It's a weird time for me. I'm an attractive enough guy ... I get my flirts .... degreed, traveled ... wise enough not to take myself so seriously that humor evades me. I even have a "spiritual practice."
But just because I'm cleaned up now doesn't mean that I didn't travel some dark roads to get here.
I'm on the "straighter side of bi" ... but I did "get fooled" back in the day and that transsexual not only flipped me out, but helped to take me down a road of what's called, "the journey of the wounded healer."
I'm looking for a bi-sexual woman. I don't care where you are on the spectrum ... and I'm not really concerned what kind of relationship I'm seeking ... I just know that I need honesty ... a friend whom I can share all the roads of my life.
I'm pretty monogamous, but I have no idea if this is about a "fling" that nurtures ... or a long term romance. I still need it real.
It's a weird time because the economy took me out. So I've gone back to school ... (*sigh*) ... again. Is there a woman wise enough to NOT let this wonderful, funny lover go to waste?
I'm a single black man, 5'8" tall, kind of stocky-muscular, and I enjoy hiking and camping, gardening, the arts, creativity, Buddhism as well as Christianity. (I may be a vet, but you can read that I have a ... um ... "streak" of nerd in me too.)
I'm a great loyal friend. Most of my relationships have been with Asians, blacks, Jews, and "white womens" ... ((chuckle)) ... but that's just because I haven't met others in ways that allow deeper connections.
Take a chance ... send me your idea ... even if all you want is someone to come over and give you a good massage, some conversation, and then leave. No, I'm not looking for a three-some or all that ... but ... [I'M JOKING... ]
I am 6', 270#, brown buzzed (often bald), greenish eyes, great smile, healthy and negative...told I am handsome. I am hoping to go out with guys +/- 7-10 years of my age (this requirement isn't set in stone...just a guide so we have something in common). I've recently discovered how much I like gray hair on men. I am open to most guys but I generally like guys my height or taller but smaller than myself. No offense to anyone but I usually not into Asian men. I've spent the last 9 months being very active, walking 5 miles a day and recently hitting the gym 3 days a week. I'd love to find someone who enjoys the outdoors and would like to walk with me. I am typically attracted to more masculine guys like myself. I'm truly a romantic at heart. I'd love someone to send me flowers for no reason. I don't believe in soul mates...at one point in my life I did...but I am smarter and wiser now and I know all relationships take work. I believe we get out of a relationship what we put into it.
I work in the non-profit sector and most days I love what I do. I love to take spontaneous road trips to no set destination. I love the ocean, traveling, family, friends. I'm a great cook and have been keeping it very healthy this year. I love just about any kind of asian food. I like going to movies. I'm not much of a bar person so you probably won't find me out. I don't smoke and prefer someone else who doesn't smoke either.
Please tell me a little bit about yourself and include a picture. I will answer all emails and respond with a picture of myself. Please no one liner emails.
i'm a young-spirited 54 years old,
and retired last year at the age
of 53 after a lot
of hard work and a long, fulfilling,
and rewarding career ...
i'm in search of a pretty, open-minded
friend, lover, and submissive partner
(with a definite kinky/explorative/alternative
bent) for an ongoing friendship/relationship
or whatever might develop ...
i lead a very normal life and am
very successful, professional,
well-educated, and well travelled
having lived, studied, and
worked all over the world ...
i've been to over 30 countries ...
some of my many passions include
working out, running, fitness, health,
nutrition, cooking, dancing, and
a whole lot more ...
rest assured i'm sincere, for-real,
available, and am open to whatever develops ...
so, if you're a lady who can relate
to this ad and are interested in
connecting with a truly great, happy guy
i'd love to chat with you
and take it from there ...
I'm most attracted to a woman who's joyful (this is really important), happy,
and genuine. I also like a woman who is curious about the world, and who is
continually learning things and making yourself a better person.
(Why m4t? I've been with both GG and TG women, and get along fine with
either, so don't have much of a preference either way nor any hangups.)
Some other things I like: Trying any new sport that I haven't before, watching
movies at home, mountain biking, cooking dinner with a friend, playing
with dogs. But not all at the same time.