About me: for the most part, I have always considered myself to be a straight Asian male, because I am attracted, again, to feminine traits irrespective of the proper socio-political titles and roles, and anatomical logistics. I live in SF and work full-time, live alone (no kids, no pets, no housemates), and I enjoy the everyday things such as books, films, art, music, fashion, dining out, museums, good conversation, etc. I work out regularly, try to eat right, and I am well past my party phase, but that doesn't mean I don't like an evening out every once in a while. Ideally, I'd like to find someone similar to myself in regards that they are mature (at least emotionally and mentally), responsible, accountable, honest, independent, and intelligent. Being faithful to the true optimistic-realist that I am, I am hoping for the best from this small post, but expecting nothing.
Being married yourself would even the playing field but, I'm not adverse to pursuing something like this with a divorced / single woman. For me, it's about the confidence within - a woman who is sassy and sexy but also goofy and humble.. a woman who likes to have fun but can be serious and sincere as well... I want a friend first and then a lover...
Just one final note - I'm not looking to leave or change my situation. I have a good life, I'm just at a point where I feel like I'm running in place...
- I am married, it would be best if you were happily, too.
- I am content with life, but it would be nice to have tea or lunch or drink (even dancing) with a cute and vibrant woman friend once in a while. There needs to be mutual interest, of course.
- I am not looking for a "hook-up", but a little harmless flirting never hurt anyone. If we get a crush on each other, why that's okay, too, but let's see what conversation brings.
- I love joking around, telling stories with you about anything, our relationships, music, fashion, kitchen faves, staying young while getting old, etc.
Ask me anything! Just don't ever ask me to lend you money [wink]. Seriously, no topic off limits. Isn't that a main benefit of a secret friendship?
- I respect boundaries. Do you? Understand that I may sometimes need three days to get back to you, but I'm one of those detail-oriented people who returns every call and answers every letter from the aunties overseas. That's just plain good manners. (And the USPS has more caché than ever before -- who doesn't enjoy getting a handwritten letter?)
- I am educated, intelligent, discriminating, sarcastic. And sometimes too trusting.
- I am located mid-Peninsula to SouthBay, and it might be easier if you were, too. But then, we don't plan nor are we able to see each other constantly. Anticipation is a tasty hors d'oeuvre.
- I am not needy... in fact, I hesitate to post, since I have a lot to lose if things ever went cuckoo. But I would like to find a connection with someone who is unlike the people I see daily in my career. I'd love to find a womanfriend who is not originally from CA... maybe from another country. This CA native seeks an injection of fresh perspective.
- I would not tell my wife about this, as she would not understand.
- I would like to get to know you first before we meet.
whatever it is, you are aching for a good gentleman to be your savior......yes a mentally stimulating Indian man for conversation, exchanging pleasantries, talking about recipes and jewelry (yes you heard that right) and
who knows, maybe even physically stimulate you (after all you have been denied "that" also). I'm in same boat about holiday blues, need a woman who can stimulate me. Yes I'm also in a "relationship" and she is
forever busy even during holiday season. You may also need a shopping companion and who knows I can acquire few things for you a slip a few "goodies" here and there so that there are no suspicions on his part (you get my thread).
A small bit about me. I’m white, tall (5’11”), fit (170lbs), youthful, energetic, handsome by some accounts, accepting/tolerant, and have a great appreciation for irony and humor. I’m an accomplished professional and author and live in the east bay. I’m 420 friendly, enjoy wine and good food, am well-travelled, am hip, savvy, aware, politically progressive, etc etc. I’m your typical metrosexual. Sexually, I doubt you’ll be disappointed with “the package”, I love cunnilingus, and have unusual stamina/endurance as well as lot’s of experience.
So…I’m looking for--call it what you will—an FWB, sex-partner, a bed-buddy—a woman in some sort of parallel circumstance, to establish a discreet, respectful, caring, safe, regular, and mutually satisfying ongoing physical relationship—without the expectation of emotional ties, commitments, or drama. Perhaps difficult to find and sustain, but I know it can be done.
I am energetic, creative, fit, and quite easy going. I just need a bit more than is available to me right now.
Are you looking for the same thing? If so, I would love to hear from you.
I am partial to Asian and Hispanic women but very open to any race. I am 5'11" and 170lbs and would be most attracted to a woman that is not taller than I am.
Will gladly exchange pics and exercise (and expect) complete discretion since we would both have professional reputations to manage as well as our personal ones.
HOWEVER! THIS IS A START-UP! It means stress, exhaustion, frustration, and a whole lot of ass busting. It means being a self-tasker and taking the initiative. It means being adaptable and a cat: to land on your feet even if the rug gets yanked out from under you. Start-ups are simply NOT for the faint of heart or weak of constitution.
That said, you have to wonder why I am posting /here/ rather than on the job boards, right? Well, actually, I am seeking a woman that is not just a personal assistant and exec. I am seeking a very personal assistant, a very intimate assistant that would be more than happy to be shagging her boss and love to continue it after she's more than an assistant. You would need to flip from seductive and sexual to pure business and back again with the smoothness of pure seductive silk, in essence.
Please be articulate, energetic, intelligent, and discreet. We'll grow you from an assistant to an officer of the company as quickly as you are able. And that better be fast.
DDF and nonsmoker.
Able to move from sensual to business and back very fast.
Be able to grasp technical aspects.
Be articulate.
Be confident.
Be ready to stand in front of a group of people and charm them through presentations.
Be a self starter.
Be a hard worker.
Be a confident speaker.
Age is relatively unimportant: ability is all.
Race is also unimportant.
However, since I am already conducting interviews, I am going to ask that you be ready and willing to move quickly to have an interview ASAP.
The interviews are going to be in a three stage format. The first interview is a meet, greet, and traditional business interview over coffee and to see if we have chemistry. Nothing more.
The second interview will be a presentation on a related subject. I want to see how you do under pressure and under a time crunch.
The final interview - and I sincerely hope to only do one with one woman - is going to be a very private one. I want to make sure we will both enjoy what we are planning.
A resume would be the best way to start. The resume can be 'sanitized' for discretionary purposes. You don't need to send a pic on the first email, but one will be needed before we meet.
Ideally, like me, you're sweet, sincere, intelligent and attractive, and ultimately seeking a discreet long term extra-marital romance with the right person, someone who you can exchange emails with on a regular basis, and occasionally meet up with to experience sizzle beneath the sheets. It would help if you lived within striking distance of San Francisco and have some availability on weekdays.
I am down-to-earth yet somewhat sophisticated, very considerate, respectful, and romantic, gentle but passionate, interesting and fun to be with. Aside from my need to be unfaithful to my wife, I truly am honest and decent; I guess you have to be in my situation to understand. I am Caucasian, tall and very thin with a flat stomach, some muscle tone, dark salt and pepper hair, and brown eyes. I am no model but I believe I am quite attractive for my age.
I'm not interested in 1-night stands,
but rather a long-term, ongoing, special
friendship.
I'm open to age and race.
If you'd like to explore this with a
nice, nice-looking, available, unattached,
single guy who is sane,
responsible, and an all around great guy, drop me
a note and I promise to reply ...
Maybe you too have had enough of being neglected like that. Maybe you are not ready to leave your partner either, no matter what others tell you. Maybe you also think that life is just too short to live without great intimacy, love and companionship the way YOU want and deserve it. And maybe you have finally decided as well, not to put up with this void any longer but to do something about it for your own happiness.
If that is how you feel right now, then you and I are in the exact same spot and headed in the same direction. So how would you like us to join up and maybe even figure out ways to give each other what we both miss, want, need and deserve? I know how scary this first step is, but I tell you honestly that I am for real and that everything I wrote here truly comes from my heart.
Anyways.. cmon someone who wants to maybe start a good relationship get at me. Im 5'6, cute, mixed race, 135 slim body, top, str8 acting-but not in the closet, in school, really lively, can keep up with almost any conversation, iono...maybe im not as good a catch as i thought.
-I WOULD LOVE someone that i can spend time with,
-go on a walk with me to the park,
HOLD MY HAND while we watch a scary movie in the theatres,
i want to have lunch and dinner DATES....
i want someone to buy ME flowers every so often so i know they care,
i want to throw YOU a surprise birthday party,
i want to have a date to a christmas party,
i want somene to want me
i want someone to be there for me on a deeper level than ANY of my other friends
i want someone to LUST for me
I want him to be mine
i want to be in LOVE...
...... oh and i forgot... someone to explore with me sexually.... a partner in life and behind closed doors ;)
i hope you all liked my spurr of the moment poem, but im a little stoned right now, but its sincere, IM READY to meet some nice, cute, fun, and caring guys, im usually into thin/slender white boys or latino. but i do NOT descriminate so i will give any guy a chance.
ME : 23 y.o./ 6'4/ (latino/french/native american)/ 32w/ 190lbs/ smooth/ VERS/BTM/ black hair/brown eyes/ great smile/ excellent hygene/ EXCELLENT KISSER
YOU: hwp, gl, cute, nerdy, TOP/VERS/ athletic, sexy, shy/ creative, intelligent, confident/ daring/ caring/ HORNY/ goal orientd/ EXCELLENT KISSER/ and a good snuggle buddy.
PLEASE: if you like what you hear, then please send your pics and stats, along with something about you..... and lets chat...
Be willing to trade face pix. I'm not looking for a blind date! One liners and nonsense replies will be ignored. I'm NOT discrete, I am SINGLE, UB2.
ABOUT ME:
I'm six feet, two inches tall, 250lbs, 48yo, bald/blond/cropped hair, green eyes, fair skinned, hairy, husky and bearded. HIV/STD free (11/09). If you like a clean-cut, slightly handsome guy who is a little on the bearish side you'll probably like me.
My ideal date would be attractive, slender, lean or athletic build, close to my height or taller and sane, sexy glasses would be a preference (not a deal breaker though), any age between 25 and 55 as long as you have taken care of yourself physically and mentally. Fashionable would be nice... you know more than jeans/flipflops/baseball cap.
I would like to find a bodybuilder who wants to be told what to do in private and top on regular basis.
I am nice, respectful, and gentile in life, but in the bedroom I have a different personality. I am seeking the opposite of me, theat would be an assertive in life and strong looking man, who wants to be treated like the "woman" in the bedroom. and in a relationshiop. I am looking for a confident man who understand what he wants, and if either too powerful in life and needs his lover to take over in private: Or I am looking for a muscleman who wants feminization in private.
I'm looking for a fun, playful woman in a similar situation, married, or attached in a long term relationship and not looking to change that, but who is missing some of the fun at home. I'm not looking for sex, but just some playful fooling around, kissing, fully clothed mutual groping. ;-) Ideally, we'll get to know each other over some email or chat first, as I'm in no hurry and would rather some chemistry and attraction develop before we decide to take it further. I'm open to any age and race so long as you're playful. HWP. Non-smoker. D/D free, of course. I'm not a pic collector, but please be willing and able to exchange pics after a few initial emails exchanges.
If you've made it this far, hopefully that means you're interested, so drop me a line and let me know a bit about yourself and we'll see where things go. If nothing else, I'll promise a few fun emails to read. Please put your favorite color in the subject line so I know you're real.
"Start dinner. Run My bath. Rake the leaves and quick-sweep the drive. Put out My dressing gown. Wash your face, go lie back on the low horse, your blindfold on, the crop in your teeth and wait for Me to finish returning My calls and come use you."
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"Make a neat pile of your clothes on the floor in the hall bathroom. Wrap the presents on the table in the library. Make up the packages for the ones with address labels. You may snack in the kitchen. When you're done, don your collar--tight, on all fours crawl to My bedroom door, and just wait, for the signal that you can ask for admittance. I'll be sending you home in three hours."
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"I want you here at 5:30 am, in your laborer coveralls. Let yourself in, Prepare My fruit dish, croissant and coffee hot tray and bring them to My bedside. Come under the covers at the end of the bed and starting with My feet, kiss Me softly and slowly, now, so softly I don't even awake fully until you're between My thighs, right close, slowly and so quietly breathing Me in. You will be punished again, I swear, twice as hard, if you're clumsy or too fast. Afterwards, you'll drop Me to the office."
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"You'll be here by three. Just give a nod to the receptionist--she's been told, and carry the boxes right through, down the hall, back to the stockroom. Lock the door, take off your shirt, turn out the lights, be on your knees. If I haven't come to use you after an hour, let yourself out the side lot door. If I have, you can wash yourself at the work sink by the lockers."
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[ "I expect you to be in the garden at 10 pm, sharp, by the usual tree, stripped, your harness on, visible by the candlelight, arousing yourself, like I like to glimpse you. Now, if We haven't ordered you in by midnight, go home. You may not relieve yourself, of course. Ready yourself for tomorrow night, in case you get My call." ]
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[ "Be at this address by seven. My friend wishes to beat you and you will obey Her absolutely as if it were I myself. When you can't take any more, She'll you will service Her. It may go long, as She's quite difficult to satisfy. She'll see to things and will salve any bruises before dismissing you. No matter what time it is, I want you to come by and knock at the back door, so I can see how She's striped or marked you." ]
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Just plain, everyday submissive use, without dramas, scenario or frills, in tractable, dependable, ardent oral or other service to delight and obey You, release or relieve nerves/holiday pressure, one-time or at Your summons (once trusted introduction has been made) is just fine, too.
Attractive, older, very discreet, intelligent, capable, homeowning, professional (pilot, book-keeper), handy, nonlifestyle submissive, available as Your practical, silent, sophisticated servant--to drive, fetch, carry, cook, (clean), etc., and/or as Your on-call, sensual, sexy, experienced, dream slave--to serve, attend, pamper, massage, worship, please (and endure/suffer as amuses or fulfills You). Few limits.
Offered presentably, responsibly, efficiently to Your to-do list, busy schedule, need, while also abjectly, enthusiastically, responsively to Your appetite, command, wish, bondage, fetish, fantasies-- No games, trips, dependency or complications. Just straight, reliable, 100% obedience, compliance, integrity, tireless, excellent, grateful performance, for expedient, refined or rough, purely self-indulgent or favorite use as You enjoy and see fit. Being Your agent/instrument/object, serving or slaving to fulfill Your pleasure or pride of power, is my reward.
Perhaps you're in a similar situation? I love my wife but she has no interest in sex nor romance and I'm a hopeless romantic who loves sex. While the thought of leaving her and our 2 adorable kids is unthinkable, so is the thought of life without intimacy.
I am Caucasian, 6'1", 155lbs, tall, thin and fit, with dark hair and brown eyes, quite attractive for my age.
More importantly, I'm considerate, honest, interesting and fun to be with, and I love satisfying a woman, nothing turns me on more.
But let's begin with email to see if there's a connection. Mutual trust and absolute discretion are a must. Ideally you are hwp, have some availability on week days, and live in or somewhat close to The City.
I think the main age range i like is someone my age to a little younger. 24-34 plus or minus a year or two. I am open to any race for sure. FILIPINO, WHITE, ASIAN, LATINO, BLACK, ETC. The one that I would be with would be thinner and not on the bigger side. I prefer someone averagely to not very hairy. Also I am really a top, so a bottom would be cool.
Now I will list my hobbies and interests. As I stated previously, I am looking for good solid friendships also. IF YOU ARE NOT MY TYPE OR IF I AM NOT YOUR TYPE BUT WE HAVE ANY INTERESTS IN COMMON, THEN MESSAGE ME. There are plenty of guys around and we may not click for a relationship, but we might could be great friends.
I play poker a lot. I like to play on the computer and I like to go to card rooms or casinos around the area and play during the day some or on weekends. I am looking for a poker pal that likes playing for hours. I mainly play texas holdem but omaha is cool too.
Basketball is huge for me also. I like to play as much as possible. Since I work nights right now, I play a lot during the day and on weekends. Someone who likes to play basketball a lot is definitely great.
Golf has been another big thing for me. I have not played but once since I have been out here so it would definitely be cool to check out the courses around the area and to get back into the game full force if I can find the right friend.
The rest of my hobbies and interests are : football, baseball, tennis, playing pool, bowling, darts, etc. Also going to movies(action and sci fi are the best but any kind is cool). I like to play or watch any of these to some extent.
I would much rather go play poker, basketball, golf, catch a movie and go out to eat than go to a club and hang out. A good date for me is dinner and a movie. Staying in and watching tv and relaxing is fine too.
We can mostly email and meet up every once in a while whenever our busy lives will permit. Interests: talking, entertaining, hugging, kissing.
So.... if you're interested, write back. If you don’t want to send your pic, then give me an accurate description. Then, if there is chemistry when me meet in person, great, if not, nothing lost. Please only reply if you're looking for a monogamous affair, since I don't want anyone who sleeps around a lot.
I am a single white female, educated, employed, and sarcastic with hipster-esque taste and the requisite annoying snobbery that comes with it. I'm 5'4 and I suppose you could describe my body as voluptuous. My one (oh, there's probably more) vice: I smoke cigarettes (trying to quit).
Requirements:
You must be single, able to write more than one coherent sentence, and actually be AVAILABLE on Christmas Eve and Christmas day.
Preferences:
College educated or above. Smart enough to keep up. Funny (if you can make me genuinely laugh, I don't really care what you look like). Between the ages of 33 and 43. Live in the East Bay - the closer the better. Likes dogs.
If you so choose to respond, please put the word "Blitzen" in the subject line. Otherwise I will delete you.
never say "hang on" when u have to leave the phone to take a 'pee.' why not say, "hold on." mindspeak. u northern calilfornia gals, u run from truth, run from anything that upsets u rather than confront in order to protect yourselves from more, everlasting harm. i am not of that, and will not tolerate phoniness from u, yet i expect it, can hear it in your tone, your mindspeak, and in your body language. in order to change challenging circumstances into benfeficial ones, it helps to have a man of insight, courage, who isn't just 'sweet.' the world is thorny, and it takes tuffness, and often two, not one person alone, for success.
If you're curious, shoot me a reply and lets chat in IM. I am married so chatting is better than phone. You are dealing with a normal family man with a secret dirty streak, but a gentleman in every other way. So take the plunge and e-mail me. No risk or obligation. Oh and I am North/south Indian mix (UP/Bangalore mix) 5 ft 8, 155 lbs, lighter skin, good features, nonsmoker, drink very rarely, and vegetarian except in emergencies. I'm probably in the top 0.5% IQ-wise and if you care, my lund is almost 8" long and 5" in circumference, and I am very very oral .. and when I have sex I am totally dedicated to pleasing my partner.. because than she wants to please me back :) Photos on request.
Preferences: light eyes, dark hair, between 25 and 40, no taller than 5 foot 9, tattoo's and dog lover a plus (I have several tatt's and a big dog), traditional values (basically, no feminists, we won't get along).
Me: 30, in school, 5 foot 6, stocky (could stand to lose 20-25 lbs), dark hair, blue eyes, FtM/Trans (legally male: post-op, post-t), own place, own car, etc.
Unfortunately, the passion in my marriage has waned, and though, we have made several attempts to revive it, we inevitably fall back into our now established routine of being good friends, great parents and loving buddies.
Everything in my marriage, but for this, works well, and I have no intention of changing that.
However, as I have known for all of my life, one person can not provide us with all of our needs - that is why we have friends.
So I have decided to try and find a special friend. A woman, in similar circumstances, who is looking to add some spice to her life, romance to her world and passion to her love making. This of course includes a close friendship, someone with whom to share the joys and the mundane of daily living.
I have no idea if this is possible, especially through Craig's List ... I certainly am not the typical "poster," and would prefer to find my new friend within my own orbit, but that path is filled with too many potential hazards, so here I am.
About me: I am a handsome and sensual man, athletic, intelligent, creative, sensitive, articulate, and easy to be with. I have a great sense of humor, a quick wit, and I tend to see life in the positive. I am multifaceted with many interest, well traveled and worldly. I have a great smile and laugh easily.
I love my family, my life and my friends. I am exceptional on many levels (body, heart and soul) and expect the same in a lover.
I am seeking a Married or attached Lady for some Company for lunch or Coffee. I would like to meet someone that seems to be missing that spark in their life. That feel good moment during the day that just puts you on top of the world . I look to develope a great friendship along the way. If this is you, I cant wait to hear back from you.
ABOUT ME:
I strive to be a fashionable bachelor infused with all the qualities of charm, style, whit, joviality, intelligence and gentleness--yet I remains a passionate romantic. I love and live to connect and communicate with passionate individuals and thrive in any situation where fun and "fashionable people" are present. Forgoing a further glowing self-description, I hope that this standard of a friend interests you enough to write and continue a dialogue on romance and life.
ME:
32 YO, attractive, swimmer build, 6'0, 175lbs, gym 3x, white/mixed, a very nice guy who wants more than hookups.
I'm looking for something serious, but not looking for an overnight marriage. I drink every once in a while, go out to the bars, but NO PNP.
Please reply by telling me a little about yourself, and let's exchange pics.