wait to hear from... some one! (and yes, the motorcycle pics say "GotBlueMilk.com" because I ripped them off the site instead of ordering the CD for like $80 but they're from Thunderhill a couple months ago)

Coming to town, love to meet (financial district) 42yr

2009-12-02T16:31:58-08:00
Coming to SF in a couple weeks to visit. I want to take in the sites, eat some good food, drinks some great wine, perhaps a side trip to Napa. If you would like to meet me for a drink in a classy lounge, great conversation, perhaps a little dancing, write me back. Lets meet here first. I have only two request, that you have great legs and love to show them off. I am not a freek, or over weight, I am just a guy who wants to escape reality for a couple days and have a good time. Must be over 21. My name is Jonathan

SWM seeks petite Asian female (inner sunset / UCSF) 40yr

2009-12-02T16:29:57-08:00
Hi I'm looking for a long term relationship. I am looking for someone who seeks a simple enjoyable life. I am not sure if kids are still part of my future but it would be nice to find a life long partner. I am just over 6'2" fit, well traveled and educated. This is a tough way to meet the "right" woman, but I'm openminded about the possibility of a wonderful woman reading this brief post

Drinks and good conversation tonight (SOMA / south beach) 30yr

2009-12-02T16:24:22-08:00
It looks like we have a chilly, foggy night ahead. I would like to meet a cute, witty woman for a glass of wine, a warm bite to eat and good conversation. I am thinking RN74 for good wine and cassoulet or Cav to people watch and maybe duck into Zuni for bread pudding.
I am 30, single, smart, and sane. I am a published writer and photographer but work in web development for a living. Last year I traveled to Australia and China; this year I spent some time in Boston and New York; lately I have been thinking about trips to the beaches of South Pacific islands or Paris for art and cheese. I like to hike along the coast, cook, browse art (thinking about first Thursday gallery openings tomorrow), people watch on Sunday mornings, watch movies on a cold or rainy night, and generally explore cool and interesting things the world has to offer. On a typical weekend you might find me shopping at the farmers' market, working on my wine, hiking along the coast, trying a new restaurant, watching movies, or relaxing at the beach. I am making my first wine this year, a Pinot noir, and enjoy the hands-on learning experience. This weekend I am selecting the best of my photographs for a special exhibition.

I can even offer instant gratification. Send me an IM and let's chat for a bit, see where the evening takes us. My screenname on AIM is niall79.

After chatting for a while you might become a Facebook stalker, thoroughly researching me before we hang out in person. You might discover that I like dark chocolate, red wines, and soccer among other things. I have other chat programs as well if you'd like to connect.

What did you do with your long holiday weekend? Do you enjoy reading novels by a fire? Hanging out with friends in Dolores Park? Shopping for new shoes? Dance clubs and booze? What is on your Christmas list?

Maybe you randomly wandered into the personals while browsing for a new apartment, bicycle or new job. Upgrades! I felt like writing, curious to see who is out there and interested in spicing up their day with a little adventure on a chilly night. First step: say hello!

Your wish is My Command 31yr

2009-12-02T16:22:46-08:00
I'm a great looking guy (actually am) who likes to keep it very simple. I enjoy working hard and going out of my way to please someone I desire. Need an extra hand around the Holidays? Someone to take you to a Holiday party as great arm candy? Someone to take care of errands or basic stuff you have no time for? Have more enjoyable things you'd rather be doing?

I can fix most things, walk the dog, wash the car, take care of shopping and cleaning to make your place spotless or whatever else you may need. If you're an extremely attractive girl and want to meet someone and build toward a scenario like this, while maintaining your freedom and independence, yet would enjoy relying on me to satisfy your wants AND needs, then drop me a line and we'll see if it's a good fit. Once we get comfortable, I just want to make your life better in whatever way I can.

I will send you a picture to show you how legitimate I am and you WILL NOT be disappointed! Open your mind and drop me a line.

***Attractive SWM Seeking a Woman with Curves (I know this sounds bad)

2009-12-02T16:22:34-08:00
Ok, ok, I know that the subject line of my post sounds pretty bad, I can admit that! And of course that isn't all that I am looking for in a woman, not by any means, however, I am the type of guy that loves some healthy curves on a woman and obviously isn'afraid to admit it. I mean, we all have our types: some guys like the ultra skinny-model look, some like only blondes... and women are guilty of this, too. �I need a man that is over 6'2" or �someone who makes $300K per year". Ok, well here's my chance to have a shallow preference - but you can blame Mother Nature on this one!

Anyway, I feel so bad for women who are constantly under attack to look like these anorexic models (yuk). In my opinion, there ins't one model out there that I would like to spend time with! I've always liked women that have the accentuated hourglass figure - I've had trouble finding that somewhat curvy/busty woman out there. Have you all gone on extreme diets or are you just hiding your curves?

So, before I really start ranting on this subject, let me tell you a little about myself: I am an attractive SWM who is looking for a great woman to get to know, hang out with and see where things go. I am also the type of guy that is not afraid to commit, so I am not going to bolt and run if things start going great. Physically, I stand 6'0, have a muscular/athletic build with dark brown hair and blue eyes.
More about me: most people would say I am somewhat old-fashioned, traditional, respectful and easy to get along with. I am a business man/business owner and wear a suit during the day, but when I am not on the job I like to unwind, relax and have fun. I have been described as being pretty well-rounded, and feel comfortable either dining at a great restaurant in the city or camping in the Sierras. Some of things that I really enjoy are exploring all of the great places here in northern California, going on road trips, making people laugh and staying close with my friends and family.

Now, the type of woman that I am looking for (besides the curves and bust size) is someone who certainly is down to earth, knows the common rules of etiquette (you'd be surprised how many women can't say thank you anymore), someone who is well-rounded and has a great sense of humor. Being that I am more of a traditional guy, I love it when a woman feels comfortable in expressing her feminine side: dressing up when we go out yet at the same time can unwind and relax and be just as happy staying in on a Friday. Oh yes, and I should mention that I'd prefer to meet Caucasian women between the ages of 24-36.
So, if you aren't TOO offended by my subject line and you are at least somewhat intrigued, please feel free to drop me a line. Oh yeah, and attaching a pic is strongly encouraged

Perfect First Date (mind-blowingly awesome women only!!!) (downtown / civic / van ness) 28yr

2009-12-02T16:20:40-08:00
Our ideal first date: I would pick you up and we'd go to the Zoo for lunch - and, I'll totally buy you a monkey hat (pictured below). After making fun of the hippos, we would take a bike ride along Ocean Beach, and once we got hot and sweaty we would go run in the surf. After we cooled off, we would drive down to Burlingame to tour the IT'S IT ice cream factory (they don't do tours, but I know a guy... well, not really, but I have a crowbar in my trunk) - after we outrun their security, we'll stop next door for some mini golf. If you don't have golf friendly attire, I'll provide some (pictured below). At this point we should probably be getting ready for dinner, so we'll head back to the city. We'll eat at the Carnelian Room downtown, because I love the view, and because I want to impress you because you're so sexy. After dinner we'll bust out our parachutes (do not comply with dress code, but for me they make an exception) and jump out the window � la Batman (pictured below). We'll float over to pier 49 for some salsa dancing and cocktails at Jelly's. You will laugh at all my jokes (because I'm hilarious), and we will smile until our faces hurt. Then, as I'll be too drunk off love (and cocktails) to drive, I'll call my friend (pictured below) to escort us back to my place (where we'll totally make out!). Then, we'll live happily ever after...

About me: 28, 6'3", blond hair, blue eyes. Fit, handsome, masculine. Sharp dresser, but too bad-ass to be "metro". I have a professional job, but I'm also in college to get a $UPER professional job. I want to start out casual, but I'm definitely open to an LTR with Mrs Right. I'm looking for love... in all the wrong places. I'm intelligent, assertive, confident, funny (looking), kind, giving, adventurous, and easy-going. My lady friends all say I'm dead sexy, but you'll probably only agree if you like very manly men. But, I'm not the macho type - I just look like the macho type. Or, maybe I am, but I'm also a mysterious, complex, enigmatic, onion-esque guy (I won't make you cry, I promise) who has emotions and feelings and such. Anyway, if you're still reading this, maybe you should just send me an email and tell me about yourself. And, include a pic! You won't be disappointed that you took a chance! Ladies love me, but I'm just looking for someone special and I haven't met her in "real life", so here I am.

Coming to town, love to meet (downtown / civic / van ness) 42yr

2009-12-02T16:12:42-08:00
I am coming to SF in a couple weeks to escape reality for the weekend. I want to take in the sites, eat some good food and drink fine wines. Perhaps a side trip to Napa. If you would like to meet for a drink, good conversation, maybe a little dancing, and share some wine in a calssy lounge please write me back. I have only two requests, that you have great legs and that you like to show them off. must be over 21 please. I am a nice guy, not over weight, not a freek, just want to escape reality for a couple days and have some fun. Lets meet here first. My name is Jonathan

Simple MBM seek SWF for Girlfriend for NSA - m4w (Bay Area) 35yr

2009-12-02T16:11:49-08:00
because of Craiglist strict policies, I cannot go into to much details.

Basically, I'm a workaholic seeking an affair with a SWF, for some casual dating and discreet rendezvous. please no "sad stories" ;)

Ten Reasons why I need a "girlfriend" /�fuc buddy� - m4w 37yr

2009-12-02T16:09:20-08:00
1. Currently in a sexless marriage
2. I�m a great lover with an ultra-high sex-drive
3. I�m Black/Brazilian background (for some reason this is relevant, lol)
4. My partner always come first and often with me
5. I can host if you cannot
6. I�m a hopeless romantic
7. I�m very discreet
8. I keep appointment and always-on time
9. I love to role-play
10. I�m always horny

Cirque Du Soleil date for Dec 12th? (downtown / civic / van ness) 38yr

2009-12-02T15:59:59-08:00
Have 2 tickets for the Cirque Du Soleil 'OVO' show on Dec 12th, 4pm at the AT&T park.

Looking for a fun date to watch the show with.

Me: 38/Indian/5'7"/148lbs

You: ?/?/?/?

Enjoy your day!!!

I'm a nice black man looking for a filipina lady (excelsior / outer mission) 33yr

2009-12-02T15:50:58-08:00
I'm just a man that was made in splitting image. I'm a hard worker, that is looking for a down to earth lady.