A little about you, your short,petite,dark hair,athletic build, married,attached,or just don't have the time to deal with the drama of a male, that's not the center of your universe. You don't need or want a clingy possessive male in your life, you miss the romance, and intimacy. The thought of taking an erotic vacation as time allows, excites you.
I'm not looking for endless e-mail's, if you reply, please be as serious about this as I am.
As I was growing up, I always had a passion in playing sports. I love Soccer, and I also play Baseball, football, track and field and swimming. Not only do I play sports but i like to do other things too like watch movies, go out to dinner, read books and go to the beach at night. I would consider myself as my hero. I have overcome a lot over the years and To now I still cant believe how I am surviving. I have learned that what puts a person down only makes them stronger and you learn from the mistake. Life is an experience to be lived and can only be lived once in a lifetime. That’s all you have is a lifetime. Don’t live life in regrets and sorrow. I also learned over the years that you only have yourself at the end, So the main person you have to look out for is yourself. ..
Who I'd like to meet:
Someone who is a little like me.. I want a guy who likes to cuddle all night from sundown to sunrise. a guy who will be there by my side in good and bad. who will fight for our love and hope for ever lasting love. Someone who doesn’t give up in the sight of trouble but instead takes the initiative to take control of finding a solution to get out of it. someone who will surprise me in every way. I want a fantasy, a dream. looks to me aren’t everything but i want someone who at least is attractive enough to make something work. So if your my prince charming in that beautiful white horse, please come to me and save me from this retched pain of mine, i call life. ..
Heres a quote from me to you… its just a small gift for all of you who reads this whether you liked me or didn’t.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had . It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
heres another one im working on for you...
"i'm strong but i break. i'm stubborn and i make plenty of mistakes. yeah, i'm hard and life with me is never easy. to figure out, to love i'm but, oh, so lovely. all you have to do is hold me. and you'll know and you'll see. just how sweet it can be. if you'll trust me, love me, let me, maybe, maybe... i'm confusing as hell, i'm north i'm south. and i'll probably never have it all figure out. but what i know is i wasn't. meant to walk this world. without you and i promise, i'll try. yeah, i'm gonna give you every little part of me. then maybe, maybe, yeah, maybe, yeah maybe... i don't wanna be tough. and i don't wanna be proud. i don't need to be fixed. and i don't need to be found, im not lost. i need to be loved, i just need to be loved. i just wan't to be loved by you. and wont stop 'cause i believe. that maybe yeah maybe... it exist.. im scared but wont run.. please just let it be destined for me, for so long ive longed for it.. its mine to snatch and i shall not let go"
What I'm Looking For: I'm looking to meet a handsome gentleman (details as to what kind especially are listed BELOW) that I can make a connection with that will very hopefully develop into something lasting and intimate. I'm at a place in my life where I want to share my life with someone, make a friendship that transcends platonic compatbility to a healthy relationship. If you're in the market and available, please read on:
About Me: I'm 25 (though I have a firmer head on my shoulders than many of those in my age bracket, I feel) I'm a graduate student at Academy of Art University in San Francisco earning my MFA in Motion Pictures & Television Acting. I'm a professionally trained actor, writer, & director. I do a lot of theatre work currently as well as have a small guerilla theatre company. My main passion of life is the cinema! Absolute movie-holic here. In addition to that, my interests inlcude: world travel, friends, music, theatre, cats, astrology, hiking, biking, romance, sex, games, cooking and more! While I'm in the city for half the week, I do live 50min up North in Santa Rosa (and love it)... however, please don't let this be a deterrent! I am totally available to see you if you are in the city or nearby!
I Am:
. 5'7"
. green eyes
. dark brown hair,
. white (but mixed with lots of flavors... just ask)
. hairy,
. 159lbs, fit & work out,
. Out of the closet.
. Do not smoke or do drugs
. HIV- and STD free
. Emotionally Expressive & Highly Communicative
. With a cat!
. Monogamously Oriented
. A Homebody at Heart
. Strong Willed & Opinionated
. Versatile
. Have a Healthy, High Libido
. Assertive and Know What I Want and Not Afraid to Ask for It
. FUN!
. Anything else you feel I left out, just ask!
Qualites I Want in a Potential Lover (i.e. You Are....)
. WHITE (not into Latino/Asian/Black) I have been known to be attracted to lighter Middle-Eastern guys though ;)
. BETWEEN the ages of 21 and 43
. Demonstrate that you've actually READ this ad!
. HIV- and STD free. (This is of great importance)
. Non-Smoker (pot now & then is fine). NOT into drugs or heavy drinking (poppers are ok)
. MUST LIKE CATS
. Share a love/interest in movies and in addition the arts in general
. Out of the Closet (friends, family, etc)... unless you were raised in a horrific situation and you are no longer attached to your family
. In decent shape. I like my guys SLIM to SLIGHTLY BEEFY. (Not much into bears/stocky or guys who need to EAT more)
. Are not completely consumed with the mainstream gay culture (Meaning your ideal night of fun isn't clubbing, drinking all the time with friends and can have a life that is not always in a gay-themed context.
. Enjoy other music than what's standardly popular gay music (ideally have an eclectic taste in music)
. Be COMMUNICATIVE and open to discuss feelings, issues, and have good communication.
. Be my FRIEND as well as my lover. If the most we have in common is that we're dating, then that's not a good sign.
. Have an ACTIVE, independent life. Employed or pursuing higher education.
. Enjoy intelligent and stimulating conversation.
. Have (very very ideally) at least somewhat of a compatible taste of movies with me
. Be MONOGAMOUSLY oriented.
. Have a decntly high libido.
. Be hygenic
. Politically Left
. Not be a chronic snorer
. Love to cuddle and enjoy physical closeness with a lover (in other words, the thought of this doesn't make you cringe somewhere inside)
. A Top, Vers. Top, or Versatile.
. Have a Romantic, and Considerate Nature
. Hairy or Glasses. White Collar a +, though not required by any means. (My tastes vary!)
. Not planning to move out of the are anytime soon.
. Be someone I can feel comfortable introducing to my mother & friends
- Yes, this may seem overly picky and I may indeed be reaching for the stars here, but you know what, honestly, I'd rather be single than remain in a bad relationship (Been there, done that) and don't care for a redux. But if you feel we might be a fit and worth further conversation, by all means, shoot me a message and we can go from there. I have more pics to share with you of course, and a pic from you in your initial response is most appreciated.
Ok, the next step is yours. I look forward to hearing from you ;-) I hope I can meet someone special and handsome to boot!
P.S.- No offense intended, but please don't send me responses just to tell me you enjoyed reading the ad and good luck to me. But, I get all excited when I see I have messages from this ad and it gets to be such a drag to open the e-mail and find that it's someone who's not even a potential match, hasn't read the ad, or just wants to wish me well. I'd much appreciate it, thanks!
I am looking for an Asian date who is LTR (Long Term Relationship) oriented and willing to take things some what slowly. This means that I am not looking for just some meaningless hook up. I am also looking for someone who shares some of the same interests and values as me. Here is a little about me. I am White with a big mix of European ethnicities 26,120 in shape (you should be in shape too) and very active! 5ft 9 masculine. I was a college student at the SFSU Downtown Extension campus. I just finished with my school. I like to get out and do many outdoor activities on my spare time such as hike, go to the beach, take road trips (I have found some of the best road trips are the quick weekend get aways), explore and find new places and new things. I have been to some nice beaches. You should be between the ages of 25-45, clean, Masculine (as I am), drug free, drama free, non smoker, std free ( I am a top ), serious not flakey And LTR oriented! YOU SHOULD HAVE TIME FOR A RELATIONSHIP. I am a very understanding and flexible person and I understand that we are all very busy BUT if you are looking for a LTR we should both be able to make time to get to know each other/ Right?
Please have some prior relationship experience. You should be able to speak your mind and be honest and upfront about how you feel (as I am). I can be a very kind and caring person. I can be sympathetic and show empathy for others to a certain extent. At the same time I can also be very straight forward about things. I am serious at the appropriate times.
You:
Enlightened, Self-Aware & Healthy (emotionally and physically). Generally happy with your professional/educational choices and plans.
Age: the tickets are for someone under 30, but I'm not going to let that get in the way of meeting a great person.
Physique: Here's my take -- while I certainly find healthy, in-shape, endowed female physical attributes a
turn on, what I truly appreciate is a woman who emanates their sensuality via their personality ("comfortable in their own skin", is
another way of putting it). All that said, probably better chance for us if you like being physically active (love cycling, swimming and dancing).
If interested in coming with me to see "American Idiot", or meeting at some point, please respond with a pic and tell me more about yourself (where you grew up, went to school, interests, etc.).
Bonus points if you are/were an ahlete (tell me which sport), and currently a Cal Student or UC Alum (however, may consider one who attended the Jr. University on the Peninsula :-)
I look forward to hearing from you!
again this may sound sexual, but what i really want is a boyfriend, lets go out, get to know each other, introduce ourselves to our group of friends, go out with each others friends, and enjoy each others company, and then go back home have the dogs on the couch and with you on top of me keeping me warm and kissing each other :)
You be fit (or working on it) hwp, outgoing. Into day trips and having some fun together.
I like sex but it's not the only thing. There must be a connection and mutual attraction'
Truth be told I'm somewhat bottom orianted but never closed to other possibilities.
I am comfortable with who I am and am not afraid to explore my sexualality with someone
who is also adventurous.
I have to admit, I’m usually the slightly more dominant one in a relationship, but sooooo far from having to be “the man”…I believe in spoiling those closest to me and would not hesitate to do anything for them. I enjoy the finer things in life, but can be at the same level of ease in a pair of comfy Levi’s and an oversized t-shirt. I’ll never give you any drama and expect the same from you. Both of us are D/D free and of course, non-smoking. True friends are rare and seldom found, but they are out there to be uncovered.
What are you waiting for...share your info so we can chat...and see where it goes from there!
I am a easy going, British, laid back professional guy looking to date. I have posted on M4M here a few times and I met some really cool people. But today I am looking for more. Now this can range from a date or an overnight relationship but hope it will end up with meeting someone that I can get to know and build a strong romantic relationship with over time. Not adversed to ending up in one of our beds and waiting up to breakfast in bed, but this is also about some fun out and about etc!
As for me, I am 39, 225 lbs br/br, big strong build, 5’10’’ waist, masc, and from Europe. Clean cut and preppy, I have a good job and enjoy the good life. I enjoy everything from lying on the beach in the summer to down-hill skiing in the winter. I am also a huge fan of dining out and enjoying great food, drink and company. Would be away this weekend but been working too hard, and that needs to stop. Hoping that somebody in my life will ensure that happens! But in the meantime, hoping for some fun!
I wouldn’t say that I am into “the scene” per say, however I do enjoy going out from time to time to a bar or a club with friends. I think it is whatever you make it to be. Easy with a bar or nice restaurant, theater, a movie or higher arts!
I'm not into, wham, bam, than you man quick fuck etc, much more into the whole build up of being dominated and ass play being one component of giving up control and ownership.
In may ways the ancient greeks had it right, that the male on male erotic tension is something to be celebrated, along with opposite sex for reproduction. Enjoying the bond between men, the sexual tension, the primal desire to over power (or be overpowered by) another man and the enjoyment of exploring that sexual activity is what i love. The act of ass play and penetrating and seeding by another another man, is the ultimate action of male dominance and the act of being penetrated and seeded being absolute subordinance. It's the path of getting to this role definitive moment which was one of enjoyment, be it on the battle field, gladiatorial arena, showing the signs of wealth, power, prowess or in competition, both physical or mental and lastly within the act of overcoming and then submitting to the act of erotic/sensual/emotional ownership. As I said the ancient greeks got it right.
These days, building up to this in a private (or public for that matter!) setting also has the same erotic build up, I think getting shaved/waxed also represents the dominate partner leaving their mark on their prey; humiliation in front of a group reinforces ownership; restraints represents lost control and ability to make decisions and be able to act on them; being blindfolded or gaged heightens the other senses to extraordinary levels; performing menial tasks belittles the sub's role in life and then finally the act of subjecting to another man's masculinity and penetration as well as cum seals the deal on ownership.
So this is the psychological connection, but this is further combined with the physical stimulation. I certainly find all the above highly erotic and pleasurable, but when combined with physical interaction it completes the picture.
I am ideally looking for someone that is 30 to 49 in age, comfortable in their own skin, always gone out with Caucasian or Latino and clean cut, but open to all. I will admit I love guys with a nice smile! Professional, easy going, willing to try new things and open minded as well.
So, if you are interested shoot me an email. Tell me a little bit about yourself as well as what you are looking for. No one liners please.
Do you think I can find a guy to date on here? You never know.
I am looking to date nice, honest guys, age 25-37, someone who takes care of his mind and body, has a wide range of interests, masculine, etc.
I am a big movie buff. I love going to the movies, especially to the the independent theatre in the city and watch good films. Last film I saw was called "Paris" in the Embarcadero theatre. I'm not into big blockbuster and cheesy films. Whenever I can afford to go, I love going to concerts and plays. I really want to see Wicked soon. I am going to see Lady Gaga next month. I cannot wait!
I also like doing active things, like hiking, swimming, playing tennis, running, etc. Other interests includes travelling, going to museums, eating out and exploring restaurants in the city, hanging out at cafes.
Anyway, more about me. I work full time, I am Asian. I am laid-back,easy going, a nice guy, masculine. 5'7" 150lbs. not skinny or fat. I am a social drinker. I don't smoke or do drugs.
I'm on the good looking side, smooth youthful skin, sexy arms and legs, nice willing smile, very blue eyes, and several degrees, a soaring IQ, can conversationally entertain you forever, have a stand-up sense of humor, am discreet to a fault, am so clean I squeak, and I look and act normal in public. Oh, and thought this may sound as though it is pandering to the deepest prurient interest, my bottom is as pretty as a ramp model's.
So what's in it for you. How about a friend with integrity, caring, honesty, fun, sexy, outgoing, with no drama, no intimacy issues, no control issues, super giving, emotionally and financially sound, and in bed, your libido will be satiated as never before in your life. Darling, that would be me.
So, Batman, cull Robin from the herd. Tell me that you already fell for me, or at least, are open for a little dialogue.
Send some vitals and all about what you want to do with your new toy.
I am seeking a new relationship, one where our hearts ache when we can't be together and we get butterflies in our stomachs every time we meet. Do you remember having a relationship where you felt that way? I want someone who, in addition to being a close and special friend, is as interested in pleasing me sexually, as I am in pleasing you, in an open and adventurous way. I promise that you will not be disappointed. If you can relate to even a part of what I've described, I'd love to hear from you. We can take it slow, email first and see where we want things to go.
About me...yes, I am married, I am smart, a great conversationalist, have a great sense of humor, and have an extreme desire to start living again. Please be over 40 and under 70. Healthy, clean, D/D free. Please share with me your marital status, age, location, height/weight (strong preference to tall women, 5'7" and taller) and what has led you to do something like respond to a CL personal ad. At some point you must be willing to share a picture and I will of course share one in return but that is not necessary now. I am a caucasian male, 6'1", 200 lbs., clean, safe, non-smoker, no drugs, and very adventurous sexually but will respect all boundaries.
I am 6', 270#, brown buzzed (often bald), greenish eyes, great smile, healthy and negative...told I am handsome. I am hoping to go out with guys +/- 7-10 years of my age (this requirement isn't set in stone...just a guide so we have something in common). I've recently discovered how much I like gray hair on men. I am open to most guys but I generally like guys my height or taller but smaller than myself. No offense to anyone but I usually not into Asian men. I've spent the last 9 months being very active, walking 5 miles a day and recently hitting the gym 3 days a week. I'd love to find someone who enjoys the outdoors and would like to walk with me. I am typically attracted to more masculine guys like myself. I'm truly a romantic at heart. I'd love someone to send me flowers for no reason. I don't believe in soul mates...at one point in my life I did...but I am smarter and wiser now and I know all relationships take work. I believe we get out of a relationship what we put into it.
I work in the non-profit sector and most days I love what I do. I love to take spontaneous road trips to no set destination. I love the ocean, traveling, family, friends. I'm a great cook and have been keeping it very healthy this year. I love just about any kind of asian food. I like going to movies. I'm not much of a bar person so you probably won't find me out. I don't smoke and prefer someone else who doesn't smoke either.
Please tell me a little bit about yourself and include a picture. I will answer all emails and respond with a picture of myself. Please no one liner emails.
I am the same except that I am the sexual and sensual vixen in the bedroom. I am feminine, classy, educated and fun to be with. I am very oral and complete bottom and live to pamper my man.
I am very into hygene, not sexually promiscuous and play safe. I don't do drugs.
I am a curvy girl (not huge or anything) with natural c cups. I am not smooth all over so you must be ok with that. I dress upscale and sexy and my makeup is impeccable.
I want a man that can be with me once or twice a month and discover sexual bliss.
I am Caucasian, 6'1", 155lbs, tall, thin and fit, with dark hair and brown eyes, quite attractive for my age.
More importantly, I'm considerate, honest, interesting and fun to be with, and I love satisfying a woman, nothing turns me on more.
But let's begin with email to see if there's a connection. Mutual trust and absolute discretion are a must. Ideally you are hwp, have some availability on week days, and live in or somewhat close to The City.
Do you miss being romanced, being held, being caressed? Where has the passion gone? When was the last time you tongue-kissed? Do you want to feel that again?!
Maybe we can't leave, but that doesn't mean we have to die inside. I'm looking for one married woman, for an affaire d'amour.
Are you that woman?
Let's find each other!
I look and feel great, am in good shape, have tons of energy and a pic for a first impression.
I'm a young-sprited 54 years old, and am
sexy, tall (6'1"), dark, and handsome with
an athletic/slender build,
a great body, nice legs, an awesome smile,
big brown eyes, and a generous heart.
I'm also very successful, easy-going,
unpretentious, smart, single, and unattached with numerous
interests and passions.
If you're interested in getting to
know me, I'd enjoy getting to know
you ... !
What would you do, if, you had, on the outside, the perfect story-book life, wife, kids, job, house, car, family, friends, activities, time, energy, health, etc.... all on the surface ... but absolutely no love and affection under the covers ... you sleep alone ... night after night after boring night ... you've even given up asking as it's just not there ... it's not going to be there ... even when it's belated, begrudgingly, almost charitably provided ... it's just not there. Everything else is there though ... which just adds to the perplexity. Everything but love and affection.
Everything but sheer naked enjoyment of another's warmth, softness, and eroticism. Everything but that touch on the sensitive spot. Everything but that look, that wink of the eye, the rub, the kiss, the lick, the lavish sudden warmth, the closeness of all that is feminine.
If I didn't have everything else that I think I need, it would be simpler ... it would be "just leave" ... but, I'm only missing ... I'm only craving ... I'm only desireous of one thing ... and that would be the closeness of another human being ... of necessity a female ... a female that likes me, that enjoys me, that love being with me ... it's so very hard ... to even say this ... let alone think of the proposition ... what's in it ... what's in it for her ... I can only think that the only woman that can advise me is one who inherently understands that which I crave is normal ... I find it hard to say myself but it must be normal (isn't it?????) to want to have a woman close to me, at night, skin to skin, lip to lip, breast to chest?
Please let me know what you'd suggest. I feel strange, being married and all, even writing this ... as, as, well, as I should have no right to feel this way. But, I do. And, there's no doubt what I'm lacking (physical closeness) is truly lacking. Of that, there is no doubt. The question is how do I resolve the quandary. It's not fair to a woman to just take her for a ride. It's also not fair to me to lack that which I only rightly desire and need. The quandary is killing me (mentally). I'm so lonely. Not depressed (I have too much going for me to be very much depressed ... but melancholy might be an apt description).
Ideally, I would like to meet someone who also values what our heritage has to offer and, at the same time, can express himself in the context of Western culture. He should possess the quality of devotion, loyalty, consideration and care. Hopefully, we can find each other and grow together, experience together and share life together.
If we click, that would be great. If not, we can still explore the possibility of friendship.
Since this ad is for serious dating and possible life partnership, I would like to list some of the plus and minus points below. I am trying the comprehensive approach and evaluation of a potential date, instead of a litmus test. In other words, you don't have to meet any one or two criteria, but you have to be overall reaching a certain level of desirability in my eyes.
Ethnic Chinese from China, Singapore, Taiwan; or ethnic Korean, Japanese: +20
Ethnic Chinese from other areas from the above: +13
Ethnic Thai, Cambodian, Laotian: -3
Ethnic Vietnamese: -5
Ethnic Pacific Islander: -7
Ethnic Indian or other Asian ethnicities: -10
Mixed ethnicity within the same categories above: no addition or subtraction besides above applied points.
Mixed ethnicity across different categories above (only apply the following points, do not apply any points above):
1. one parent is of first category: +8
2. both parents of other categories: -10
Mixed race (assuming part of any Asian ethnicities): -20
Age between 30 and 46: +10
Each 5 years above 49: -5
Each year below 30: -5
Ever had body modification (e.g. pierce, tatoo): -6
Members of two or more generations of your direct family (including self) went to college: +15
Your socio-economic status NOT exceeding your parents by vast margin: +12
Either or both parents have ever been divorced: -6
Had LTR of 5 years and longer with Asian: +15
Professional in engineering, science, technology, law, medicine, research, etc: +10
Professional in fine arts, music, etc.: -8 (if published by major labels, no points subtracted)
Professional in other liberal arts (psychology, literature, history, public administration, etc.): -5
Professional in business: -2
Non-professional: -12
Had LTR with only non-Asians before: -15
Previously married with woman and with children: -10
Previously married with woman more than 5 years and without children: +7
Current homeownership: +12
Assuming base point is 5 points (given just by being able to read this post), if your final score is above 35 points, I look forward to hearing from you.
IN CASE THIS POST SEEMS DISCRIMINATORY TO YOU, I WISH TO EMPHASIZE THAT IT'S NOT YOUR WORTH OF A PERSON BEING JUDGED HERE. INSTEAD, OUR COMPATIBILITY AS LOVERS IS.
On the heavier side, I had foolishly attempted to look for my own epic love stories only to lose my soul in my 20s and found it again when I turned 30. I've worked in the corporate world as well as the non-profit world but decide to leave all that behind to get reacquainted with myself and be a better listener to what my heart is whispering to me.
I believe there are always more than two sides to a story and no one can ever see the absolute truth.
Currently, I am very single and ready for the next adventure to invite me in.
ABOUT YOU: If you are someone who is funny( but not twisted), is confident( but not egotistical), is sophisticated (but not complicated), is intelligent, educated, articulate and financially stable; you may be the one that I'm looking for. I am constantly in the spotlight and my man must also be comfortable with that. In addition, good looks, public display of affection and love to cuddle will score you additional points.
ABOUT US: Will you serenade me until I fall asleep in your arms and wake me in the morning with passionate kisses? As our relationship grows, we will become best friends who find joy in what Life has to offer and welcome occasional challenges. Your voice will be the last I hear before I go to sleep and your face will be what I awake to. We will be so close that we smell the scents of each other and we feel our warmth against each other as we wait for a table at a nice restaurant, in line for a movie, go dancing in a club, or watching the sunset by the ocean. We will always be there to make each other laugh with our quick wits and senses of humor.
If this sounds anything like what you are looking for: Let's face it, the world can be quite cold and we all desire someone to be there to dry our tears, warm our chills, and to soothe our fears. If you believe in romance, enjoy public display of affection and believe that you are not just another toad that I kiss along the way then, you maybe just the one for whom I've been waiting and I shall return the favor and offer you my devoted heart.
And together, we might be able to conquer the world.
If this sounds good let's, have coffee and talk philosophy, go on a date, catch a movie whatever feels good. I'm open to what mutual chemistry decides. Just be upfront about what you want and I will all work out. Courtesy and respect are good things.
Be willing to trade face pix. I'm not looking for a blind date! One liners and nonsense replies will be ignored. I'm NOT discrete, I am SINGLE, UB2.
ABOUT ME:
I'm six feet, two inches tall, 250lbs, 48yo, bald/blond/cropped hair, green eyes, fair skinned, hairy, husky and bearded. HIV/STD free (11/09). If you like a clean-cut, slightly handsome guy who is a little on the bearish side you'll probably like me.
You're not seeking a one-night stand or a quickie (though sometimes you fantasize that - LOL) . You'd like to get to know a man through email, and then, if it feels right, meet in person and see if it might develop into something wonderful…
You don't need a slick talker or Mr. Perfect body or another insensitive male to tell you what to do or how to be or think. You'd like someone who's definitely confident in himself, maybe in a similar type of marriage, who's emotionally available, a good listener, patient and compassionate. You want to be able to talk about all kinds of things.
Sure you can place fantasy ads all day long, but nothing great comes from them. It would be much nicer to find a special guy.
While my life is quite full, I wouldn't mind finding a handsome mature professional - banker, psychologist, lawyer, doctor, someone involved in the arts or not for profits, an executive, VC - to date and get to know. I basically want someone who can make me melt both in and out of bed.
I've got a nice career and don't need support, just a successful man with a classic, clean cut, looks fantastic on a date to the opera type of man.
I'm just 30, 135 lbs, HWP, 5 foot 8, supposedly attractive, very fashionable, definitely educated and smart, love the arts and lots of indie fashion and music. Lots more hobbies too!
Sexually, I enjoy men who are thicker rather than thin, smooth or moderately hairy, aged fifty to seventy, the grayer the better, clean and as if they treat their body as a temple. Great looking business men certainly catch my attention often. I am mainly a top and love to kiss and cuddle and explore various facets of good sex as it evolves with one special man in my life.
You'd think this wouldn't be so hard, but I'd love for a professional, full of life, busy and successful man to simply have drinks or a date with. We'll explore the rest over time.
I have my own place in a nice area of SF. I can host a date or meet for drinks dinner.
Now I'll roll the dice and see what comes up. There must be some great men out here though, right?
• Black
• Attractive - Cute
• 30’s
• 5-Eight
• One-44, slim, toned, athletic build
• Shaved head
• trimmed Moustache
• Full-time employment
• Hiv Neg and STD free
• Toppish
A Few Interests:
• Dogs – Animals
• Home improvement
• Hanging with friends
• People Watching
• Traveling
• Movies – Horror, Action, Comedy, Suspense
• Hiking
• Biking
• Watching TV at home, Hanging out at home, BBQ’s
• Motorcycle riding
• And much, much, much more
My Partner Should Be:
• Sincere
• decent communicator
• ready for dating AND in the right space for dating
• happy within
• HIV Neg
• STD free
• Probably Under 50 +/-
• bottom-ish
I am by no long shot a sparkling wit or the life of a party. I am just as clumsy as anybody else, and a little shy in the presence of strangers to begin with. But I do have a sense of humor, and would appreciate one in you too.
I cannot say that I am a complete expert in matters of the body and the heart. However, I am as eager to give as to receive, and always try to make sure that it is as good for the other person as it is for me. Tenderness is a big turn on for me - long, cozy and intimate times with a lot of cuddling, hugging and kissing; and getting to know each others bodies and minds real well. I get turned on by smell too: the male body is a so fascinating and houses so many olfactory delights! The smell of a freshly showered body; that of one dirty and sweaty after hard work; the smell before sex and the smell after; the smell of armpits, and even more private places... Taking a bath together is another fantasy of mine. Slowly undressing each other, getting wet together, the feeling of someone else's wet skin against your own, lathering each other and getting each other clean... Can heaven be very far from that experience?
I'm straight (not curious),
caucasian, nice looking, tall (6'1"),
and have a slender/athletic runner's build,
with olive complexion, black hair,
huge brown eyes, a nice smile, and
great legs.
I'm healthy, smart, responsible,
very successful, and easy-going.
Some of my passions are nutrition, health/fitness,
working out, cooking, dancing, being outdoors, playing indoors,
my job, and my friends.
I'm single (ie, not married) and unattached
(ie, not involved with or seeing anyone)
and would enjoy meeting a couple
for some ongoing adult play and erotic fun.
Maybe you want to watch your wife/girlfriend
with another guy ??
Maybe she wants
two guys ?? etc ... etc ...
If this resonates with you, drop
me a sincere, genuine note and we can go
from there.
Ideally, you are sweet, sincere, intelligent and attractive, and ultimately seeking a discreet long term extra-marital relationship with the right person, someone who you can exchange emails with on a regular basis, and occasionally meet up with to experience sizzle beneath the sheets. It also would help if you live in or somewhat near San Francisco and have some availability on weekdays.
I am down-to-earth yet somewhat sophisticated, very considerate, respectful, and romantic, gentle but passionate, interesting and fun to be with. Despite my need to be unfaithful to my wife, I truly am honest and decent; I guess you have to be in my situation to understand. I am Caucasian, tall and very thin with good muscle tone, dark salt and pepper hair, brown eyes. I am no model but I believe I am quite attractive for my age.
I am 21, white, 6 feet, 180 lbs, works out (not all muscly tho... yet), loves music and movies. I don't drive right now so I have to rely on public transportation
I smoke and I'm 420 friendly, and I like to drink sometimes. So if your not okay with that keep on looking!
You are married and you are very tired of being in charge. You want to kick back and have someone else take control
You may be anything from a bored housewife or businesswoman but you are tired of boring vanilla relationships. You want to explore your dark side, your bad girl side. You may like role playing, being spanked, have a Daddy thing or some other erotic fantasy and simply want a safe and hot way to play it out. Being dominated is always in the back of your mind creating great sexual tension. Now you can relieve it.
I am not weird or strange or fat or ugly. I am grounded, good looking, married, fit, and in charge.
For dating purposes, I tend to like to stay in my general age range (let's say 20s to mid 30s). I hope to hear from somebody. Happy hunting, everybody.
I'm most attracted to a woman who's joyful (this is really important), happy,
and genuine. I also like a woman who is curious about the world, and who is
continually learning things and making yourself a better person.
(Why m4t? I've been with both GG and TG women, and get along fine with
either, so don't have much of a preference either way nor any hangups.)
Some other things I like: Trying any new sport that I haven't before, watching
movies at home, mountain biking, cooking dinner with a friend, playing
with dogs. But not all at the same time.
I want to wear your big t-shirt in the bed
I want to cook for you
I want to rub you down in the shower and give you a nice relax massage
I want to support you emotionally
I want to be your best friend
I want to have a family
I'm a masculine quality handsome asian man in his 30's who is looking for a real masculine man to be with
If you are serious, let's not waste a moment, let's meet!!
Manufactured in 1960 on a frame of 5,9, carrying 165 lbs on my wobbly knees, this east Indian male would love to meet his partner in crime. promises care, affection, kindness, hugs, kisses, respect and will strive to make it fun and fruitful.
Im hopeing to find someone willing to work with me, and willing to meet up with us. Only thing is she is scared to meet someone on CL... so we would need to say we met some other way.
I am active, healthy, energetic and fun. I am a very attractive, adventuous woman. I will give more information about myself to those that are serious and compatable. I have to be realistic, a couple in their 20's wouldn't work, might be fun, but not for a long term relationship. My children are grown and on their own, now it's time for me to enjoy my life. You both must be willing to share eachother with me, and share me with eachother and all together too!
I am serious and real. I could go on and on, but want to save all the good stuff for getting to know eachother and growing together.
I would love to find someone to hangout with away from the club scene. I enjoy things like camping, fishing, and bowling. Also enjoy going to street fairs, sporting events, movies, and concerts. Looking to expand my horizons and meet some awesome people.
I'm a laid-back cool guy who knows what he wants out of life, you should too!
Turn Ons: Piercings, bald heads, hair, glasses, facial hair, tattoos, computer nerds, men who work with their hands, intellectuals, etc.
Big plus for men with self-confidence and men who can hold a decent conversation.
Turn Offs: Crazy/psychotic people, fake people, ignorant people, and stuck up individuals.
I am 52, WM , married , professional, looking for a Married WF between 43-60 years old who is missing the passion , romance in their current relationship. Understanding this is a big leap for both of us but we want more out of life. Excited about receiving that morning email asking how you are , what did you do last night? Sharing of the good times and having a shoulder to lean on to during the bad times , but knowing someone really cares about you . Eventually that morning phone call in the office , hi how are you!! I am looking for someone who has a great sense of humor, loves to laugh .
I love to travel and get out some around the country with my job. I am looking for someone who is in a similar position , who wants to feel the butterflies , excitement of waking up in the morning knowing someone cares about you, even though it may that morning email. Understanding at the current time difficult to change your situation.
The pet we are seeking would be pampered as any well behaved pet would be, but you will be punished as any misbehaved pet would be if you fail to follow instruction.
As an example, spanking is an art. There is a big difference between hitting someone with a paddle which can be simply annoying, and delivering a hot, escalating, teasing, spanking that brings your submissive to the edge of pleasure and pain and keeps them there for as long as you wish.
Training programs will be individually created according to your needs and desires. You may only want one session to learn some basics such as collaring, leading, spanking, and voice commands and control. You may want to develop your skills over a longer period and explore other areas such as:
Bondage, equipment, techniques
Domestication training
Obedience training and etiquette
Role play
Sadomasochism
Cock and ball torture
Masturbation techniques
Humiliation, verbal abuse and dirty talk
Teasing
Male penetration
Feminization
Role reversal, being submissive
Planning scenes
Outfits, costumes, accessories
Safety issues
I am a single white male, 55, handsome, brown hair, brown eyes, 5' 11'', 170 lbs, and I am toned and in good shape. I will send a photo if your application is accepted. I’m very intelligent, honest, safe, respectful, friendly, and submissive. I can host in my spacious two-bedroom apartment near Lake Merritt or possibly travel to you. Sex is not expected or necessary. You may wish to remain fully clothed during your practice sessions. However, the level of your desire to keep me aroused and pleasurably tormented during the training session will factor into my choice of selecting applicants. There is no charge for the training as I expect the sessions will be mutually rewarding.
About me: I work in design and sales, made some money in real estate and remodeling houses; I spend time taking care of a few properties: gardening, repairing, redecorating; I have a place in Mexico and like to travel on occasion.
Intimacy, discussing my day, teasing, laughing; I have a touch of ADD, enjoy meditation, seduction, smoking an occasional joint; give a fantastic sensual/erotic massage; not into heavy scenes or drama. I'm in-shape, healthy hiv+, 150#, 5'-10", ex-Mormon, blond/reddish grey hair.