Heya! My name is Aaron! =) I am 23 years old, stand at about 5'8" tall, and weigh around 170 lbs. A half Mexican, half Italian mix with a patch of dark brown hair to match the old fashioned brown eyes. I have an average body build and enjoy casual walks and runs on a daily basis. I'm currently a full-time working slave to the grind, out of college till the next upcoming term. I am located in Fremont (Bay Area).
To share a few things about myself - Music is the most important part of my life. I love to write, listen, play, and sing. As a musician, my main instrument is the guitar. I am also a total video game nerd. Being able to sit back and relax with good company and go a couple rounds makes each day that much more enjoyable. I can be quite talkative, too, though my friends probably know me better as a great listener. (Well rounded conversationalist?) At the end of the day, though - I still hold on to the faith of becoming a rock star - I can dream, can't I?
Who I'd like to meet... in a potential boyfriend, it starts with faith and trust and loyalty. I'm not into hook ups or one night stands, I'm a monogamous relationship minded man (and I do mean that). I'd like a man that wants to connect - who can be open with me and who can be honest with his feelings. Not just the hopeless romantic, though - I'd like to be able to just hang out casually, too. To be able to just talk, when we want. Being a gamer would be an incredible plus, being able to simply enjoy dinner and a movie also works. The boyfriend who can hang with the rest of them, too, while still having a good time with each other.
I do my best to not sweat the details on ethnicity or physique, 'cause nobody's perfect and I don't pride myself on the outside. (But of course, that's never really a bad thing, haha!) - I would like to keep the age range relatively close, though; not looking for older than 29, sorry! - And there are a few things that attract me just a little more, like... eh, being taller than me, or wearing glasses, that kinda thing. But since it's mostly uncontrollable traits, I try not to dwell on them.
Preferences? I care about one's personal hygiene, and I find myself attracted to proper spelling and grammar. (Yeah, I'm a geek!) I really mean it when I say I totally love something like my games or my music, so it's essential to either be involved, familiar, or at least understanding of it. Generally, I'm pretty passive and reactionary in nature, so a guy that is more inclined to take initiative or be straightforward with me is ideal.
Someone not being completely overwhelmed by work or so; I know we all have to work, but being reasonable and flexible in making time for one another is essential, too. I'm not a needy or picky slave driver, but actually being around is important to me. Definitely looking for some consistency - really don't have time for fakes or flakes.
Cliché as it may sound - Overall, I'm looking for someone to be the "special love" for me in my life, that can also be my best friend at the mall or stuck in traffic. From acquaintance to friend, from a date to a relationship. I hope you are inclined to reply from here; I'm willing to answer most any question about myself if you are curious to explore compatibilities. All I ask is that - if you are going to reply - please let me know where you are located; the Bay Area is moderately sized.
And please - serious replies only. I'd prefer not to deal with e-mail / text / messenger tag games, just to hit a roadblock and find you weren't ready to progress. Understanding can only be reached through confrontation. Be direct! Really, though, if you are this far... Thanks for reading; may we all find what we are looking for. =)
"Don't do anything by half. If you love someone, love them with all your soul. When you go to work, work your ass off. When you hate someone, hate them until it hurts."
You're not seeking a one-night stand or a quickie (though sometimes you fantasize that - LOL) . You'd like to get to know a man through email, and then, if it feels right, meet in person and see if it might develop into something wonderful…
You don't need a slick talker or Mr. Perfect body or another insensitive male to tell you what to do or how to be or think. You'd like someone who's definitely confident in himself, maybe in a similar type of marriage, who's emotionally available, a good listener, patient and compassionate. You want to be able to talk about all kinds of things.
Surrender your power and I will take you on an odyssey to ecstatic bliss. I will push your limits, while nurturing you. I will take charge and give you the discipline you crave. I will free you from control and you will love me for it.
Delicate dominion, tender torments, careful constraints, loving lashes, torrid excesses, modern decadence, leather and lace, fallen angles, fetishes, hard and soft, rough and gentle, pleasure and pain, breathless moments, sexual frenzy, unmitigated rapture, creative between our thighs, passions quenched....
I don't have alot of specifics of who I seek. I guess someone nice and needy like me, someone clean, and normal weight or so. That is really about it. Not much more to say. I see other men posting for the same thing here. We all have out stories as to why we are here. Some my be bs, some not. I am trying to be as honest as I can to how I feel. I'll admit I have thought about divorce. Just not ready to take that step. Hard to break away from something that has been part of half your life. There are some good things about my marriage, many. But not enough to prevent me seeking someone else at this point in my life.
Guys into movies, watching a little TV, eating out, going for long drives, hang out at the beach, eating in or walking through the woods. The type of guys I'm into: be single, somewhat h/w/p, masculine, any race or age under 55; honest, friendly, considerate and not afraid of romance. Stocky, beefy types or bears like me are certainly cool with me. Live alone in Hayward. For background information, I am versatile (so a man that is versatile AND can be versatile with me is IDEAL), oral and believe kissing and making out should be mandatory.
If this sounds good let's, have coffee and talk philosophy, go on a date, catch a movie whatever feels good. I'm open to what mutual chemistry decides. Just be upfront about what you want and I will all work out. Courtesy and respect are good things.
Be willing to trade face pix. I'm not looking for a blind date! One liners and nonsense replies will be ignored. I'm NOT discrete, I am SINGLE, UB2.
ABOUT ME:
I'm six feet, two inches tall, 250lbs, 48yo, bald/blond/cropped hair, green eyes, fair skinned, hairy, husky and bearded. HIV/STD free (11/09). If you like a clean-cut, slightly handsome guy who is a little on the bearish side you'll probably like me.
I understand -- a strong libido -- depth of passion and desire -- playing on the edge -- exploring limits -- respecting limits. Tell me what you desire and you will have it. Once you have tasted it, nothing else will do - absolutely nothing else…
The possibility of a kindred spirit who knows the dance, but has her own moves is very exciting.
I am looking for a girl that enjoys casual "nonsexual" ropeplay/tieup games. Interested in Bondage play with someone on a platonic level. Mostly want to try out different tie up and gag scenarios with some light punishments/tortures while tied. Like being kidnapped scenario, etc. I would be open to trading dom/sub roles, taking turns tying each other up and delivering what ever "fetish" punishments to the victim. I mostly find it fun as a recreation and nonsexual way. Do not care if you are or aren't involved with anyone else. Just want to find someone with mutual interest in the art of bondage and explore the various techniques with me. My hopes is that this will be a guilt free relationship from our significant others. If you would like to just tie me up, I would be willing to exchange a full body massage for you (I have practiced massage therapy for awhile).
The pet we are seeking would be pampered as any well behaved pet would be, but you will be punished as any misbehaved pet should you fail to follow instructions.
About you: str8, East Bay/SF resident, under 40 yrs of age preferably, Caucasion and/or European strongly preferred, atheltic/fit/muscular, stylish/cultured, educated, gainfully employed, honest, no past relationship baggage and possesses a great personality and positive attitude about love, life and family. If you are highly attractive, professional, educated, emotionally and financially stable, and someone who is into making a difference in his and others' lives, possess a highly optimistic outlook in life yet realistic, fun and out-going with a great sense of humor, friends & family-oriented, with a healthy value system in tact, someone who is naturally confident and secure....but always REAL and a great communicator!! I like a man who is a true gentleman (who doesn't mind opeing doors, making sure a lady always walks on the inside of a street sidewalk, into giving flowers, romantic weekend getaways, into tasteful forms of PDA, likes to date 1 person at a time, etc).
PS: Much to my disappointment, I've recently discovered that a large majority of the responses that I have received are geared towards a "casual encounter" and/or 1-night stand. I am not hear to judge anyone, but my posting was for real dating possibilies with the potential for a LTR, so if you are not looking for LTR could you move on to the next posting please. Again, I do not sleep around or believe in 1-night stands, as there are plenty of pre-op TS who feel they have to "settle" for being exploited as "sexual objects".
Before I get carried away with my desires, a few words that describe me include passionate of course, compassionate, empathetic, a good listener, fun, funny, curious, smart, articulate, politically and every other way liberal, analytical, and optimistic with a measure of New York cynicism.
please don't even consider contacting me is you are male, have a male in the wings wanting to participate, or want to save my soul from everlasting damnation.
I will tie your wrists to the bed or behind your back with pretty ribbon or a pair of your dirty pantyhose. I will rip your underwear off or leave them on you and cut them at the crotch. I will shave your pubic hair. I will have my way with both the front and back sides of your body. I will take you whichever way I want. I will be a little rough. I will pull on your ponytail as I guide your head back and forth on my hard cock. I will make you feel dirty and ashamed as I verbally humiliate you in your own home or apartment. I will talk extremely dirty to you. I will satisfy your desires and fantasies. I will leave you wanting more as you know you can't fully have me.
My office is based in the East Bay and I work a flex schedule. I'd be looking to spend some time with you once a week during daytime hours at your place or my office. All I ask that you be d/d free and a non-smoker like myself. I expect discretion and I will reciprocate. I am 5-10 180 Caucasian, non smoker, drug/disease free, and intelligent.
Now that we got that addressed. When it comes to hanging out I have a lot of interests from anime to all kinds of music, video games, physics and art. I used to play DnD and MTG, but I'm so out of practice. I like the outdoors too, loving this Bay Weather, it's very lovely out here. Like going to movies. Social Drinker, occasional smoker (i.e a pack a year can take it or leave it). When it comes to more romantic endeavours I'm passionate like making out and related good times.
I'm a fun loving, hard working, energetic, loyal , & respectful dude
I'm adventurous, love the outdoors like the beach, or park
I love conversing, the occasional night out, movies, music, art, pets / animals
I especially love pleasing, & treating my man like my king
I'm interested in a guy any race, 21-35, who is grounded, energetic, goal oriented, determined, compassionate, fun loving, hard working, drama free & my greatest trait LOYAL! ( hard to find)
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The woman I seek is a very special person. You need a strong and confident man to Take Control, someone who can handle you...your Submissive self needs this. You long for a man to protect you, cherish you and guide you...you need to Obey and in this you make your desire complete. I want you to be over 19 years of age, living in the Bay Area not far from Castro Valley, is single and not attached to any man. She is not a "gold digger", not looking for a "sugar daddy". You are into and prefer to be with a man of Maturity, you like a man who is Big and Tall and Masculine...like I am: 6 feet tall, 275 pounds, blond, green eyes...your Big Teddy Bear to keep you safe and warm, satisfied and pleased... and forever Loved. You are not looking for a meaningless fling. You believe in the Power that an older man has over You. You believe that a man and a woman should be devoted to each others Happiness. You are reaching for the Brass Ring of Love. This time you will grab it!
I don't care about your size or shape or color as long as your smile is warm and real...as long as you are Real with your feelings and never hesitate to share all of your thoughts. Total Honesty will reward you with the heart of a man who will never want it to end between us. Likewise, you know the secret to True Lust/True Love: it is blind! Love does not have eyes, Lust does not have a need for Wealth...Love and Lust has Power! The Power to satisfy, the Power to heal both Body and Soul If you believe that, then you are the girl for me. You are not into drugs, you do not smoke. You have no STDs and you never will.
You:
Enlightened, Self-Aware & Healthy (emotionally and physically). Generally happy with your professional/educational choices and plans.
Age: the tickets are for someone under 30, but I'm not going to let that get in the way of meeting a great person.
Physique: Here's my take -- while I certainly find healthy, in-shape, endowed female physical attributes a
turn on, what I truly appreciate is a woman who emanates their sensuality via their personality ("comfortable in their own skin", is
another way of putting it). All that said, probably better chance for us if you like being physically active (love cycling, swimming and dancing).
If interested in coming with me to see "American Idiot", or meeting at some point, please respond with a pic and tell me more about yourself (where you grew up, went to school, interests, etc.).
Bonus points if you are/were an ahlete (tell me which sport), and currently a Cal Student or UC Alum (however, may consider one who attended the Jr. University on the Peninsula :-)
I look forward to hearing from you!
again this may sound sexual, but what i really want is a boyfriend, lets go out, get to know each other, introduce ourselves to our group of friends, go out with each others friends, and enjoy each others company, and then go back home have the dogs on the couch and with you on top of me keeping me warm and kissing each other :)
You be fit (or working on it) hwp, outgoing. Into day trips and having some fun together.
I like sex but it's not the only thing. There must be a connection and mutual attraction'
Truth be told I'm somewhat bottom orianted but never closed to other possibilities.
I am comfortable with who I am and am not afraid to explore my sexualality with someone
who is also adventurous.
I am seeking a new relationship, one where our hearts ache when we can't be together and we get butterflies in our stomachs every time we meet. Do you remember having a relationship where you felt that way? I want someone who, in addition to being a close and special friend, is as interested in pleasing me sexually, as I am in pleasing you, in an open and adventurous way. I promise that you will not be disappointed. If you can relate to even a part of what I've described, I'd love to hear from you. We can take it slow, email first and see where we want things to go.
About me...yes, I am married, I am smart, a great conversationalist, have a great sense of humor, and have an extreme desire to start living again. Please be over 40 and under 70. Healthy, clean, D/D free. Please share with me your marital status, age, location, height/weight (strong preference to tall women, 5'7" and taller) and what has led you to do something like respond to a CL personal ad. At some point you must be willing to share a picture and I will of course share one in return but that is not necessary now. I am a caucasian male, 6'1", 200 lbs., clean, safe, non-smoker, no drugs, and very adventurous sexually but will respect all boundaries.
• Black
• Attractive - Cute
• 30’s
• 5-Eight
• One-44, slim, toned, athletic build
• Shaved head
• trimmed Moustache
• Full-time employment
• Hiv Neg and STD free
• Toppish
A Few Interests:
• Dogs – Animals
• Home improvement
• Hanging with friends
• People Watching
• Traveling
• Movies – Horror, Action, Comedy, Suspense
• Hiking
• Biking
• Watching TV at home, Hanging out at home, BBQ’s
• Motorcycle riding
• And much, much, much more
My Partner Should Be:
• Sincere
• decent communicator
• ready for dating AND in the right space for dating
• happy within
• HIV Neg
• STD free
• Probably Under 50 +/-
• bottom-ish
I am by no long shot a sparkling wit or the life of a party. I am just as clumsy as anybody else, and a little shy in the presence of strangers to begin with. But I do have a sense of humor, and would appreciate one in you too.
I cannot say that I am a complete expert in matters of the body and the heart. However, I am as eager to give as to receive, and always try to make sure that it is as good for the other person as it is for me. Tenderness is a big turn on for me - long, cozy and intimate times with a lot of cuddling, hugging and kissing; and getting to know each others bodies and minds real well. I get turned on by smell too: the male body is a so fascinating and houses so many olfactory delights! The smell of a freshly showered body; that of one dirty and sweaty after hard work; the smell before sex and the smell after; the smell of armpits, and even more private places... Taking a bath together is another fantasy of mine. Slowly undressing each other, getting wet together, the feeling of someone else's wet skin against your own, lathering each other and getting each other clean... Can heaven be very far from that experience?
You are married and you are very tired of being in charge. You want to kick back and have someone else take control
You may be anything from a bored housewife or businesswoman but you are tired of boring vanilla relationships. You want to explore your dark side, your bad girl side. You may like role playing, being spanked, have a Daddy thing or some other erotic fantasy and simply want a safe and hot way to play it out. Being dominated is always in the back of your mind creating great sexual tension. Now you can relieve it.
I am not weird or strange or fat or ugly. I am grounded, good looking, married, fit, and in charge.
I: 43 (but much younger-looking!), European, Caucasian, 5-6, fit body with hard muscles and nice round butt, attractive, sexy blue eyes, dark-blond hair, neat, clean, educated, adroit, humorous, positive-minded, down-to-earth, very passionate, very sensual.
You: 25-45 (-but not carved in stone!), pretty & sexy lady of any race or color (black/African-American, Latina, Asian, white/Caucasian, etc.), busty, round arse, any height, very sensual, very kissable (must like kissing!!!), intelligent, optimistic, energetic, funny.
I am seeking a fun and easy-going friendship-with-benefits relationship, which could turn into more in the future...
I need some affection and the touch/touches of a hot & busty woman!